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Search Results: is it selfish of me
Experiences on dating men with a very low self-esteem?
Hi all, I'm a straight woman in 30s and 2 weeks ago I started dating an ex collegue of mine, we used to work for the same company 7 years ago but we never actually met each other. We matched on Bumble and that's how it...
Anonymous
(36-45) Not everyone is open minded right as they claim to be?
I heard this term before “ It’s better to keep somethings in your heart and not express it” Isn’t that a selfish way of saying that we will not accept and be open about certain things we see from someone...
Amara_09
Xper 5 Age: 26 If I had no boyfriend before or sexual experience I’m not a fan of hookups. I’m afraid no one will want me will no one want me?
This messes with my mind so much but I just don’t like the idea to get used for someone’s else’s selfish reason will anyone want to be with me because of this. Only 20 but feel that I’m behind everyone and I feel I won’t...
laurlaur101
Xper 5 Age: 23 Am I selfish because of my perspective on human relationships?
I was raised in a religious home where they taught me that family is very important and a priority. If a family member whom I appreciated asked me for a favor (as long as it did not alter my personal integrity? I would...
Anonymous
(18-24) Why is it that parents generally do not warn their sons against dating selfish/disrespectful/exploitive women?
I remember a very long time ago I told my mother what issues I was having with a girl I was dating. She said “Oh Joey that girl has no respect for you”. Now that wasn’t what I wanted to hear but it was exactly what I...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is my husband using me or is he just selfish?
So my husband is 40 and I am 32. I work and he doesn’t. We have kids and lately he comes up with all kinds of business ideas. Well, I usually support all his ideas physically and financially but the latest one I just...
Anonymous
(36-45) Do you have an avoidant attachment personality?
Whatever that means. It would explain my conflictedness happily about liking my space, yet also ideally liking a wife or girlfriend, no offspring thanks, being a control freak and also enjoying my isolation periods alone...
systemsareyo
Xper 5 Age: 32 Is Monogamy inherently toxic?
Is the belief or ideals of Monogamy inherently toxic? For example Hollywood ideals we have come to know such as true love and soulmates demand both partners to be perfect for the entire marriage or relationship! Or...
9in_Serpent
Xper 5 Age: 33 
Do you plan on marrying and have children? Why or why not?
For the people that don't want too marry or have kids, have you ever thought of the idea of being the one to kill your family tree? If you are already married and have kids, is it how you'd imagine it to be?...
Anonymous
(25-29) Do I have the right to be angry and hurt in this situation? Or am I just being naive? Did she actually reject me because of school?
I liked this girl in school for a while but never actually intended to start a relationship with her. We weren’t friends either I just thought she was attractive. One day, she randomly texted me something about a class we...
alvib
Xper 2 Age: 19 Have you ever tried to leave a friends with benefits and they will not leave you alone?
Like I told this man I want a boyfriend for 2024 that I’m tired of being friends with benefits basically. his response was he understands and he loves me enough to not hold me back and he hopes my future is as brave as my...
hunnie-bunches
Yoda Age: 47 
Anonymous
(25-29) Why do most girls Have the grass is greener syndrome in them?
Through my experiences with girls’ and what I witnessed with other couples , it seems Females’ always find flaws in their partner , to give them an excuse to leave or cheat on her partner , Like nothing he does is ever...
Is it wrong or selfish I dont want my sister to go to the same plastic surgery as me?
my sister has a habit of copying me and claim it as her own.
Anonymous
(30-35) Is it selfish that I dont want my sister to go to the same plastic surgeon as me?
She has a habit of following me and copying me although i am younger. Further she likes to claim things as in when were watching a movie, if she thinks a character is the most attractive, she will say they have similar...
Anonymous
(30-35) I really feel sad for my husband, will the guilt go away?
I hope you all had a good start of the year. My husband and I made a couple resolutions for the New Year. The main one is starting a family and we've agreed it would be by a sperm donor. I can't help it but feel sad for...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is it OK to ask for space in a relationship?
Or does it seem selfish to you when your potential partner asks for some space?
nicole
Xper 5 Age: 39 Why are people getting more evil?
I'm wondering I know this is trouble times but I don't understand why people are becoming my seriously coldhearted. I noticed how selfish everyone has become. People have no mercy these days either. One example I seen...
Anonymous
(25-29) Am I wrong for not wanting to be involved in helping take care of my fiancés grandma?
I’ve been living with my fiancé and his grandma for about 7 months now. Lately she has been getting even sicker (she’s on oxygen 24/7) so that also contributes to her having some breathing issues as well. It’s been a few...
Anonymous
(25-29) Am I selfish for not sharing my money to my relatives/friends?
Whenever I have salary I always save it I dont really treat my relatives/friends to restaurants neither they are to me. I dont even give gifts to anyone unless they are my immediate family and if only my immediate family...
Anonymous
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