We had an argument and now he doesn’t see me the same way anymore, is he overthinking or is he right?

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We’ve been having sex and dating but his ways are much different than what im used to. My friends and family know about him but don’t care for his actions.

one day we had sex and he left right after. I texted him that I was starting to feel guilty for having sex without a commitment. He didn’t respond. He instead ignored me. Days later I finally got fed up and told him I felt used. I was so angry. He didn’t respond. He later told me, after me reaching out, he was upset because of something I reposted on Instagram. He was mad that I felt he used me. He didn’t really care to see it from my side.
we made up but I never really felt right. He never really tried. It was always me initiating contact but he wanted to hang out when I asked. We didn’t have sex. I’ve been having issues w my lungs and he thought I was sick. I told him that I was not sick and I get tested for Covid everyday.
he messaged me the next day (which he barley ever texted me) saying next time I come over let him know I’m sick bc he was feeling sick (he has asthma). I got upset bc everything I was feeling, his distance and when he does text me, he says that. I finally cracked. I told him that I’m very sorry that he is feeling sick but not to talk to me anymore. He got furious and said I have issues and I react over the smallest things and he doesn’t like that. But it’s crazy because he reacts over small things very often, says mean things and I just forgive him. I apologized over and over but he wasn’t hearing it. I later tried to win him over w sex, he said yes and we had sex. He told me he missed me and I left right after sex. I had to go out of town. He told me to call him when I made it back. I didn’t. I texted him and told him I wasn’t leaving until the next day and I’ll contact him when I get back. No response. I don’t think this situation is healthy.

We had an argument and now he doesn’t see me the same way anymore, is he overthinking or is he right?
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