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Search Results: finding someone
The thought of someone loving me makes me sick.. why?
I hate when a guy is infatuated with me.. it just makes me feel really upset and anxious. I feel like they’ll see how dumb I am and lose interest. I feel like they can do better.. I’ve been called slow , stupid, dumb all...
Anonymous
(25-29) What do you do if every woman thats a perfect match for you is inaccessible?
"Your message can't be delivered, this person's inbox is full because you took the time to write something thoughtful and interesting, instead of just saying hi to beat other guys to the punch" "This person ignored your...
TheSpaceGnome
Master Age: 39 Am I a space holder?
I met him almost 4 years ago, shortly after I moved a couple hours away. He found himself in a relationship and we just stopped talking for about a year. He tried reaching out a few times but only one of them we actually...
Anonymous
(30-35) If "looks don't matter," then why is dating harder for those considered to be unattractive?
*Disclaimer: I use the term unattractive very loosely as it's hard to define what someone considers to be attractive or not. For the sake of this question, let's assume you do not see yourself as an attractive, highly...
I am feeling empty since I gave up trying to make the only girl I talked a lot to my girlfriend We still talk but not much how to fill the void?
I now know she wasn't worth the effort. But finding someone New is not really something I have control over
Anonymous
(30-35) How would a shy girl put herself out there to find herself someone?
So stupid question and some might say I must not be shy if I can ask the question here but I'm fucking shy that even I have to admit it. I just... well, I mean I'm only 18 so some may say I'm still young and to focus on...
river23
Xper 3 Age: 22 Can you ever truly trust a cheater again? Do cheaters ever change?
One would think I would have learnt my lesson by now my boyfriend of 9 years had an online romance that lead to a one night stand. He denied it at first but the other woman was rightfully upset and told me ( she...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Deep dive in to what it means to a man when women say "I am proud Dog Mom", or "I am interested in making new friends" on their online dating profile.
Obviously men go to online dating apps for a variety of reasons, but primarily these guys break down into two categories; the ones that are looking for quick and easy sex, and the ones who are genuinely looking for a...
Why is he bothered about me messing with another guy when he said I could?
So pretty much when he started to mess with someone else, I ended up finding someone to talk to as well, I admit I was very hurt about it and in my feelings. Come to find out 6 months later he was bothered by me talking...
sd1223
Yoda Age: 29 Anyone else feel alone?
I don't know why I’m even typing this, I don’t know what I expect. I lost everything about a year ago. Made a massive gamble on a partner to have them betray me and take everything so nothing unique. Since then I’ve just...
Anonymous
(25-29) Girls, Part 2. I’ve become a bit of an Incel, and would like to know your opinions. Am I the problem?
My first and since then my only girlfriend, now ex. Left me with trust issues that I still have to this day. I grew up in the military, overseas. We met in high school. She was the only girl who I could be myself around,...
Anonymous
(25-29) My family loves gaslighting me and pissing me off. What do I do?
This is unlike any of the questions I normally post, so bear with me here as it might turn into an emotional rollercoaster. Long story short, I've been feeling very aggravated lately. I can't seem to find a job, my...
A good first date leads to a good second date: some advice and suggestions
This MyTake was inspired by a question recently posted by @AnnaTumbles: What first date tips do you wish everyone knew? First, why is a 67 year-old dude giving advice about dating? Because I have been dating, or in...
u Would you feel disgusted in dating a non-white person if you found out all their past romantic relationship were only with whites?
There is a term called, rediscovering your culture, that refers to non-white (usually female) that spends most of their youth, dating exclusively white people only to go back to their race later in life when they are...
Anonymous
(36-45) Read a myTake just now. Do you think that too beautiful & below-average-looking people are the ones that face the most problems in/for relationships?
The medium-looking ones are fine, they get someone sooner or later. But the two extremes are the ones that have this problem of not finding someone, as easily as the medium-looking ones. Do you agree on that? This is the...
Anonymous
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MoniqueTLC
Xper 6 Age: 31 Why do people lie about physical appearance and it's affect on relationships and society?
Why are people lying about physicality's importance on dating, romance, and life in general. There are multiple studies that prove that physical appearance reigns as the determining factor in finding a mate and being in a...
Anonymous
(25-29) How does it work to get set up with someone by a friend?
After my breakup, I waited until I knew I was over her before deciding I was ready to date. A distant cousin of mine was there for me while I was going through the difficulties, becoming my best friend. When she had seen...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) What's wrong with having sex in infatuated relationships as a way of finding the right partner?
What I mean is, what's wrong with engaging in sexual relationships as a way of finding the right partner, knowing that you will probably have several such relationships before finding the perfect life partner? No...
What to do when I can’t move on so fast?
I broke up with my boyfriend of a few months a couple of days ago. While we were on a break last month I unexpectedly met guy B. Guy B is lovely (from what I know so far), but he's rushing things. I guess it’s...
Anonymous
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