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I’m seeing a guy long distance 5 months now. We met second time 2 wks ago. People say a guy needs meet family by 6 months.
I want visit this guy at state he lives August and meet his family. But I feel he’ll never ask me to meet his family. I’m not even sure if I’m his girlfriend as he never asked me to be his girlfriend. So all day I’m confused if he’s my boyfriend or not. I also never had a guy ask me to be his girlfriend so I just assume in my head a guys my boyfriend.

I don’t want continue seeing this guy Sep to Dec and I show up alone to the family parties and Christmas show up alone, while my whole family show up with their boyfriend 😔 it’ll mean I’m single. And my boyfriend a ghost.

im sad becuase I really liked this guy and we have a lot in common.

but there’s no point have sex with this guy all year and never progress relationship. I’ll just feel like I’m not a girlfriend 😔 it’ll be same situation like ex guy I dated 7 years and we never met family and he use me for sex

Going to be 30 soon & ask myself why I’m incapable of being in a relationship with a man, people can say that I’m picky but I don’t fully believe I should take all the blame. Female friends I’ve had in the past seem to get dates easier/are okay with putting out & some have unintentionally made me second guess my looks, as they seem to have it easier yet other people have told me I’m equally/more attractive than they are. The last time I “dated” someone was when I was in my early twenties & I’m glad that ended because this guy felt like settling. It justifies that love isn’t blind & it’s better to be alone vs being in a mediocre relationship. I know I’m not all that but I feel like I should be able to attract quality men, all my life I feel like I’ve been invisible to men. I’ve never been approached in person by a guy I’d like to date (don’t count dating apps) & the very few times someone told me that a guy found me attractive (normally a guy I also thought was attractive), they never told me directly & it was always word of mouth.

I feel like I am cursed, that last person I saw in my early twenties was through a dating app & that’s how I’ve met all of these men I’ve met up with. The apps are continually getting worse & they’ve always had a bad rep, getting matches are never an issue it just fails to go anywhere for a number of reasons. And sometimes when I’ve met guys in person & it didn’t work out, there’s just something about them that doesn’t live up to my expectations (even though they look like their pics). I’m unsure if my dating logic is unrealistic, dating apps are the only way for me to meet people & don’t understand how I can be this old & haven’t been in love yet.

The last thing I’ll add is my lack of sex drive, masturbation doesn’t do anything for me & I haven’t had sex since I saw that person back in my early twenties. However, it’s known that some women need to be in a healthy relationship in order to have that *sexual desire*.