a couple of weeks ago this random dude adds me on snap, a few days later we meet up and hook up, after that we started to meet a lot more, spend hours just talking to each other about so many things and we discover we have a lot in common. On Snapchat he always responded right away too. He told me many personal things like how recently broke up with his abusive girlfriend of 3 years. We really clicked with each other and I really started to like him a lot. I met him the last time around 1 and a half week ago and he has become more distant and does not hint that he wants to meet up. He is starting to go online on snap and not even responding to me but to others. I really don’t know what I should think of this, is he starting to lose interest? Yesterday I asked him if he wanted to meet up, he responded with “I don’t remember if I made plans with my friend I will let you know later” then he left me on delivered for 5 hours and at 1:30 am when I was asleep he said that his friend had made other plans. I really don’t want to give up on this because I really like this guy but is that the right thing for me to do? Should I just delete him from snap and forget him? I don’t even know if he is meeting other girls.. ah this is really a difficult situationship
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You're too late to tell him that lmao. Give it up.
Next time tell him how you feel BEFORE he starts doing that. So maybe after the first two flings ask to hang out casually. Go get ice cream or something. Show you're interested in more than just sex.
The rule here is that women who only offer sex only get sex and that's all we expect that they want from us.1
As everyone else has said, you were a hook up. Unfortunately you will have to get over it and move on.
Try not to be so quick with it next time 🥰0
You’re were never anything more than a hookup to him. He’s not worth a second more of your time.0
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Yeah, it's a wrap. If he liked you enough to be with you he wouldn't be pulling this stuff. Recently single, just out here fucking would be my guess. Might have had fun with you for a moment, but found the next girl.
Move on. Stop going for men like this, it's just gonna keep happening. Stop fucking random dudes on Snapchat and expecting them to be good guys.21
This is why I dislike social media... interpreting and mis interpreting confusing and confounding signals. Lanauge is bad enough we don't need more layers of confusion.
Pick up phone and talk, much simpler...0
You already gave it up, why would he want relationship? He'd keep you on the B team for the new vag that's come a long but if she can't meet up some particular night, you get a shot at the majors again3
You're probably smothering him. Lay off for a few days. This happens with girls I meet online. They want the spend all day texting back and forth for the first week, then they disappear just as fast as they came into existence.0
Give up but keep yourself lubricated just in case. Good luck :)10
You may like him, but he doesn't seem to like you or see more in you then just a hook up7
Procead with caution.. he's got options n possible experience... know your competiton find out what your in for up against.. do pros. cons... roll dice girl.. have fun.. with it0
So you not only met someone strange on the internet, but then fucked him too, without figuring out if he might have an std10
You were a fling and nothing more. What did you expect from hooking up?0
Yeah... it sounds like he is getting bored with you now and is looking elsewhere but make come back to you if he can't find anyone else.0
Yeah, he's done and if he isn't, it's just another hookup.0
Yep. Sorry, but it's obvious you're sex game isn't good.0
He’s seeing other women0
You are a hookup not a special girl.11
It means the sex wasn't good.0
that is only something you can make your mind on0
You're a hookup, what did you expect?0
Yes walk away0
Ladies, this is why you DON'T sleep with a man before you secured his commitment.
Sorry love, but he isn't interested in something long-term, because he thinks you are too easy to get. This is a common test men do. The underlying thought is that "If I can get with her in bed easily, that means that other men did as well, and the chances of her cheating on me later down the line are also more likely compared to a woman who is more reserved".