Search Results: commitment

He hugged me 10+ times during the first date - interested or being a player?

Went on a first date this weekend. And it is sort of feeling like mixed signals. Date was dinner + a bar with dancing. Dinner was good - lots of topics covered during the convo. We got into briefly what we are looking for...

missvivacious

Xper 4 Age: 34

Why do you think most men differentiate between women to only have sex with versus women to commit to? Whereas most women don't?

Biology says this is true, backed up my research and studies Also, conversations with friends of mine over the relationships and hookups we've had attest to the truthfulness of this as well. For women, most of...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Religion & Spirituality

Do you agree with my view that wisdom in proverbs = obedience?

I believe wisdom in the bible is another word for submission to the teachings of the bible. Because it says wisdom leads to patience and I find when I obey the teachings perfectly, even for a very short amount of time, my...

jennifer_bloom

Influencer Age: 41

Thinking what to do?

I've been seeing my ex girlfriend for 3 months now and we've hungout, went on dates, sex and everything... we went 2 months in the summer without seeing each other and we're not exclusive right now and she's talked about...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What do you think of a guy who wants a commitment with no work?

Like I knew a guy who wanted to date me and he did not help me out when I was lifting a pack of water bottles into his friends basement even though he was taller and had more muscle than me, then he behaved as if I was a...

jennifer_bloom

Influencer Age: 41

I fell for this one mf who happened to be my friend, she said she likes me too. But now that we are dating she doesn't give a fuck about me?

We used to be pretty close friends, I know what type of humor sh e has. I liked her for 2 months but I was sure about it. Me who is afraid of commitments , committed in this relationship being confident about the love I...

Lucy_009

Xper 2 Age: 22

I need some advice on how I should handle things between me and my ex?

Hello all! TL;DR: my ex and i have been seeing each other for the past few months. he says he doesn’t want a relationship but essentially wants me to be exclusive to him. i want to be with him but am not going to be...

shopper5678

Xper 2 Age: 25

Do friends with benefits actually do anything besides sex?

we hooked up on our 2nd date and both agreed to keep it casual but its been strictly sexual since. i let him know today i’d prefer something a little more substantial (kind of tired of feeling used) and would like to at...

Anonymous

(25-29)

When you should let go but deep down you don’t want to, WHY do we feel like that?

(We are both 25 and live in a big city in Europe) I was seeing a guy, on and off, for 5 time periods in 2 years. Although our feelings grew stronger, we stopped seeing each other almost 1 year ago due to an argument and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do women give so many mixed signals?

Long story short dated this girl a couple months then she decided she just wanted to be freinds due to circumstances that might happen if it ended on a bad note. We see eachother weekly due to outside commitments. She...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How soon is too soon to offer to meet up again?

I'm getting closer with this guy who I met abroad who currently lives about 4 hours away from me. We met up last week for the first time since we met abroad as I was in the area seeing another friend. Since then we have...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I care about commitment but not of god nor church, is this weird?

Commitment I do care. I don't believe in jumping from relationship to relationship endlessly for years. I hate that. I do want a person to spend my life on and have a child. But god and church? I see that as a piece of...

Anonymous

(25-29)

We had an argument and now he doesn’t see me the same way anymore, is he overthinking or is he right?

We’ve been having sex and dating but his ways are much different than what im used to. My friends and family know about him but don’t care for his actions. one day we had sex and he left right after. I texted him that I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Society & Politics

Who does the US Armed Forces take marching orders from - the former Commander in Steal, The Present Commander, or Generals?

https://www.businessinsider.com/soldiers-worry-what-clash-fox-news-means-for-army-women-2022-10 After a general's clash with Fox News' Tucker Carlson, soldiers worry the US Army 'has gone full MAGA' Michael Grinston,...

legalboxers

Editor Age: 49

Marriage & Weddings

My boyfriend said he doesn't want to get married because he don't want that commitment. But I want to get married. What to do?

We already have a child together

Anonymous

(25-29)

Does my ''ALL OR NOTHING'' logic makes sense?

I've been with my boyfriend (we're not doing cohabitation) for nearly 10 months now. He knows very well I'm looking for commitment and to have kids, not ''oh the passion, oh the beautiful butterflies in the stomach, oh...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do people know you can't live your whole life out of just lust/sex?

Lust/sex (threesomes, living with different gfs but then breaking up with all of them, friends with benefits, boody calls, etc) has eventually replaced commitment. While it's all fun, you feel pleasure and keeps you away...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do people tend to get less interested as soon as someone shows commitment to another person?

It’s just a lot of guys do this. As soon as you show a slight bit of commitment towards them , it’s like they stop caring. I just want someone to be on the same page as me and I want someone that loves me as much as I...

Anonymous

(25-29)