This just hit me very recently, but it's quite an eye opener.
At least in the United States it suddenly occured to me that it's very rare to see a young woman struggling financially, but it isn't too hard to see a bunch of young men struggling. I thought to myself, 'what's up with that?'
Then I realized: men are expected to take care of women, but women are not expected to take care of men.
So what do we see? Well, for one thing, I think we see a lot of young women get special treatment that young men don't get, including financial support from older men.
When's the last time you saw an older woman reach out to a younger man to offer her financial support to him because he was struggling? Didn't think so. Doesn't happen.
And let's not be candy-asses. We all know part of this dynamic could include a sexual dynamic. Notably, the sugar daddy/sugar baby dynamic. When's the last time you have seen the reverse dynamic? Do older women pay money in exchange for sexual photos and videos from young men? No.
It's quite the realization. The one exception I see to these norms are in the cases of young single mothers: they seem to get about as much sympathy from society as young men do.
What the f*ck.
That's all. ✌
What Girls & Guys Said
Opinion
2Opinion
"When's the last time you saw an older woman reach out to a younger man to offer her financial support to him because he was struggling?"
When's the last time you saw an older *man* reach out to a younger *woman* to offer her financial support WITHOUT the expectation to have a sexual relationship with her?
"Do older women pay money in exchange for sexual photos and videos from young men? No." This has nothing to do with societal norms, & everything to do with the biological facts that
1) men are much more likely to desire visual stimuli during masturbation, which is why most porn viewers are men
2) most men are attracted to youth, while most women are NOT (see chart below)
This biological fact actually sucks for women, because 20-25 is a really short window. How many men offer to pay for sexual photos/videos from older women?
This isn't due to society, but biology, which has its advantages and disadvantages for both women and men.
Although not as prevalent, there are sufficient resources online where young men can get money from older women for providing certain services.
I agree