I find some women attractive but I also realise that they may be dressing up for a particular guy... Not me. So I appreciate but don't stand with my tounge out. I just think lucky guy!
Woman with revealing clothes dont really make me want to stare anymore because it is already too common. I am more interested to oggle her in totally opposite condition , exampe : women wearing niqab
Srry but I only read the header. I wouldn't say it's anyone's fault. It's kinda human shit. Some guys are being assholes. And girls can be overly provocative
depends how much cleavage they show when being "modest" and on baggy its totally the guys fault but if we're honest girls check out guys to to i dont see what the problem is
I didn't say women don't do it, but the issue is fairly asymmetrical. If you don't like it, then say something. But that "women do it too!" Argument is pretty lame. 1. Because we all know damn well women don't so it as much, 2. Even if they did, it doesn't make it right for men to do it. Like if women decide to hit men in the balls for no reason. So then men decide to go and punch women, 2 wrongs don't make it right
and i didn't say you said they didn't its the exact same thing both genders do it equally women just aren't as honest about it for you to say one does it more is ignorant and there is no wrong or right in it its something thats normal
No, it's not as common for women to ogle, gawk, whistle or cat call. If it were so, then less men would complain that it's hard to "read" when a woman's interested in him...
However as I already said, even if that were the case, that doesn't mean it's not considered rude. Staring is considered rude in most cultures, especially if it's directed at strangers
It's considered rude. I personally don't like it because I'm bound to do something gross like spit, maybe scratch my butt, eat like a pig etc and I don't want no dumb motherfucker watching
I guess I'm weird then. I feel good when it happens to me.
I just don't understand why people can't go about their day. I've had people cuss out at me randomly as they drive by in a car occasionally (i live in a town with a party university in it so it attracts unintelligent douchebags). I don't get uppity about it. I forget about it about 30 seconds later and go on with my day.
I guess because it rarely happens to men. Try it happening every 5 minutes since you were 12. By adults who are like 3 even 4x your age. Then get back on your high horse that we're "uppity" for being bothered by the stares.
Because men dont seem to understand that it doesn't "magically" start when you're legal age. It happens really young, and even to chicks like me, guess what, I was a late bloomer! I looked young for my age, still kinda do, i didn't even have boobs until like 15. And guess what, men, grown men, STILL stared. And thats that i have always been a tomboy, always wore loose or baggy clothes.
Yes I was talking about staring the whole time, just added the checking out thing at the beginning. Unless you are talking about really blatant staring
Well more about blatant staring lol But checking out isn't usually so obvious, unless he's literally eye fucking you, which then its no longer checking out, more like oggling
Okay lol well if you put it like that then as long as the same rule applies to both hot and ugly guys then yeah thats wrong for guys to do that unless you are lookin like girl A
Cause then men are clueless on what's okay and what's not because the rule applies differently, so it wouldn't entirely be a guys fault, is what im saying
Lol thats kinda silly. Like why does it have to be "everyone's attention or no one's attention? like if i let my man kiss me in public, its not an invitation for any man to come and kiss me too.
oh thats not what i mean. Im saying its not fair to blame men if a guy who fits your "stud criteria" to be able to get away with staring and then blame the average joe when he does it
Oh believe me women have more influence then you think hahaha, I get what you are saying, staring is not usually acceptable (if ever), just don't blame us if the standards are different for each guy that looks
Yes, if I consider him someone I'd want to date his attention is invited. If he's not someone who I'd want to date, then I'd prefer he didn't give me attention. Obviously I'm not going to flip out if he glances at me, but staring is really rude.
Lol I know it's hard sometimes, shit, I check chicks out too. Especially if they're dresses like girl A and have some tig ol bitties. It's kinda hard to look away...
I'm sure this is not a "serious" question. But just in case it is - "I like the one in the pink". Do you mind if I download her picture. I have some ogling to do. Oops! Too late 😟 I shot my load.
Ok. I'm going to ask a follow up question later today. I hope you contribute to that one as well, but I'm just waiting for more responses in this question.
So even if she's dressed like the last girl, she shares some of the responsibility if men stare at her?
I guess men won't stare at here boobs at least in a sexual way if she dresses like the last picture. girls can also misinterprete a stare from a man (nobody is perfect ) if she is dressed like in the last pic.
You'd be surprised how many guys still stare or holla if you're dressed like the last girl. Obviously not every guy is thinking "she's attractive", but even "dressed down" attracts attention
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If a woman wears provocative clothing, it's her fault. She know the consequence and still wear it. She shouldn't complain.
I find some women attractive but I also realise that they may be dressing up for a particular guy... Not me. So I appreciate but don't stand with my tounge out. I just think lucky guy!
Woman with revealing clothes dont really make me want to stare anymore because it is already too common.
I am more interested to oggle her in totally opposite condition , exampe : women wearing niqab
Srry but I only read the header. I wouldn't say it's anyone's fault. It's kinda human shit. Some guys are being assholes. And girls can be overly provocative
its her fault 100% if she wears provocative clothing you can not expect people not to look and then get pissed off about it like wtf
What about the other 2?
depends how much cleavage they show when being "modest" and on baggy its totally the guys fault but if we're honest girls check out guys to to i dont see what the problem is
So if she has big tits, it's her fault?
Checking out isn't an issue. It's being stared at, especially the boobs, legs, ass, crotch area. That makes people uncomfortable
women do that to men also 😂 is it only unacceptable when men do it to women
I didn't say women don't do it, but the issue is fairly asymmetrical.
If you don't like it, then say something. But that "women do it too!" Argument is pretty lame. 1. Because we all know damn well women don't so it as much, 2. Even if they did, it doesn't make it right for men to do it. Like if women decide to hit men in the balls for no reason. So then men decide to go and punch women, 2 wrongs don't make it right
and i didn't say you said they didn't
its the exact same thing both genders do it equally women just aren't as honest about it for you to say one does it more is ignorant and there is no wrong or right in it its something thats normal
No, it's not as common for women to ogle, gawk, whistle or cat call. If it were so, then less men would complain that it's hard to "read" when a woman's interested in him...
However as I already said, even if that were the case, that doesn't mean it's not considered rude. Staring is considered rude in most cultures, especially if it's directed at strangers
stfu ignorant bitch
Lol struck a nerve? Bye then
not at all its just a waste of time
Yup. Ok.
oggling or looking for a longer time. what is wrong about it
It's considered rude. I personally don't like it because I'm bound to do something gross like spit, maybe scratch my butt, eat like a pig etc and I don't want no dumb motherfucker watching
and what you want to do about it?
Not be looked at lol duh
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Even then I'm sure they get looked at
Why does someone have to be at fault? What's to be at fault over?
To be stared at, not many people like to be stared at.
Women complain about it, and he's determining if there's something worth complaining about.
I don't like to be stared at, so I just cover myself :P damn.
@watercolor_lions ok lady. I want more than your opinions.
I guess I'm weird then. I feel good when it happens to me.
I just don't understand why people can't go about their day. I've had people cuss out at me randomly as they drive by in a car occasionally (i live in a town with a party university in it so it attracts unintelligent douchebags). I don't get uppity about it. I forget about it about 30 seconds later and go on with my day.
I guess because it rarely happens to men. Try it happening every 5 minutes since you were 12. By adults who are like 3 even 4x your age. Then get back on your high horse that we're "uppity" for being bothered by the stares.
I didn't mean to offend..
Because men dont seem to understand that it doesn't "magically" start when you're legal age. It happens really young, and even to chicks like me, guess what, I was a late bloomer! I looked young for my age, still kinda do, i didn't even have boobs until like 15. And guess what, men, grown men, STILL stared. And thats that i have always been a tomboy, always wore loose or baggy clothes.
Im not even no hot thing, and its rude to stare.
I'm sorry you have to go through that.
It's both, men look and women know how they will be viewed based on how they are dressed.
What if she's wearing loose clothing?
Usually men don't look very hard if she's wearing loose clothing. There's no shape.
@watercolor_lions that doesn't mean it doesn't happen. Or what if she's just wearing a t shirt and pants. Not trying to get attention.
Well I think checking out girls is fine, but yeah if the message being sent is you don't want attention, that makes it rude for guys to stare.
However I think there is a bit of a grey area because HIS attractiveness matters in terms of whether it is creepy or not.
Checking out is not the issue, it's STARING that im talking about, especially at their boobs, legs, butt, crotch etc.
Yes I was talking about staring the whole time, just added the checking out thing at the beginning. Unless you are talking about really blatant staring
Well more about blatant staring lol But checking out isn't usually so obvious, unless he's literally eye fucking you, which then its no longer checking out, more like oggling
Okay lol well if you put it like that then as long as the same rule applies to both hot and ugly guys then yeah thats wrong for guys to do that unless you are lookin like girl A
Why does it matter if its hot or ugly men? Women are allowed to be attracted to certain men, its the 21st century you know...
Cause then men are clueless on what's okay and what's not because the rule applies differently, so it wouldn't entirely be a guys fault, is what im saying
Lol thats kinda silly. Like why does it have to be "everyone's attention or no one's attention? like if i let my man kiss me in public, its not an invitation for any man to come and kiss me too.
oh thats not what i mean. Im saying its not fair to blame men if a guy who fits your "stud criteria" to be able to get away with staring and then blame the average joe when he does it
No, that is what you're saying. Why does it have to be accept everyone's attention or no ones's?
You can be comfortable or uncomfortable with whatever attention you want, its just not fair to guys to completely blame them for that then
But they're your eyes lol if you have no control over your own body, than who does?
Oh believe me women have more influence then you think hahaha, I get what you are saying, staring is not usually acceptable (if ever), just don't blame us if the standards are different for each guy that looks
Why? Like I don't mind if my man checks me out, I don't like if a stranger does. So why is that a problem?
I was only talking about strangers. I didn't think it would ever not be okay to look at an S. O. lustfully, thats different
The thing is, boyfriends were once strangers. So of course some stranger's attention we're going to prefer over other's.
So you want attention from guys, but only if he fits the boyfriend criteria, and then you blame us if we dont fit that criteria?
Yes, if I consider him someone I'd want to date his attention is invited. If he's not someone who I'd want to date, then I'd prefer he didn't give me attention. Obviously I'm not going to flip out if he glances at me, but staring is really rude.
Yep that's totally understandable, as a guy I'll do my best not to be a gawking weirdo. Take care :P
Lol I know it's hard sometimes, shit, I check chicks out too. Especially if they're dresses like girl A and have some tig ol bitties. It's kinda hard to look away...
Thanks you too
😂😂 too true
I'm sure this is not a "serious" question. But just in case it is - "I like the one in the pink". Do you mind if I download her picture. I have some ogling to do. Oops! Too late 😟 I shot my load.
How is there a fault? you're in public people have the right to look at you
So who's responsible for the ogling?
No one
People have a right to look? At anyone and anything?
If it's in public, yes.
it takes two to tango.
So you think regardless of the situation it's always equally the man and woman's fault?
yeah otherwise things will die out before happening.
Ok. I'm going to ask a follow up question later today. I hope you contribute to that one as well, but I'm just waiting for more responses in this question.
So even if she's dressed like the last girl, she shares some of the responsibility if men stare at her?
yeah no problem. I am just going in for a movie in 20 mins. after I come out of there, I'll reply you 👍
I guess men won't stare at here boobs at least in a sexual way if she dresses like the last picture. girls can also misinterprete a stare from a man (nobody is perfect ) if she is dressed like in the last pic.
You'd be surprised how many guys still stare or holla if you're dressed like the last girl. Obviously not every guy is thinking "she's attractive", but even "dressed down" attracts attention
I hope that the attention is not as sexual as the first one.
Why so sudden outrage buddy?
Huh?
Nothing.
Probably both genders. 😛.
its both sided
So regardless of what she's wearing, it's equally the man and woman's fault?