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I meet a guy a few years ago. We were neighbors. He started washing my car every week. I tried to pay him and he wouldn't take the money. I then found out he was living with his girlfriend at the time. Then they moved out. Then I hear from him a few months later telling me he has crush and wants to take me out and that him and the girl he was dating broke up. But then he kept making excuses when it came time to hang out. Then when questioned I found out that he decided to go back to the same girl he was living with. Now in 2023 we happened to run into each other and reconnect and he still saying he still wants to hang out and that he knows he made a mistake before and that he and the girl ended up broking up shortly after that. However it's been almost a month since we've been in communication and he is still making plans only to cancel or take a raincheck. He asked me to be his valentines and then said oh well I have to bring you the gift I got you early cause I'm working on Valentines day. But on valentines day morning told me he would be able to come see me. Then at the last minute says he cannot get off work and has to stay late and can we go on a date this coming weekend. He is consistently making plans and then canceling or asking for a raincheck. We have yet to actually go on a date. Am I just being paranoid in thinking maybe he is still involved with someone. Am I just wasting my time thinking this guy is going to ever step up? Or does he just want to hook up and potentially ghost me afterwards?

hi all:) so around 2022 i was having a little friends with benefits thing but we both were only seeing each-other but on the down low, i wanted to be public but kept seeing each-other for a year because i was so emotionally attached to him and was lusting on him, but at that time i was very open about it too my best friend through out 2021/2022 and would always talk about him to her and sometimes i used to even facetime her crying and telling her what he had just done to me she would always comfort me and down talk him saying ewww you need to leave him and all this but silly me never did.

i finally got out of that toxic cycle & cut it off in jan 23 and i drifted from everyone and found a really nice boy but i found out that they actually recently hooked up at a party on the weekend and i asked her about it and she literally just said she went for a walk with him made up a story, but at the end of the day i found out everything cos he can’t keep his mouth closed, HOW DISRESPECTFUL CAN GIRLS BEEEE