Very well written, insightful, sensible, more sense than most of the others here. Nice to find something to read that makes sense and is not ignorant, childish and pervy for a change.
Good take. The idea of settling is sort of silly anyway. Looks fade, so even if you snag that "9", you'll end up with a much lower number after life gets its final word in.
Great take! 👏 What kind of people would take the extra effort to create a new account just to bash someone? He must have some serious issues. Pitiful man.
I know the feeling. Truth is everyone is shallow when it comes to looks. Its just human nature. I do think that people at some point have to settle, because very few people are perfect and most of us have imperfections myself included. People are free to have extremly high standards, but they usually end up staying single since very few people can meet them. The few that do meet them, might be taken or they are not interested.
First: Obviously, the one who said that is an unknowing, knowledgeable, ignorant cunt. Second: One man's plain Jane is another man's Beyonce, and vice versa. Don't count yourself out!!! Third: Why not raise yourself to the level of the person you want. If you want a good man, you need to be a good woman and vice versa.
Everybody deserves to have standards regardless of what they look like. The idea that someone is better than someone else purely based on looks is ridiculous and just plain insulting.
We live in a society where "pop psychology" is seen as fact and myth is entrenched in modern social thought. I don't see the point in having standards in a world of self-centeredness, cruelty and hypocrisy.
My view is dont ever get in a relationship if you're not 100% into them and already know them as friends. Lots of people just jump at the first person who likes them thinking its meant to be and then blame the entire gender when it doesn't go well.
The comment about ur attractivenes is true sad but true Why woman cheat because her husband or boyfriend looks like yyyyffff... Why man cheat the same thing because my wife or girlfriend looks like yyyyh Im just honest world in 2018
Isn't it amazing that "Doesn't want to be a doormat." is now considered "standards"? Then again, I know of bitches who have told my wife, over and over, that, because I'm not making hundreds of thousands of dollars a year, she "settled".
Lol I don't need an online crash course. I know how to ignore comments from ignoramuses. As I said above, this wasn't close to the first time I've gotten a message like that. That's why the topic was addressed.
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Very well written, insightful, sensible, more sense than most of the others here. Nice to find something to read that makes sense and is not ignorant, childish and pervy for a change.
Thank you!
Good take.
The idea of settling is sort of silly anyway. Looks fade, so even if you snag that "9", you'll end up with a much lower number after life gets its final word in.
Lol life always wins in the end
Great take! 👏 What kind of people would take the extra effort to create a new account just to bash someone? He must have some serious issues. Pitiful man.
Thanks! And I don't get surprised by the people here anymore lol.
They are rubbish. I feel sorry for the people who have to deal with them.
I know the feeling. Truth is everyone is shallow when it comes to looks. Its just human nature. I do think that people at some point have to settle, because very few people are perfect and most of us have imperfections myself included. People are free to have extremly high standards, but they usually end up staying single since very few people can meet them. The few that do meet them, might be taken or they are not interested.
First: Obviously, the one who said that is an unknowing, knowledgeable, ignorant cunt.
Second: One man's plain Jane is another man's Beyonce, and vice versa. Don't count yourself out!!!
Third: Why not raise yourself to the level of the person you want. If you want a good man, you need to be a good woman and vice versa.
Good take, by the way.
Love how he said the beyonce thing
I deffos don't see you as plain Jane!
Don't settle!!
Thank you! And no settling here, scouts honor!
Everybody deserves to have standards regardless of what they look like. The idea that someone is better than someone else purely based on looks is ridiculous and just plain insulting.
I think so too
I have standards but I never act on them. I should though.
You should
There's a BIG DIFFERENCE between "to settle for___" and to settle (down), meaning to start a calmer life.
Oh for sure there is.
I am in your situation there is No respect for others anymore no matter what the gender is.
Just stand your ground and do what you need to do
I have no hope for humanity.
No one should have to settle for second best & don't let any one tell you different.
Absolutely
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We live in a society where "pop psychology" is seen as fact and myth is entrenched in modern social thought. I don't see the point in having standards in a world of self-centeredness, cruelty and hypocrisy.
My view is dont ever get in a relationship if you're not 100% into them and already know them as friends. Lots of people just jump at the first person who likes them thinking its meant to be and then blame the entire gender when it doesn't go well.
The comment about ur attractivenes is true sad but true
Why woman cheat because her husband or boyfriend looks like yyyyffff...
Why man cheat the same thing because my wife or girlfriend looks like yyyyh
Im just honest world in 2018
Uh huh
Isn't it amazing that "Doesn't want to be a doormat." is now considered "standards"? Then again, I know of bitches who have told my wife, over and over, that, because I'm not making hundreds of thousands of dollars a year, she "settled".
Doesn't matter what those people say tho. They aren't your wife. She obviously doesn't feel that way.
That guy is a total shitdick.
I agree
Stop focusing on the comments of idiots. You're online. That's the first thing you need to figure out.
Lol I don't need an online crash course. I know how to ignore comments from ignoramuses. As I said above, this wasn't close to the first time I've gotten a message like that. That's why the topic was addressed.
You go girl #standards
Lol thanks.
your welcome
That's pretty hypocritical, given that you won't settle, but you expect someone to settle on you.
I don't want anyone to settle for me. Where did you read that? That's even worse!