Hey, I have been sexually assaulted but none of the girls who was sexually assaulted by him want to report him with me. That dude seems like a very nice guy too. But majority of the women don't report it. So what we are seeing is that many of the one's who are lying are reporting it because they are out for revenge and are not affected by it and they make it harder for the girls who were actually assaulted harder to report it because then they are scared if people start calling them a liar or if the dective or cop doesn't believe them and if then they are shamed. They have to go home and still deal with the paiin of the assault. The girls who lie don't. They report and get it over with easily. Anyway, it depends on the situation. I have seen so many innocent people get shamed for what their criminal record says but not for what really happened and what really happened was that they were screwed over.
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Can I asked what country is this? Peeing in the street here in England I think they get a fine, but it may been perceived as your friend exposing himself in broad daylight if they might be children around. I am 25, but when I was a child I used to see men Peeing on the street a lot. I felt disgusted by it and freaked out. Now I still do see men do that, which I am not so freaked out. But I still think there a toilet nearby it's not like we're in the middle of nowhere where. So yes, I understand your anger that he shouldn't not been on the sex offenders list for Peeing, but the court system may think what if children was around.
While I agree that there are a lot of people on that list for the wrong reasons, I completely disagree with the sentiment of this question. It is a very rare occurrence that people are fallacy accused of sexual crimes. I've never met a man over the age of 20 who has never raped someone.
When someone claims that they must register as a sex offender because they took a leak in an alley, there is usually much more to the story than just taking a leak in an alley.
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depends on whether they were genuinely guilty or wrongly accused cos I have known of friends who were accused but were led on originally, one friend went out met a girl in a bar, doormen let her in as her ID checked out, she looked 18-22
and her ID looked real (one of the doormen was an ex fraud copper)
he got chatting they drank loads both ended up at her place and he got up in the morning after being told her uncle was down visiting so might turn up...
he found it was her dad and she was 14-15
he got time in prison and placed on the sex offenders register...
another case I almost ended up on it a few years ago after defending one of my sons from an abusive adult, who later pressed charges against me for pointing at them... but they said i hit them and caused inner ear damage... while i was getting my pic taken and swabbed (as a false statement by someone under pressure) claimed I did what was said... despite not doing anything...
they asked my name even went to arrest me for being a rapist, the guy who they were after is 6'3 and I'm 5'9, he was ginger and had tattoos on his forearms
I am naturally blonde but hair's darkened over time.. and no tats
even their sergeant said leave the guy alone you idiot... he's not even remotely like who you are after...
so does really depend on the situation and if they deserved the charge, if they did then ABSOLUTELY NOTMany times people over react and many get unjust punishment
I know someone who just gave his pack of biscuits to a cute little girl for whome he was saying she looks like his daughter who was out of the country with her mum and he only gave this biscuit coz this little girl was looking at him and wanted it so he gave her and didn't even touch her at all but he got registered as sex offender coz the girl's mum was a real bitch, she first tried to make some money out of him calling it "harassment damages" and when he and other guys who were also present there said no she called cops and it went down real bad for him, he also lost job
So i would like to know what was the case even if i knew someone was on the registerThere may be some men who shouldn't be on the list, but there are far more that haven't been registered yet that 100% should be. We ARE surrounded by creeps, many women in my life have had terrible stories to tell me and justice isn't always served. aka Brock Turner, who is currently trying to get his name removed from the list. Sickening.
The most important thing is context. Like you say, there's a likelihood of the person being put on the sex offenders list for the most miniscule of reasons, and sometimes for no reason at all. I'd have to do a lot of research on the person before coming to a conclusion.
I'm aware that the majority of people on the sex offender registry are not a threat, and a minority are. so i'd want to know details.
A good article on it was :
https://www.economist.com/node/14164614A friend of mine was in boston in a bar, got drunk and needed to pee, but the toilet was really gross, so he peed in the bush on the other streetside, there was a children playground on the other side of the bush (he didn't notice), a policecar stopped and he got registered as sex offender...
I have no trust in the government since that day...There's no such thing as "the list" in my country so, yeah if i found out someone was convicted of a sexual crime (or anything major really) then that would absolutely be a deal breaker. Peeing in an alley might get you a ticket here if the cops see you, that's it. It doesn't show up in criminal records or anything like that.
How do you feel about a registered sex offender that did time / paid for his crime? ↗ Does he deserve a second chance?
It depends on why they are a registered sex offender. There are stupid reasons someone could be on the list. For instance if they got caught flashing or streaking, they will be on the list but don't deserve to be. As opposed to those that have actually sexually assaulted someone.
If someone else confessed, then the record can be expunged. So it’s his own fault for not taking the time to do it.
It depends in what they were accused of and what the outcome is. Unfortunately the judges and DAs have a lot of leeway when pressing charges.
Hell no! I trust our legal system, they deserved to be registered!
Depends on the circumstances, but it was something as stupid as peeing in the alley then yes, I would.
It depends on what they did. To your point, there's a lot of people on the sex offender list who shouldn't be there.
I had a very similar experience with a friend of mine. So it would all depened on the situation.
It depends, because you can end up on the sex offender list for public urination lmao
doesn't necessarily mean it was from a sexual act so
The story about the 15 year old sounds odd. Couldn't they have just done a dna test?
I would not... better safe than sorry
No lol I never dated sorryyy
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