So there's a story popping up on my news feed for a few weeks where a female teacher (27) had sex with a 14 year old boy. And i saw the article on Facebook and 90% of the people are commenting something like "dude's a legend". Or "he needs to keep his mouth shut" and "where was this teacher when i was a kid"? Like what the fuck. If the situation was reversed, and a 27 year old dude had sex with a 14 year old girl, the whole world would be on his fucking ass and say the most horrible stuff about him? But it doesn't matter, right? Because the teacher was hot and if the pedophile is hot, then fuck it. It's all good? She's not even been declared a sex offender. Where are all the feminists now?
I think a lot of guy's say that, because it's something that some have fantasised about or simply because the teacher is hot.
There does seem to be a double standard, when it comes to females too, at least from what I hear, like them getting lesser sentences for the same crimes as men, especially in lesser situations like this.
Nearly forgot to mention, but people make jokes about anything nowadays and nothing seems to be off-limits, so it may well just be one of those.
If you got the post from the LAD Bible, which I may have saw it on myself recently, then I'd typically see comments like the ones you shown, but when it comes to other things, that seemingly favour females, people are quick to point out double standards, mostly men, but I've also seen women point out double standards that favour them too.
Yeah uh... all this means is that people are universally retarded. How about we revisit and rethink and be more patient about how we feel about ALL "sex offenders," rather than just "oh shouldn't we hate and revile people even more? ? ? !" Because, no... that isn't the answer. The answer isn't "hate females who have sex with teenagers more since that's what the Internet says about males who have sex with teenagers," it's "how about we get smarter about what we're suggesting when we say that in the first place."
It isn't about "hating" anyone more than the other. It's just most people not seeing and accepting that this act is as wrong as when done by a male or a female.
... No, the point of your question/post is why isn't the hate *equally distributed.* And MY point is, why isn't the *reason and understanding and patience* equally distributed. A fourteen year-old dude is old enough to know who he's sexually attracted to and want sex with. That's why he did it. And that's why she did it. That would be the same if the genders were reversed or not. Rather than accept the truth of this, people like using scapegoating in order to feel better about themselves, so they get all mad online and make stupid posts about "pedophiles" that they understand absolutely nothing about. Note: He legally wasn't old enough and they shouldn't have done it. But is it the end of the world as people often treat these cases? No. Does it deserve years in prison? No. Should she get some kind of reprimand? Sure. And that is the truth of the matter regardless of which way the genders swing.
How did you know the boy wanted to have sex with the woman? How can you even make that assumption? If he did want this, he wouldn't tell his parents about it, which he did. And young boys or girls can easily be manipulated to do stuff. That's why laws are created to protect minors. But just fuck the law right? We'll just assume this kid wanted to bang her teacher. Yeah? And yes, she does years in prison. Because the other male pedophiles that committed the same act went to prison. Why shouldn't she?
Why shouldn't she? Because it's stupid and won't solve anything. The guy wasn't hurt. Yes he was underage, she deserves a reprimand, and it won't happen again. Again, you're arguing in favor of more universal punishment and anger, and I'm arguing for more universal common sense and patience. "And young boys or girls can easily be manipulated to do stuff." Noooo, *people* can be easily manipulated into doing stuff, if the person doing the manipulating is good at it. And just to refute your point of "how did you know," uh, how do you know he didn't want to? What, because he told his parents? That doesn't mean anything; he could have been goaded into it or made to feel something was wrong by someone else, when he himself maybe felt that something was wrong or maybe didn't feel that something was wrong. We can't know his mind. I didn't say "fuck the law," I said it was illegal and she deserves a reprimand of some kind, which in my opinion shouldn't be years in prison, because, again, that's stupid and will solve nothing.
No harm? She could have emotionally traumatized the boy. She should be punished according to the laws regarding child abuse. I dont care if it's stupid or not. If it's against the law, she deserves the punishment.
" She could have emotionally traumatized the boy." Yeah, from having sex... no, probably not. He'll be fine. You're making this very simple for yourself, as do most people, in order to make it more easily digestible. I can understand that; it's common. Rather than accepting that things in life, especially romance and sexuality, are way more complicated than words in a state revised code allow for, you're taking the harsh punishment method. I can't say that that actually makes sense, or that I agree; I thought you were above that. I hope you can see in the future that ^ what you just said is not always true, not even for yourself. You've broken the law before; we all do, almost every day. And since thankfully we don't live in a Big Brother police state (yet), most of us haven't gone to prison for stupid reasons. It's a shame to hear "I don't care" to reason.
I urge you to research some about the concepts of "mala in se" versus "mala in prohibita." Peace.
I saw that post yesterday and I noticed that at least 80% of the men commenting are celebrating what she did. If you read the replies (I think in the first or second comment), some women tried to point out the double standard but men instantly said they "they're triggered", "it's not the same for women and men. This guy will be a legend" and pretty much made fun of them. This is also not the first time it happens. Something similar happened a few months ago. And there were several women pointing it out too. But of course you don't post these screenshots, it doesn't fit what you're trying to say.
The law and soceity treats women like little children. An awful lot of women think its perfectly acceptable to sleep with an underage boy while think it's unacceptable for a man to sleep with an underage girl.
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- because there are still too many (men and women alike) who claim men can't be raped, sexually abused, etc - there are still too many who will make the argument that a 14 year old having sex with a grown woman is more a feat to be proud of rather than exploitation
basically it comes down to sexism. and no it is not women's fault is the fault of societal constructs of gender, masculinity and yes toxic masculinity which suggest that sex for men is the end game regardless of how it occurs
there was a woman who was into young boys near where i used to live with my first partner, wondered why she kept looking at my eldest son the way she was... I had a bad feeling about her so made sure he didn't go around there even to see the kids that were there, if they wanted to play it was made clear they did it out the front of my house or where I or his mam could keep an eye out... but my gut feelings about her was made true not long after my partner's brother (who was and still is a right weirdo, and not in a good way) went around there and started spending more time around there... the police raided her place and arrested her as if memory serves me there were reports of her having sex with a boy as young as 10, when they turned up they found her in bed with a lad around 12...
she had all 4 of her kids taken off her and arrested for sex with a minor...
whether they are viewed as less than male paedos or not, the reality is they still do what they should not with children and therefore are WRONG in any count... they are as sick as the male sicko's out there and punishment for their crimes should be equal to that of men...
they still taking the child's innocence away and they still manipulate them on a psychological level, even threaten when they fear anyone will find out so why should they get let off easy
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People have been programmed to think of men as predators and women as prey. Is it surprising that they feel this way? If a man and a woman get drunk together and have sex, its rape because she couldn't consent. That means that our core idea is that women control sex and only allow it if its in her best interests. Society slut-shames because a woman isn't in control of her sexual urges - she doesn't fit the mold of being the gatekeeper.
You ladies know better because you know that your sexual urges are just as strong a any man, and most of you dislike the idea that you're not allowed to act on them. Which, of course, is programming in itself. You see the teacher as a predator because you're not easily programmed into seeing her simply as prey. But the vast majority of men, for their entire lives, have been told that women are an unwilling conquest and having sex is an accomplishment.
So to them, the kid is the victor because he conquered a challenge. It doesn't compute that she was acting on her urges because she's supposed to resist.
The woman should always have consequences because a kid can't consent and that's just the law. However if the kid doesn't think he was raped and got to bang his hot teacher. He is lucky. I can think of a few teachers I would have like to have sex with. Also I'm sure it's the same for women. Like that was never a teacher you taught was hot and wanted to fuck. Things can be illegal but still celebrated.
I think female peds are pitied and felt sorry for, while male peds are hated and wanted to be beaten and castrated. As to "why", I'm just guessing -- somewhere in the human mind, there's the idea that a female pedophile might somehow be rehabilitated and truly be contrite for her actions, while a male will just ALWAYS be child molester and blame it on a mental illness he couldn't control (which may be true in some cases?). That's my guess.
I think it's the fact they still think of teachers in the same childish mindset they had when they themselves were at school. Most boys (AND girls) had a crush on at least one of their teachers at some point, so when they see a story of an attractive teacher sleeping with a student they place themselves in that position.
If you actually sat them down and had them contemplate the reality of it, I expect most would realise the severity. Or at least I really hope so.
i know the woman who did similar here in the uk five years ago is still in prison and her name will always be on the register. she was a teacher too. i can't be arsed to read the full details of each case because thats for judge and jury but the one you mention must have had a good brief
because female pedophiles usually go after high school boys and tend to be younger and sexier.
the male pedophiles, are usually not good looking and take girls below 12.
The double standard is about the boy having sex with a sexy, older woman. Teacher fantasy, babysitter fantasy, anything like that.
Also there usually is a sympathy story to go with the woman. Rape or abused as a child. Being controlled by a man in her life and wants to escape something. Still wrong to take advantage of the boy.
Is it wrong for both, of course. That is just why they are hated less.
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The fact that people who have similar opinion as you showed above are men And most men if not all love sex, most men consider having multiple sexual partner is achievement. Biological imperative. So I'm not shocked if most men jokingly said something just like you post above And you can't just post few comments from like minded people to represent the whole world. That is unjust We condemn such act be it women or men as it still considered as a disorder As for feminist, I still can't understand the group, maybe because their varied goals and agendas, that sometimes sounds contradictory to compare with, but maybe I'm wrong
The reality is women are much more likely to regret early sex than men. They are more likely to imagine they’re living out some transgressive love affair they later realize was a lie while boys are more likely to think “yes I’m getting pussy”.
Oh, I think they are, especially by other women. It's always the guys who give them a free pass, saying the victim was "lucky" or calling him a "hero".
Because it is not really pedophilia and everyone knows what has really been going on. A teenager fucked his teacher and then snitched on her to weasel out of bad school grades.
Look how it's mostly men who have those thoughts though. I think that's important to note.
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partially because we consider female weak and in need of protection. It is obviously a double standard and whether the boy enjoyed it or not is irrelevant. I dare say that many 14 year old girls would enjoy sex with their teachers as well but there are reasons that this is illegal.
I rarely read about a male teacher and a female student anyone, It seems to be an epidemic of young female teachers getting arrested for this activity
I was 12 when a woman had sex with me. Honestly, I have no issues with it. She was kind and informative, I learned a lot I am not sure men that chase little girls or boys are that concerned about their targets well being.
First Type a little clearer ... I am a male.. I was taken to bed by an adult female when I was 12.. I personally had no issues with it.. nothing went wrong.. I did not grow up disturbed, or a pedo.. And my point was, I think Male Pedos are harmful. where as Women I believe are in some way working on an odd sense of maternalism
If you observe only males post things like that about female pedophiles. All child molesters are gross it is just some men like fantasizing about being that boy and this happening to them.
I once were in a discussion with a couple class mates whom casually confessed having a crush on a teacher, it puzzled me then and i still do not get it but i guess this is a similar thought
I'd like to know why men are disliking this comment when they can see in the screenshots that what you're saying it's true. But they'd rather pretend to be blind and keep shitting on women I guess
For real, I'm still trying to understand. It makes no sense. 💀 I literally saw the same post on facebook with many women complaining about it but he skipped all of them. Like dude 💀
And who are you to assume there aren't any females that wouldn't feel "lucky" or praise another girl? Everyone is different. Stop assuming men and women are different.
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