The Push—pull instinct

[Anonymous]

"My friend, I believe you are a minion of hell."

-von Goethe

The deeper I penetrate into the nature of humanity, the more I realize nobody has penetrated very far at all. We are all just acting instinctive patterns like a dog wagging it's tail or a wolf howling at the moon. Every word is the tip of an iceberg that connects back to instinct.

One of those instincts is to never let anyone get too comfortable with you. It's summed up in the saying that familiarity causes contempt. So, to avoid total familiarity, you switch up. Unfortunately, when you are constantly around someone i.e. in a relationship, switching up means becoming a bitch, or a bully.

Absence isn't an option, you share the same house, bedroom, toilet, shower. Some people might believe they're just being a bitch for completely rational reasons. E.g. They pee on the toilet seat. They left a dirty dish in the sink. The actual reason is more narcissistic in its origin.

It's the same push—pull dynamic, hot—cold dynamic that everyone's familiar with. You want to control their emotions. You aren't that interesting, you've exhausted your netflix of all the interesting shows, and you can't afford another vacation. What are you to do?

Im justifying bullying. Im giving you the pass to be unashamed of what you naturally do. You bully, and you bitch. Luckily we live in a world where most women enjoy being dominated. So when she declares war, declare war back.

I've done this before. The next time I saw her she was on the phone with a friend and ended up telling her how Im a bully. Her friend said "He's just unaware!" All said in a way indicating she enjoyed it deeply like the masochist I knew she was.

[DizzyDesii]

Um no, this is insane. And wow who is elizabeth standing beside cause it sure isn't marykate nor ashley

[myTake Owner]

Johansson

[DizzyDesii]

Nah that look like a sickly version of her

[DizzyDesii]

Pick must be photoshopped because elizabeth dont have tits nor hips

[myTake Owner]

They look like sisters don't they. That's so hot cus they aren't even related. Maybe hot is the wrong word.

[DizzyDesii]

They look nothing alike. Thats bad photoshop

[DizzyDesii]

Nothingg alike

[myTake Owner]

You're right but it's my fantasy to find a nation of females that all look the same an are all super hot

[DizzyDesii]

Lmao so you have a type huh? Why would you want them to all look the same? In terms of my type, they may dress similar and have similar hairstyles or body types, but i like seeing the difference in their faces and skintones

[myTake Owner]

Not really. I just think it's attractive. I saw men like women who look average. Average height, etc probably because it confirms she is normal genetically

[DizzyDesii]

Well i like average joes and men seem offended by that because they expect you to want to date some martial arts or body building lookin mf