Search Results: friend or boyfriend

Do you thing my older sister was right for setting me straight and tell me to give my guy friend a chance?

So earlier today I was sitting outside talking to my sister and how I’m never going to find the right guy. Also how my crush (let’s call him Devin) lied to me about having to work when he is going out with another girl....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Flirting

Why is that everytime I meet a guy, my guy friend is always in the way or say I’m his girlfriend?

He did that when we were in high school. Like when I meet a guy, he immediately don’t like him and says I’m his girlfriend and the guy walks away. I got angry at him and scolded why and I’m not his woman. He told me we...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why Don't Guy Friends Get Closer?

So a few days ago, My boyfriend had his bestie over to watch some movies. To save some money we are keeping the thermostat down this winter and have just been using blankets and dressing with more layers to keep warm....

emeraldsaphire

Yoda Age: 31

Break Up & Divorce

Is there any way I can convince my ex boyfriend to stop smoking?

I met my ex boyfriend back in 2018 and we began dating in 2022 and broke up in November of 2024. While it was my intention to go no contact he has recently been reaching out to me attempting to rekindle. While I do love...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Our first Valentine's day fail?

My boyfriend and I have been together 7 months. He's never had a girlfriend before me. For our FIRST Valentine's day, I have gotten my hair done, nails done, a new outfit and him a gift. Meanwhile he waited until last...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Valentine's Day

Our first Valentine's day flunked?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Army guy still wants to be with me even though I have a boyfriend, should I be worried?

So as the title states I have an army guy who I knew before he went into the army and he recently commissioned my art but after he kept talking to me and it lead to him confessing that he's obsessed with me and I told him...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Should I just give up on men? Why do guys pretend to like or want to go out with me?

My best friend (let’s can her Frannie) and guy friend (let’s call him Eddy) told me they saw my crush (let’s call him Devin) out with another girl and told me he has a girlfriend. I told them to just stop and they did...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girls, do you prefer/ want a guy friend/boyfriend to be friendly either to other guys/girls?

aquamarine321

Xper 7 Age: 31

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What do you consider your most and least helpful advice you have ever given to someone? To who and why?

Most helpful: I told my friend to dump her lazy and inconsiderate boyfriend. Best advice ever because he became a junky. Least helpful: I told my sister that her boyfriend is the one for her. Well, he had his fun with my...

TheLovelyWoman

Xper 6 Age: 42

I will be 21 in a couple of weeks, and I feel extremely socially stunted. What should I do?

Growing up, I always felt like an outcast. I loved art and some things that most girls didn't enjoy, though I still liked dresses, hair, nails, dolls, etc. I didn't really know how to make lasting friendships. I would...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Is it normal for a woman to like a guy who's shorter than her?

I'm short and so is she, but I happen to be so short that I'm shorter than her, I found out that she likes me anyway from her friend. We've been out on dates and she told me that I'm her boyfriend now.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Valentine's Day

Am I the only one that thinks Valentine’s Day is stupid?

I mean why make it one day of the year when you can show love to your loved new everyday. I’ve been asked who’s the lucky guy this year but I said there’s no guy and I have no crush on someone. My best friend said,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is it to early to say I’m in REAL love?

Since we got in contact again, my crush (let’s call him Devin) and I have been taking a lot. Our date last week was amazing! We talked caught up. He isn’t the same person he was back in high school. People do change after...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Why do some women not eat too much or not eat at all?

I have a friend that doesn’t eat much. She only eats salad, water and nuts. I told her, “Why don’t you EVER eat a meal? I hope you’re not going to develop an eating disaster.” My friend looked at me and said, “Girl...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Am I dumb for staying?

My boyfriend had a saved but not liked video of some sketchy cite to get girls pictures and like web call w/ them on tik tok. I pushed it off like it was maybe an accident he saved it but my friends think im comb for...

molly_dolly885

Xper 1 Age: 19

Cheating in my dreams meaning?

Me and my boyfriend Tobi have been together for almost a year. In 2021 I was dating someone else, Tim, for a few months and we had a thing again in 2023. As it happens, Tobi is my ex's best friend and the three of us and...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Boyfriend said "Where them hoes at"?

My boyfriend plays a lot of videogames with his guy friends. Well, today I went into the room and he was chatting with his friends about something and he said, "Where them hoes at?" He then turned around and was startled...

Anonymous

(30-35)