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Some people get offended when you show off your breast I used to breastfeed my kids and people would ask me to cover up I was already covered I had a blanket over my child and all you could see was the top of her head and the top of my chest not my breast and people will make snide remarks I feel like if women want to do it then do it but there are laws here in America that says you cannot do it and if your breastfeeding and your nipple becomes exposed you can go to jail for indecent exposure I don't know the reasons why and I don't know why these ramifications for women can take their shirts off same sex and buyers to me but please stay home I wouldn't show up my boobies to nobody unless you're my man I'm super drunk LOL jk😂
Because basically everything on the female body that would give her sex appeal was made taboo to scare women into denying the fact that they have a sex drive of their own, and by proxy will remain loyal to their husband.
Thus giving birth to the burqa, hijab, and less extreme versions of such attire.
Omg!
This is by far the most amazing and fctual answer ever made. But do you think times are changing and women will actually break free from these chains?
Thank-you. :)
&yeah times are changing.
Will women actually 'break free'?
Tough to say. I mean, it would take a long, long time to change these ways. These are beliefs so deep-rooted in a number of different cultures/religions that I don't think there would be a noticeable change (at least one that's not viewed positively by a significant amount of people) for a few generations, at the very least. Even then, it would have to come in large part from within. As in.. from within women. Women have to want to make that change before anyone else and there's still a number of women who claim that they feel 'empowered' and/or 100% liberated while wearing a niqab/hijab and the likes.
So basically, there's a CHANCE for women actually becoming free within a few generations, or enough time for 1-2 generations of girls to be raised without their heads being filled with this patriarchal propaganda.
So, not too long ago, guys weren't allowed to be shirtless. But that was changed, and eventually, we became used to man titties.
Not for women, though. In the US, it's called public indecency. Tits are usually for one purpose, in this case: being a sexual organ.
I don't know about you, but while I do find breasts to be attractive, I really wouldn't give a shit if someone was topless in public.
Meaning you won't mind if someone goes topless?
I too find them attractive. I find them artistic. Hell I find the women a true work of art regardless of the size shape and colour.
I def wouldn't be staring at them , but I would surely be giving them a smile and a thumbs up for going topless someplace.
I really don't give a shit about tits, honestly.
I think you latest statement made your point very clear :)
I don't care what anybody says, breasts are sexual. Yes, they're for feeding babies, but so what, it's not their only use. Just like a penis isn't only used for peeing. There's a reason lots of women enjoy having her breasts sucked and played with and why so many men like to touch them during sex.
I don't know, honestly I don't really care if women walk around topless or not. But it isn't something I personally would do. Also, I don't think it is unfair that breasts are sexualized. I mean, most women nowadays use their breasts all the time to turn on a man, and a lot of women like their breasts to be played with, stroked, have their nipples sucked by their partner. And it actually feels very nice since we have sensitive nipples. So it is sexualized by both gender for a reason.
I agree with you.
Its western religion that has sexualised breasts.
Other tribes and countries women are free to show them off.
But in western ruled countries you are a whore if your nipple shows.
By west I mean Abrahamic religions :p.
Ha ha ha !!
Thank you Double D ;)
You're welcome :)
I just called you by something and you dint even bother, See the world needs more women like you for this to happen !
LOL :-p
Ha ha ha ha we make such good partners in crime
Thought I need a nick name too u know. So that we can actually get be agents.
You are agent Double D
Lol :p
Agent 007 should work :P
You should probably ask her if I can tell u that xD
LOL wait someone once brought this up to me:
"if women's nipples are censored, but men's nipples are not, can you censor a woman's nipple with a man's nipple?"
we askin' the real questions here
What the fuck 😂😂😂😂
This shit is way beyond a Christopher Nolan movie
I think firstly it promotes sexual assaults like people groping women etc. And secondly the breast are very sexual unlike a mans chest they develop to show sexual maturity and they even erect when aroused.
I think it would probably be otherway around. Once its set free, the curiosity in the men would reduce and a few months or years down the line, they are simply gonna lose the sexual interest in them. That way rapes would reduce, am pretty sure about that. It is the curious mind that makes people do wrong things
Not really. women like clothes for the most part and that’s also one of the reasons that law isn’t there. Now that I think about it, clothing brands rely on women to buy there stuff and their sales will definitely go down especially in the summer.
ROFL !
Well they could still make clothes with long necks and transparent stuff like how the celebrities wear and without making the headlines or ending up behind bars
I disagree for several reasons. Men and women are not identical and I have no idea how long it will take mankind to understand this.
So u are not in for this?
No. I heavily discourage lack of modesty.
Lol your opinions are respect mylady
Why aren't men allowed to walk around with their pants off?
Plus, no one says women are not allowed to do so, at least in western society,. Some women do, some don't.
Oh no. I would def not be walking around with my pants off for various reasons. But am pretty sure there are probably 100s of creeps flashing their dicks at women as we speak now.
Wait. They are allowed?
@harsett
I think you got my question wrong, I was more talking about them given the freedom to move around topless without having to deal with much a Fuzz !!
@harsett, Being half man , that hurts !
@harsett
Not the kind of words you would want to talk to someone who is not actually right down there. I hope you dont make such comments on other men or boys with such problems :)
I was trying to be funny and I don't think i hurt you in any way when i made that comment?
Okay!
Because female body is piece of art and too sexual to share like that.
Really love the way you described the female body - A piece of art !!
Pretty much 100% that one!
well we need to wear a bra, so we can’t exactly have our bouncing babies going all over the place
I meant about going topless :)
That's what I mean to say. Would u be okay going top naked? If society grants it.
I am really confused with our conversation right now, Either you did not get my question right, or I failed to explain it to you in the right way :)
If the world says women can be topless, would you go out top naked, no shirt, no tops, no bras,... Just bare upper body?
Even if you don't do it due to reasons, would you be happy with such a freedom granted?
Finally !!
we are on the same page, Just wanted to know if you are ok with nipple freedom or not :)
it took us so many opinions to know what you really wanted :)
It's coz men see them as a sexual object.. I mean they're really for a baby to feed on
Exactly my point. !!
It's something divine. Why is it so sexualised. Would you actually be happy it was equalised was considered no more a taboo?
I mean, would you be happy or comfortable to actually go out braless or topless and feel free like the men.
And yes I know. i beleive a lot of women feel that way regarding the waist and the chest. My country is more weirder when it comes to the hips and bellybutton.. so I think Ur point is very much valid.
Whaaat!!
You are probably the first women who actually voted for a bra! This is interesting. Finally I can get the second perspective too!
Why do you say that? What have you such a bad experience that you opted to jail your pups?
Hah! Correct me if am wrong. Women with smaller ones like to go free and wouldn't make much of a difference and the ones with larger ones though they hate it need to wear just to keep them in place , but yet it suffocates them.
And now with your soft and firm thing. You just opened up a whole new dimension. I would love to know how it fits into my collected data.
Sure.
@cleopetra
That's the one thing we have you wanna take that way from us. Lol.
Men do not have vaginal contractions and stimulation from nipple stimulation the way women do. False equivalent.
In fact it's part of the reason mothers are recommended to breastfeed, because it helps re-tighten the vagina after giving birth... Even when it's just a baby nursing there is vaginal stimulation happening. We are just wired that way, dear. Learn about your body.
Thank god you are just the cleopetra for the namesake. If you were a ruler, I dare say the tables would have been turned lol !
@more2life Somebody give this young woman a doctor's degree already!
Sorry if you were put in a bad corner to a question I had invited you to. Apologies on behalf of other people. :)
Because women’s bodies have been sexualized for ages
And would u be ok if it changed? Would be comfy with being topless in a society that accepts it.
Sure. I have.
You have.. as in.. you have already been to such a society and been topless? How did it feel when you did the first time?
Just topless sunbathing in Miami and on a cruise ship.
UHwow!
That's a huge step forward. And that was your first time?
I wish woman were allowed to go topless it would be so much easier!!!
Hah wonderful
I wish you had showed up a little earlier. It would have been easier to show proof to the ohter women who said this was a joke.
Sorry... But I seriously like your point of view on the topic!
Thank you. But you aren't even legal age. Why do you think my view is a better one?
Because even if I’m not of legal age it would still be great if the law changed because outside it’s super freaking hot in the summer, DECENT bras are expensive, breasts aren’t supposed to be sexual they’re literally for feeding children and they’re not a sex organ, and it would really be such a step forward in society and I think a lot of people could benefit. The only downside is that some men are perverts and it’s really scary and creepy but if society really would change it wouldn’t be that bad then...
The guys being creeps are just bcoz the sole reason that the breasts are made a taboo or. some kind of restricted stuff. The curiosity makes it worse in their minds. Once let free. It's gonna subtle down.
I think that if and hopefully when the curiosity is not... verbalised (I think that’s how it should be said like catcalls and that crap) then toplessness and chest equality for men and woman can happen or start to happen.
The cat calls aren't gonna stop that's for sure. No matter how dresses you are how naked you are. The perverts who want a girl to bang are def not gonna stop that. unless they are castrated or educated properly
Unfortunately true...
So like it or not , whatever clothes you wear or go bare that's def gonna happen. But the harassment would def reduce. People aren't gonna stare at the cleavages or boobs anymore or how they shake and jiggle when you walk. or run.
Cuz it’s socially unacceptable and society would say it’s slutty
Would you be ok baring it if it was allowed
@more2life lol you sound pretty aggressive in this topic.
@cosanostrakosa no i wouldn't be fine flashing my boobs/chest out in the public even if it was socially acceptable
@more2life i know, its really gross and just would make girls look bad if they do it
If u don't mind.. can I know you where you are from :)
Just out of sheer curiousity
im from Canada. why?
We don't show our chests because it will make random men happy, why would we do that?
Because society deemed it inappropriate for us to run about with our boobs bouncing in the wind unrestricted by a tight bra.
The way you put it. I have a strong feeling that you hate the restriction to the core and you are waiting for freedom?
Wow. This is great to know , and have you ever tried being topless or go out that way?
I tend to hear a lot of complaints from the women folk about how irritating bras are and how much of a back ache they can give in to.
Never went out topless, I would always wear baggy t shirts with no bra but yeah.
Bras in general are like prison for your boobies, it's uncomfortable sometimes and restrictive of something that is natural and would be better without. The only plus I can think of is the support bras give, without that our breasts would just sag lower, unless you are blessed with perfect perky breasts.
Baggy Tshirts make sense when you decide to go top commando.
Are all bras that way and why is it that women who are well beyond parental guidance fail to be free when they can. I mean yes I agree that it can be painfuluk irritating and distribing to wear one while sleeping and other things. But why would continue to wear it when you don't like it and what do you mean by sag? Are you serious on that?
Not all bras, no. I'm just one of those people who doesn't like bras for my own reasons, mainly I get hot and sweaty wearing them.
Sagging yes, I'm entirely serious about that. Imagine a spring holding two basketballs slightly above the air from the ground, the basketballs will 'hang' to that spring but will never fully drop entirely because the spring is supporting the basketballs weight. Same with breasts, bras make the looseness of natural breasts practically non-existent, therefore they are suppended in mid air by the bra itself.
Totally understandable !! I think I can totally relate too!
Never heard a woman come up with such a dry explaination :)
Because men turn animals then... now the situation is such that women can't even trust women 😂😂😂😂
ROFL ROFL rofl.. women can't trust women.. dude you are lit af! Three strikes already 😂
😂😂😂😂😂
I don't wear bra in winter I wear underwear vest. In the summer it sports bra. I don't wear sports bra to bed. Men think is sexualities but it for feeding the baby is the Brest.
Feminists want to prevent rape but they want to free the nipple. And I hate to say it, but for some awful men, seeing women’s bare chests constantly in public would cause more rape.
As i said earlier this curiousity invited in a man by making breasts a taboo Is what makes the guys want more see more and understand more and play more. The moment the cat is out of the box. Nobody would care much. It's gonna be there to watch just like normal legs and hands. its not gonna be Much if anything. Just my view.
Breasts have been sexualized, along with the whole female body.
Sexualised yes, but created as a taboo is a big mistake. Once its set free, the curiosity in the men would reduce and a few months or years down the line, they are simply gonna lose the sexual interest in them. That way rapes would reduce, am pretty sure about that. It is the curious mind that makes people do wrong things
but as a woman I wouldn't want my boyfriend or husband to lose sexual interest in me
You really think a man's sexual interest in a woman is only bcoz of breasts? You are completely wrong. If that is the case, many women would def lose their husbands to better-boobed women. Marital sex is completely different. And trust me, a man gets turned on in the weirdest and unexpected ways, and breasts are just one of them ;)
No, Im not only talking about walking around shirtless, if women would start out walking around shirtless someday theyd be completely naked
What makes you say that? And yes that is where the taboo should continue. The male and the female genitals are completely different and that is something that makes the species unique, that is what the sexualisation should be all about, not breasts
But why should we even walk around (half) naked? isn't that just sending us back a couple of thousand years?
Not really, Thousands of years were the year of illiterate men and women, more of superstitious and uncultured savages. We are still savages, but we have many more things to look for too!
Free the nipple... Don't be ashamed
Finally !!
Someone who stands out bold for the cause. Salutations to u madam. And have you ever tried it?
I've been Topless on beaches in Australia and New Zealand. It's not uncommon. Time to be proud of ourselves.
Awesome and how did it feel when you did it? For the first time. were you shy? Were you nervous and were you having your heart beat fast?
Because usually if we do men lose respect for us. Some men even go crazy lol
Because girls are very hypersexualized
And are you for or against the sexualisation of the women's chest?
Against. I do not see why it has to always be sexual. Breast are normal. Showing your boobs is considered a taboo in society unless its for a sexual purpose. Its annoying.
We as women do not want to constantly wear bras everywhere
exactly the kind of answer I was looking for. And have you ever tried rebelling, Not like taking a stand, but going topless or against the grain to prove yourself it is better?
I think most of them don't wear them already.
Yes because I have been to a nude beach. I thought people would be more judgmental but it was pretty chill
Nude beach is a different dimension all together don't you think?
True but otherwise when at the pool or beach I do not because lots of guys would comment and I get enough of it. It would be different if more of us did it
Hmm I totally understand. but there have been a lot of instagram users who are taking this very seriously. I have seen a lot of women proving a point on chest equality. I only wish it weren't so sexualised that we could have all been the same with peace and less harassment.
I agree. I would totally do it if it was
Wow.
You are a mvp!
Lol how so?
You totally won me over when u said u would do it if given a chance. That's the kind of women the world needs :)
Independent and self assesed
I try xD. Wearing bras is annoying af.
Lol !
I know, I used to hear about them all day, but I am very happy that I actually helped someone have the confidence to come down to college without wearing one for a few months. Though there were a little difficulties trying to adapt to the society !
Awesome good job!
Thanks but It kinda gave her an embarassing memory when it rained. So that was there too!
Lmao
Ha ha ha ha. I couldn't quite hide my amusement on that particular time. But sadly damage was already done I suppose
I would be embarrassed and shy lol
Exactly the same thing.
Note to all women.
If you are planning to go braless. Check for the weather report and never wear white xD
I wore a white shirt and a lace black bra and it got wet lets just say it was interesting
I would love to hear everything about it. But before that let me google a lace bra.
Lmao why
Googled. Looks interesting indeed. but at least you had something to cover up your dignity. I only hope u never had to deal with an unforeseen naked accident or a wardrobe malfunction. Trust me, matter the gender, it still is nightmare.
And if u are guy exposed naked in harsh cold conditions, it's gonna get even worse.
Why?
Just wanted to hear a good story ;)
Lmao. I already experienced that
Wait !
Whaaaat? You too. Can you tell me what and how it happened.
My friend she pantsed me at the store
Oh my god. !!
And this happened at what age?
Earlier this year
Oh my god. Pls don't tell me it happened in June July month.
On my birthday
Oh shit. No the kind of gift you wanted for Ur bday !!
Fr xD
The female body was designed by god, and showing bare nipples would be extreme sexual
Lol !
And who do you think designed the male body?
You will def get used to answering better for sure :)
lol.
Unique yes, then why do women take to surgeries to make them look better? If they are so divine as you say, shouldn't you embrace it regardless of the cup size and texture? Isn't god's creation to be shared to everyone?
The choice of a few women shouldn’t matter. The idealization of the “perfect female body” (Kim K, Nicki Minaj, etc) by the media is pushing girls beyond boundaries to the point where they feel that they need a surgery because they aren’t good enough. God clearly designed hips and breasts in order to bear children, did he not? Gods creation is definitely shared with everyone, but like I said some women just don’t think the gift is great enough.
Rightly said. The women are the ones who are making it even worse and pushing them to an even more sexualised territory
Because ours bounce around, it's distracting
Probably one of the hilarious answers today 😂😂😂
Exactly 😂😂😂
Well it's true... I went braless and those things jiggled when I took big strides while walking. It doesn't feel good at all
I really don't understand what's so bad about breasts moving around. It was made that way for a reason is it not. A bird flying in the world is better than being caged is it not?
@Slimey2 same!! I end up walking with my arms crossed the whole time
Walking causes them to shake. What size are we talking about here young ladies?
Mine are A but pms makes them bigger
I really don't know what to say. I don't even get the logic now. am just gonna thank you and say best of luck ')
PMS changes women's hormones thus causes body changes temporarily. Mine is bloating
Because the male and the female aren't alike.
Breasts are sexual, always have been, always will be. Tough cookies. Deal with it. Truth hurts. Life goes on.
Lol
It's more that that women have to deal with harsh reality more. Been hearing complains more from women about wearing bras and irritating clothes during the summer.
What! Lol
No. I don't need to. I mean even if I do see them half naked in the public. I can't do anything. Hell I can't even do anything if it was happening in my room. If u know what I mean. It was just a genuine question on this line. Am sorry if it shows off on a bad light.
@hasrett seriously? Omg ! Can't a guy actually ask some genuine questions out here?
@hasrett Oh, Come on !!
@hasrett You aren't going to give up on the thought that I actually opened up this question with intentions of seeing topless girls running around me? What's wrong with a guy asking such questions? isn't that the whole point of this forum? I am not going around asking them about their size.
Repsect your views. Point taken. No offense intended. Thank you :)
@hasrett and I apologise for positing the question and also if I hurt you in anyway. Have a great day
@hasrett :) :) :) and am sorry to have made inappropriate jokes too.
This is one double standard I'm ok with
And any particular reason for being so? I mean no offense and respect your views but I would love to hear your perspective
The effect male and female toplessness has on people isn't the same. And our chest area isn't the same. It just makes sense to me that women should be somewhat covered uptop.
Laws.
And would you be comfy taking them off of the law changed?
Some places, perhaps. Not everywhere.
Nice.
And one last thing. Have you ever felt bras were a headache and have you ever tried to ditch them someday?
No, not really.
Hah. A more cultured woman. Great :)
I respect your opinions and thanks for opening up.
May I know where u are from?
Los Angeles.
Thank you :)
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