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I think in certain ways it is going a little far. That said, an accusation alone doesn’t put someone in jail. Of course false accusations are wrong and damaging, but people are still innocent until proven guilty. That hasn’t changed.
I think harsher penalties need to be put in place for those who make false allegations. Maybe then some innocent people won't have their lives destroyed, and legitimate victims will be validated
I would say considering how much it's talked about they constantly brought up yeah I would say it's getting a bit out of control and I think there should always be an innocent until proven guilty and if that person is guilty they get whatever is coming to them but if that person is innocent I think that those who lied and made Fabrications should suffer for trying to ruin someone
It's not out of control because it's exactly what it was meant to be. It was launched as a new way to point fingers at men and say they're all perverts and sexist pigs.
From the first day you already had women calling everything sexual assault, from a door held to a simple look.
So, no, it's not out of control. It's just that people misunderstood what it was.
I know what you mean and agree. Anything that can be misused will be misused. That should have been one of the provisions. As it stands, the whole deal is pretty biased and broken. But that's just my opinion though.
I understand what your saying but not all the people doing the metoo movement name who may or may not have done something. In fact some people. dont even explain what happened.
It is way out of control I bet some of the women who are coming out saying this dude fucked me or touched me when I didn't consent to it they probably threw themselves at them and I just feel its just stupid
I don't think some women care whatsoever if a guy is falsely accused, and that's what bothers me. Some, key word SOME women seriously believe that women never lie... also a problem. When it comes to this type of allegations especially, big problem.
I didn't even know what this was until now. If you feel that guys are being targeted when they are innocent then treat those people the same way they treat you.
Women out of control, telling about abuse?
http://i.imgur.com/Fnde8tU.jpg
Patriarchy CAN NOT tolerate that. They must take action at once.
Innocent until proven guilty seems to be well and truly enforced in the justice system. No worries about that.
In public though, I guess the loudest are the ones who dictate how messed up your reputation becomes after the fact.
It's alright, gives an incentive to transparency. And besides, if someone accuses someone who's innocent, they can get sued back for slander, which would ruin their career. So even for people that call out 'harassers' falsely there's a punishment.
Y dis happens to a woman only. Because they don't stand for other woman.
Some woman don't even have guts to share their pain.
The society in which we are living today is made by men for the sake of men.
Why not woman comes forward and take over the same.
You cannot do this right without a fight.
Yeah, I think it's unfair... though how does someone prove sexual assault?
By reporting it when it happens and not sitting on the evidence. Like all crime... it's likelier someone gets convicted the sooner the crim. is reported
DNA , timing , there's a lot of ways
It's out of control but I mean men can get raped too, women can rape women, women can rape men (if the woman is physically stronger/or grabs his dick without permission). <-- Obviously
Yet they should stop yelling out many men are rapists and think more. It's good trying to stop the rape culture but not by accusing innocent men and taking it too far.
It isn't out of control as long as the law stays objective, the rest is gossip and it can ruin a person's life but it can't be helped, humans are usually quick on judgement, that is why we have laws.
I agree that everyone is innocent until proven guilty and it sucks that some people are stripping that away/hurting the real victims of sexual abuse.
There's a difference between sexual assault, and a man flirting with/hitting on a woman.
The #metoo movement doesn't seem to distinguish between the two.
This would have been better suited as a MyTake. But after asiz ansari, the movement lost almost all its credibility. It won't be long before it dies out completely. Innocent until proven guilty was broken by truth reached by majority opinion.
When something that's unfair to happen for a longer. Of time there's a backlash once it finally starts to resolve itself. It's not fair and should be made so, but neither was what the group that was being wronged.
What happened to thinking women knew what had happened to them?
The understanding that many women lie for personal gain. Many people lie for personal gain.
And how maany were actually really proven to be lies? Not how many you or your favorite conspiracy site THINKS are lying. Actual numbers? I know for a fact it's a small amount.
Everyone is innocent until proven guilty. and you have to prove it. Thats our system and the only way innocent people don't get their lives ruined.
It’s a sociocultural exposé, not necessarily a legal one. We all know about the infamous casting couch.
The court of public opinion has ALWAYS been quick to convict. Nothing new here.
Now girls are exposing rapist hence you think it is getting out of control.
No innocent men are being accused and so we think it's getting out of control. Not all men are innocent but not all men guilty.
@MrSincere Men have always been accused of this stuff and women are getting raped. It sucks but the world is an ugly place. But if this helps get men behind bars then I believe the only problem are those who are lying which could be someone denying that rape took place or someone lying about the rape that took place and not the Metoo movement. The metoo movement has helped many women comeout. Therefore I would say that the women or men who are lying are getting out of control. There's alway that one person who ruins it for everyone right?
Yeah report what you want but be positive in what you want because your in reality destroying a man's life when he's reported not only does he equire the name Xbox in prison and get beat up every day of his sentence just about but they useually don't find many partners and end up dying in prison or killing themselves in some sort of way I personally say report all ofem but at the same time be sure you can live with doing that to someone.
MeToo is not supposed to be taken as a legal movement. IT's a social movement so that people can relate to other's who've been assaulted.
I think it's getting ridiculous and making people who have really suffered be taken less seriously
Guys who abuse women are getting frantic and scared it will affect them.
Yes even flirting can be called sexual harassment. I won't even tell a girl she has beautiful eyes or she is a beautiful woman anymore.
As a Firefighter/First Responder/ Security Guard I got fired for sexual harassment after asking a girl who came to me with some medical questions about her health, medical questions trying to give her advice about if she should go see a doctor or go to a emergency room before or after she got off work.
I did eventually get the termination for sexual harassment removed after the the Female bosses did a further investigation of the charges. With my statement and the fact I was smart enough to record the conversation, + put in full details into my hourly reports. Plus it come to find out she was a friend of a guy I had to arrest for Domestic abuse the week prior on the property. Had to call the cops in to take him to jail. Then go to court the next morning with a copy of my report and my boss decisions to press charges I thought was pretty awesome too. Even know she wasn't his victim. And the fact his girlfriend was to scared to press charges he ended up with disorderly conduct, and simple assault on a law enforcement agent even those his punch on me missed by a mile the tried. Got him a year in jail mandatory anger management classes. I didn't decide to press the last bit of charges till he threatened his girlfriend, my boss, and me.
unfortuently stories like this are becoming too common , I was accused of sexual harassment back when I was in high school , would of been 2003 , that was way before it was even the trendy thing to do. I don't recall all the details but it seemed to originate from a girl I had tried to ask out and who was from a crowd of girls way more popular than I was and they decided to get back at me for trying to date someone I shouldn't of. eventually it all cooled down but once your labeled as a harasser or stalker its hard to shake the accusations even it they weren't really truthful to begin with
Innocent until guilty no longer matters, the me too movement is idiotic women lying about rape and wanting to jail men without any proof
Mmm actually instead the people who were accused before the movement weren't even investigated at all, companies just ignored the problem. Now they ARE investigating.
Unless a victim immediately goes to police or hospital right after the incident, unfortunately there isn't much evidence that could be given.
Women who supports this are mostly weak women. That's why they join it to make themselves feel strong. Strong does not mean you have money or career. Strong women means you can stand up for what is really and naturally right. If the women are weak, this hashtag is just proving just that. The hashtag means nothing more than weakness, just like the weak feminists. So my stand is, yes it will get out of control if there are too many weak women
The me too movement is so out of control, that women have started to question this movement.
I don't think it''s out of control but I believe that there are some people who are just looking to spread lies about other people who have power and see if they can get away with it.
#metoo is an opinion of an experience. The victim of that experience saw it in a bad light, so bad they declared metoo. If the other person meant it or it was legal or illegal has no relevance to #metoo
Remember #metoo is not just for women, its for anyone who's ever been sexually harassed male or female.
I don't have an idea because I've tried to tread as a gentleman' towards women. but even saying that I may have acted improper in conduct. everone should deserve a fair shake.
my answer to #metoo is "get over it, we all are"...
Should put the woman on a lie detector test first unless the guy is from Hollywood cause he most definitely did probably rape a lot of underage girls
It's not just sexual harassment. Two members of the Tonight Show staff were recently fired for RECEIVING unsolicited racist emails.
Is it out of control? No. Are there people trying to take advantage of it? Yes. And shame on those people
You’re right, they are aleady convicted by public opinion and the media yet hasn’t even been convicted or tried in the courts , as far as I know you’re innocent until proven guilty or did they change that recently?
No such thing anymore. It's always believe women or you're just as bad as a rapist
Tough situation. To me it does seem like a witch hunt sometimes, but women need to be defended and supported. I wish we could all treat each other better.
I know. I dont even need to read it. Reality is fluid.
The problem with humans is we ruin everything that involves money. Which is everything.
Innocent until proven guilty hasn't existed in the media for a long time.
i dont think so... at least topic is been addressed... it will spread awareness
We need to start a counter movement, all the men who have had false sexual misconduct allegations against them must speak out with the hashtag #metoo.
Guys: wouldn't ir be great if every single guy stayed at home on a Saturday night just to see how they would feel with no guys around?
I’m happy women are speaking out but NOT all men are sexist and abusive. I’m not.
Yes. Innocent until proven guilty, it just seems like a total witch hunt at this point.
If you rather go to the social media rather than the police you have a problem
Yeah it is. Pretty stupid that a guys whole career can be ruined all because of an accusation
Def, out of control. Women should def speak up, but we can't start going back 10+ years with limited or no evidence convicting people.
In the eyes of feminism, a male is guilty until proven guilty.
Feelings = Facts
and a woman's word is more important than truth.
If you are a man accused of doing something to a woman, you are guilty until proven innocent, been that way for a long time.
I can see the accused being put on leave, but probably shouldn't be fired until being proven guilty.