Search Results: hurt in relationships

Do you know what it’s like to know for certain that you’ll never have a romantic relationship with anyone?

It hurts like hell and there’s no changing it.

Anonymous

(25-29)

Trying to temporarily forget about girls due to my bad appearance. Is it reasonable?

I’m a 21 yo guy, balding and stuttering. I’m tall and fit (i’ve been a swimmer for a decade. Now that i’ve quit, i’ve been going to the gym for about 4 years) It's probably one of the worst combinations, honestly. Balding...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Anyone else really jealous in relationships?

I get so jealous and possessive when I like someone IT HURTS lol. I can’t have him speak to other women or be friends with other women.

LostandFound__x

Xper 6 Age: 28

Girl's Behavior

If women can't tell suttle red flags then why do they still date and get in relationships?

normally when we humans get hurt constantly we stop doing whatever it is that is causing that harm, but for some reason this does not seem the case with women. women never seem to learn how to avoid toxic dudes and the...

Filthy_Immigrant

Yoda Age: 39

Do I give him ANOTHER chance?

I had a brief relationship with Dion for 6 months in 2019. I believed he was the love of my life. He ended it abruptly which broke me. I spent 2019 to 2021 trying to get Dion back. He said he didn't want to be in a...

Unrealiseddream

Xper 4 Age: 40

Girls always want guys to be there for them, why does it always seem like when it's the other way around they're too busy to care?

There's a reason I ask this, I seen a recent question touching on this. Sadly this is so true also. I'm friends with dudes, the sad part about this is there's been multiple times with different people where I've actually...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Family & Friends

He wants me. I don’t want him. Help, please?

My guy friend of 3 years who I’ll call *Derek* has come onto me really strongly. He was preening, looking at my breasts when he thought I wasn’t looking, enquiring about my relationship status and standing really close...

HappyWoman34

Explorer Age: 37

I found out my boyfriend is married and he doesn’t know that I know?

I always suspected something was off because he seemed very secretive and I did some snooping and I found a recent picture of him and his wife and other pictures of him with a wedding ring. He doesn’t know that I know and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why does she mess with me?

She messaged me on the same day that I left. She called and was a bit upset, but she started talking like we used to. We messaged a bit last night about the relationship. She said things like "I'm not against fixing...

Ice_knight

Xper 5 Age: 30

Is something wrong with me?

I feel like I have wasted my life, I don’t know why but a lack of any relationship and love makes me feel like a failure. I don’t know why this hurts me this much. I am trying my best to get past this feeling. Did you...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How long will it take for my (then girlfriend) now fiancee to feel secure again?

She's still hurt about the break-up from March. She broke up our relationship of 6 years and I was obviously heartbroken. I've already proposed two months ago, which she accepted but wants to postpone wedding plans for...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Are relationships becoming less and less existent due to trust issues?

Honestly, I think they are. No one wants anything serious anymore, just hookups. Everyone has been hurt so bad that trust issues are stopping people from looking for something long term. Or, if people are in a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Men playing hard to get?

do men play "hard to get" when they've been hurt in previous relationships? for example, my current boyfriend has been hurt by previous relationships that involved financial drainage, creating credit cards under his name...

AnonGal233

Xper 1 Age: 35

Several of my previous relationships have ended, and after going on more than one first date/meeting up in 2023, I am now single?

What caused my previous relationships to end, and after more than one first date or meeting in 2023, I have been single for more than two years. What are your suggestions? I'm women with a learning disability and my age...

CaitlinSims25

Xper 5 Age: 27

My boyfriend cheated on me emotionally with his ex. I’m giving him another chance but how can I move on from this?

My boyfriend have been secretly talking with his ex behind my back. It started out with just work (which I was fully aware of) but then it evolved into an emotional affair. They call each other baby, say I love yous, send...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do I move on, and what do I do?

Just a brief history of things. I have some very bad abandonment trauma that I didn't really know existed until this relationship. It is my first, and it's been a doosy. I think I know what's best, but it just hurts very...

Ice_knight

Xper 5 Age: 30

How to move on from this embarrassing fart moment with my crush/new boyfriend?

I was in the library working on a project with this guy who is in my biology class. We always had a super flirty relationship and he always teases me in class. Example: He would take my notebook and write inappropriate...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How long should I wait to ask him for more time together?

We've known each other 7 months, been talking 3 months, officially dating 1.5 months. For the past 2.5 months, I've been going over and staying the night one day of the week at his place (he lives an hour away). Sometimes...

Anonymous

(30-35)