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Why is that the good looking guys I wanted either were jerks or always went for stunning girls? Why do I always attract guys I don’t want?
I struggled with weight all my life. I’m 6ft, currently 219lbs. I was fine when I was younger until I got chubbier at 8 years old. Middle school I was chubby and then I got really fat in high school. Never had a boyfriend...
Anonymous
(25-29) Was my approach to this girl in the gym alright?
Hey guys and gals, I'd appreciate some opinions here, because I'm not too sure if my approach was good. Here's what happened: I noticed a cute girl working out with some two other friends at the gym I go to. I...
Anonymous
(25-29) If you've been married and divorced/widowed, would you ever consider remarying?
Meeting up with a gal who for some reason is remarrying her first hubby... after he cycled through a bunch of women and she's cycled through 6 husbands... (yes... 6). Apparently they now "know" that the best they can have...
Does any guy have a clue on why my ex wants to take pictures of me so bad?
2 years ago my ex picked up photography and now has fallen in love with it. Since then he's landed offers for photographing homes, won photo landscape competitions, and done several photo shoots with other models and...
Anonymous
(25-29) Does he like me or did he just like the attention coming from me liking him?
A guy (29) at work and I (27) have been bonding about our favorite sport for 3-4 months. About 2 months ago, one of my coworker friends had told me that he knows that I like him and can tell that I do. I figured since he...
Ccmama
Xper 6 Age: 28 Guys, I don’t feel like I am good enough for him, how do I stop feeling this way?
I have a severe case of multiple sclerosis and I am on disability. I use ability aids to help me walk. Ever since I was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis in 2019, I have put off dating because I didn’t feel worthy or like...
Anonymous
(36-45) How often do you text your partner?
I met this seemingly nice guy on a dating website about a week ago and we had a great date yesterday. I guess I must be anxious because I expected a quicker flow of exchange between us since, he gave me his number and, he...
BlackCat999
Xper 3 Age: 31 He committed to someone he told me not to worry about, now wants to have an affair with me?
2 years ago I got into a long distance open relationship with an avoidant man, who hasn’t had a relationship last longer than 8 months in the last 10 years… We kept meeting up and traveling together, but when I expressed...
What's a "hubby vibe"/"wifey vibe"?
A gal asked if I was into a (single, M58/59) guy friend who was doting on both of us today when we stopped into his shop. She says we're giving off "hubby-wifey vibes." That made me laugh. I admit he's a very nice guy --...
Why do men say condescending and contradicting things?
Date1: We shared stories and values. He was divorced with a son and intended to remarry. He boasted about his spending. We texted frequently, with him sharing our days details. Date2: he began boasting about other...
Lilas
Xper 5 Age: 28 Would you forgive him for texting his ex behind your back?
When I first started dating my boyfriend, he had told me he had been cheated on (he caught his ex in their bed w another dude) and was traumatized by it. He had this girl in his phone who kept texting him named Victoria,...
Anonymous
(30-35) Guys, You're out on a date... do you focus on enjoying the date or do you keep trying to chip away at the person to find their flaws?
I was on a date (hold the applause) and the guy kept asking questions as if it were a job interview, till finally I chuckled and asked, "Did you find it yet?" He asked, "Found what?" And I said, "The flaw you've...
Misunderstanding with my boyfriend, please help?
My boyfriend and I have been together for 2,5 years. I am loyal and so is he. We love each other and trust each other. We are confident in our relationship and don't really get jealous or worry too much. But a few days...
LaureenVO
Xper 7 Age: 21 Guys am I transphobic just bc I refused to date a man who has a past of dating a Trans woman?
English isn’t my first language, sorry if I make mistakes. I moved to Seattle about a year ago. I met a guy and we were seeing each other, everything was fine. Then I saw an old photo on his social media from a couple...
Selingrmn
Xper 1 Age: 25 Guys, Why would a 30-something guy be serious about a 50-something gal?
30-something guys are very into me -- and not just me, specifically, but in general women who could be their mothers. At first I thought it was "puppy love" (like crushing on your teacher or babysitter) or perhaps...
Happy 2026 Everyone! Just Wanted to Share Some Words With You All
Another year passed, another year to come. I'm sure some of you had a rough year, and some of you had a great year. That's life. There will be ups and downs all the time. We're all here living, just trying and struggling...
Isn’t it counter productive to play dumb to evade jealous rivals?
I asked my cousin why she liked her boyfriend 19 years ago and she said she liked intelligent guys. I asked my cousin why he liked her and she said, “because he thinks I’m innocent and dumb.” Later her mother told me he...
Is my friend overreaching?
I have one friend who always seems to have a problem whenever I get a job interview or start a new job. This started last year after she lost her job due to her own negligence – she would call in sick often and lie...
zee175517551755
Xper 1 Age: 29 What is wrong with this woman?
We've known eachother for years. She's very attractive and I've never pursued her. In fact the whole reason were friends is because she asked me on a date and I told her we would make a terrible couple but great friends....
What’s going on?
For starters, I’m a guy so this is a question for the ladies (lol) Ok so there's this girl who l've been flirting with for a while, we have great chemistry but we never really addressed what's between us. She's an...
Anonymous
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