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Met this girl on a Christian dating app. She only lived 1mile away. She even sent the first message which rarely happens and actually kept th conversation going. We talked for two days off and on. She would go to prayer meets with friends and bible study and therapy. Claimed to have been abused by her ex. Said she stopped being Christian and had sex with him but regretted it and now says that God has forgiven her. She's apparently all about bodily autonomy. Claims to not want kids until after marriage. I honestly don't want kids at all but I told her after marriage because I knew not having kids at all would have been a deal breaker. Long story short, she ends up texting me saying she prayed on it and decided she couldn't trust anyone she met online and that it wouldn't work out between us. I told her I understood but there's still a dull ache. I had asked God if she was the one he held onto for me and to give me a sign. I guess that was the sign. I'm honestly glad though because if being touched triggers her to the point of panic attacks, I don't think it would have been a healthy relationship. Thought Christians weren't supposed to live in fear. Was she a true Christian? Because I don't think she is...

We have been together for 2 years. She is 30 and I'm 34. I had a previous relationship in which I had sex basically twice a day or once a day and it made me feel satisfied. But in my current relationship we only have sex about once a week and it is absolutely been killing me for the past year. I have tried so hard to make it more romantic and watch a movie or go out together, give her all the space she needs and wants. But it just never really got better for longer than a few days.

I’ve tried to talk to her about it but she has such dumb excuses n lies every time. She even used to be an escort. An even bigger red flag 🚩

Even though she doesn’t want sex. She still wants to spend all her time with me. For example, she wants to go everywhere together, and cuddle n kiss each other to sleep every night. She even tells me “I love you” multiple times every hour and wants to be affectionate. She even wants me to text her regularly and keep my Snapchat location on so she can see where I am. She also gets jealous when I speak to other women.

But mostly says no when it comes to sex. I love her but I can't handle this for the rest of my life to be honest. I broke up with her before and she was really sad. I took her back and she was crazy sexually submissive, but again it was only for a few days.

We are on vacation in Chicago at the moment. We came here for her family reunion. When we come home I’m gonna get rid of her permanently. I have therapy appointments already set up to cope with the coming break up. Should I tell her the reason or just let her go?