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If you want to get a girl to like you on Facebook, you have to initiate some form of a contact. First – she has to see your profile. So you have to become Facebook Friends first. How do you become Friends? Well, either you’ll send her a request (and get the chance of being ignored) – or you’ll wait for her to contact you first.
If you’ve met in real life before, and you made a good impression on her – it’s very likely that she’ll send you a request, or accept yours. WAIT to see whether she’ll send a Friends Request first. It’s always better if she makes a move toward you first, this way you’ll have a clue that she’s potentially interested. In case she does’t send you a friends request – you can send it first (if a couple of days have passed, so you don’t appear desperate). Add a short message, so she remembers who you are.
In case you never met before – it will be less likely that she’ll even notice your existence, let alone send you a Friends request. Let’s say you send her a request and she accepts (I’ll tell you more about this later) – now, she can see your Facebook Profile, and that’s it. You need to get her to like you somehow before you make contact, so you’ll have a better initial reaction. If you f*** things up in the beginning when picking up girls on Facebook, it’s hard to get out of the crap. So start good and it will be easier to close the deal.
So, how do you get her to like you, and then end up having sex with her? Here are some general Facebook sex tips:
First - find out as much about her as possible. YES – I’m saying SPY on her. Who is she, where is she from, what does he like, is she popular, what does she do most of the time. Analyze her Facebook Profile – but DO NOT initiate contact in any form (besides sending a Friends Request). The fact that she accepted you is already a plus. Now find out: did she accept your Friends Request because you seemed interesting to her (you had a good Profile) OR she accepts everyone that sends her a request so that she can feed her ego? How many friends does she have? What does she want out of life? There are many things you can conclude just from a few days of OBSERVING her. Observing and being patient is KEY. It’s better to be prepared for “battle” than to go Rambo-f***ing-insane on her.
Second – Now that you know something about her, you can work on creating a more attractive Facebook Profile. Your profile is your MAIN weapon of seduction. If your profile SUCKS it will be a lot harder to get her interested in chatting with you, and, eventually, having sex. So work on your profile. Figure out how other people perceive you. What does your profile communicate about you? How do OTHER girls treat you? Do you look successful, or fake? Be REAL. And check out link for more tips
She *told* you she's on faecbook for a reason. And nowadays adding people on Facebook is no big deal at all. I've got girls adding me that I've never even talked to or just know by name.
And seriously, don't go thinking about every little move you make since you're worried you might ruin it. Just make a move. Go for it; you only live once. If you don't you might regret it later.
u should add her...maybe if you do add her you both can chat online rather than only at work(it is a lot easyer 2 say things on line 2 rather than in person)...get 2 know each other better, maybe you can ask her out sometime when you find things going more smoothly=]
hope this helps some
Oh, just add her! It's not a big deal and if she's a friend at work then she's a friend you should have on FB. It's nice to have those connections should you need to get in touch with her later on down the road.
If you're both single, you might as well start making some moves!
Yes, you should def. add her. People add almost everyone they know. So even if she doesn't like you in that way, It would still be apropriate.
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If she told you she has a Facebook, she wants you to add her. It sounds like she's subtly flirting with you.
You don't have to say anything to her on Facebook right away. In fact, it might even be good to wait a bit before sending her a message. But commenting on her status is always easy and nice.
Otherwise, what do you talk to her about at work? Simple small talk, conversation will work just fine. It does sound like she's interested so don't worry too much.
i think you should add her .. you guys know each other and she did give you a hint that she is on Facebook(therefore add her) .
when you do add her, just talk to her on Facebook chat and maybe sometime after work you guys can hang out and bring this to a whole new level
Her telling you that she was on Facebook was an open invitation to you to add her, so just go ahead and do that. Just talk about normal conversation topics that you do at work. If you like her, don't wait too much longer to ask her out--just ask her out in a casual way to do something fun with you.
Add her. Facebook is no big deal now. Just make sure that you don't mind what she will see of yours Facebook page. Example - if you have 50 pictures of yourself with all sorts of seductive women or you look like a player on your page - then you may turn her off really quickly!
She said she was on Facebook so you could add her, basically she invited you to do it.
Btw I love this line; "I think she might like me too because whenever we're at work, it feels like when we're talking I'm not even saying anything and she just laughs at me." lmao :)
Adding people on Facebook isn't really that big of a deal if you actually know each other. I mean, people who I've only met for a brief second add me. I don't think it matters and you're over thinking it a little. So yeah, add her! :)
Or maybe you can tell her as well that you have a Facebook. Give her your link or w.e and if she adds you and starts talking to you then you know she's into you. then you can ask her out on a date then go on from there.
Best of Luck
Ya I think she probably likes you. You should keep it casual for now and just add her. Say something like..."I found you." That's it. Short and sweet and see what she says from there.
yes add her ofcourse! but why not ask her out anyway ? she clearly likes u
she told you she has Facebook which means: Add me!
then why not ask her out?
It's really just Facebook. And you guys are co-workers/friends, so there's no reason not to. It's not a big deal, she probably won't think anything of you 'requesting' her first.
She was hinting to you that you need to add her, without saying it. She wants to add you, but she wants you to take control.
Stop being a p**** its only Facebook its not like your asking her to marry you jeez.
If you like her, to hell with Facebook. Ask her for a date.
You should go ahead and add her. She told you she has a profile, so that seems like an invitation.
dude just add her on Facebook...and go for it...ask her out or somethin...
If she told you she's on Facebook then she wants you to add her... get to it man!
Sure why not! she's probably asking the same question, so you take the first step! :)
Well, this is just my opinion, but I think you should go for it.
obviously there is some flirting going on between you too.
and if she "just so happened" to mention she has a Facebook,
that is a clear sign that she wants you to add her.
It's just Facebook, you should add her if you haven't already.
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