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Feminism
I say warped modern feminism as feminism was NEVER about dressing provatively or sleeping around. In fact original feminism was AGAINST women being seen as sexual objects and today's Western feminists STRIVE to make themselves just sexual objects.

Dressing & acting cheaply is a Hippi "free love" era corruption of original feminism. Nothing more, nothing less. Go to other countries where more traditional feminism exists & you would'll find that dressing & acting cheaply is behavior of prostitutes not average women.

Yes countries like the UK are as bad but a) UK has been increasingly Americanized & b) even when my dad was a kid 50+ years ago sluttish behavior even at 14 was typical in UK.

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North America's "Throw Away" Culture
North American Society is a "throw away" culture. Old car, throw it away. Phone functions but cracked screen, throw it away. So many in USA run for newest phone or car but there's often minimal difference between this and year-old phone or car they are "throwing away".

Even in Europe you won't necessarily find such wastefulness as you'd find in North America.

But this "throw away" culture is reflected in relationships. Less & less people in North America put effort into REAL (so non-flings, hookups, etc). relationships as they are raised when something becomes difficult or requires work "throw it away" instead of working on it.

Question:

When females ask for [“reciprocation”] from males, are they really asking for a “female-minded, lover?” 🤖 👧

^^(meaning they want a direct copy of themselves when it comes to loving, or something like a mirror, and that would make things unfair). 🪞

In reality, Males do not ask that females reciprocate their affections, by working hard for them or say, lifting them into the house when they have a stubbed/ broken toe/ ankle.

Is it true, women are right to want love, but they go too far expecting men to love, as they do? And if not, they would say “the men didn’t love them?”

• Maybe the real things in question here, is that men and women have [physical and EXPRESSIVE limits.] 🤲💪

• Maybe men cannot fully express their love for a woman, or maybe not express it to the same extent the women would for their men? 💅

Just as women cannot fully and physically tend to their men as men can tend to their women.💪

-Maybe that’s the point?

But there would be (the few) some men and women, who would abuse these realities and take certain males/females for granted:

• I. e. a male in a relationship who didn’t really love her, possibly pushing her in front of him as a robber robbed the store, 🥷 and

• a female who said how much she loved him (maybe even sang him to sleep), 🗣 but did the same for other men she was seeing.

This type of male and female would use their [strength and expression] to take advantage of their lover in the relationship. Instead of using it properly because they never truly loved that person in the relationship, to begin with. 🤷‍♀️

-Does this train of logic seem reasonable along with the top 🔝 question that is in bold font?

Is it just “one of those things” you know, when you’re in a relationship with the love of your life? 👀👐

(All images sourced from Google)