The problem is the definition of what counts as sexual harassment and assault has become ridiculously broad. If me tapping you on the shoulder counts as sexual assault, that's frankly my cue to never speak to you again.
Just because you had a traumatic experience - which I’m very sorry for - I hope you did the right thing and told the proper authorities/your parents - that doesn’t mean we live in a rape culture.
How can you say that when we live in a world where if a girl was raped while drunk or drugged people think she was "asking for it". When the first thing a lot of people ask is "what were you wearing?". When the survivors are shamed and told not to talk about it and act like it never happened?
Survivors aren’t shamed. I, for example, just told you to go get help and go to authorities. We prosecute rapists, it’s the 2nd most heinous crime in our society next to murder. That’s why.
I'm good tbh ig since it happened at a young age i dont think it effected me THAT much but I blamed myself for everything. I feel like the der I get the more it effects me tho bc i understand what actually happened
Understadable. I tried to do that but fortunally or unfortunally because I already had severe anxiety I couldn't keep it in and had to talk to someone.
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The problem is the definition of what counts as sexual harassment and assault has become ridiculously broad. If me tapping you on the shoulder counts as sexual assault, that's frankly my cue to never speak to you again.
Oh, no I mean actuall inappropriate touching (groping, touching the lower part through clothes etc)
Ok good. As long as it's something explicitly inappropriate.
Several times. Step mom just didn't give a damn. Hair brushes up the keester while nibbling on the little fella that's tucked away and everything.
OML. How have you been?
Just a rotten b:tch.
I've been a b:tch!
Wait what? I mean, I get it, she's defnetly a bitch for doing that to you but?
We don’t have a rape culture. What gave you that idea?
I would love the sarcasm if what happened to me wasn't so fresh in my mind.
Just because you had a traumatic experience - which I’m very sorry for - I hope you did the right thing and told the proper authorities/your parents - that doesn’t mean we live in a rape culture.
How can you say that when we live in a world where if a girl was raped while drunk or drugged people think she was "asking for it". When the first thing a lot of people ask is "what were you wearing?". When the survivors are shamed and told not to talk about it and act like it never happened?
Survivors aren’t shamed. I, for example, just told you to go get help and go to authorities. We prosecute rapists, it’s the 2nd most heinous crime in our society next to murder. That’s why.
In some parts there is still shaming of the survivor.
That doesn’t make it a rape culture. And shaming survivors is the minority.
Yes I have been sexually harassed.
I was raped at a young age
How have you been?
I'm good tbh ig since it happened at a young age i dont think it effected me THAT much but I blamed myself for everything. I feel like the der I get the more it effects me tho bc i understand what actually happened
Oh hon, you're defenitly not the one at fault in this. But if you're good then that's great
Harassed and assaulted. Thankfully not raped
Whaaat? I didn't know.. if u r online.. text me
@24brownish its ok, long time ago
I left u a message if u r done with the celebration :)
Yes, I'm sad to say that I have been.
Yes. 3/3
How have you been doing?
Should have dealt with it when it happened instead of trying to bury it all.
Understadable. I tried to do that but fortunally or unfortunally because I already had severe anxiety I couldn't keep it in and had to talk to someone.
Yeah, and it turned me on.
... then we are not talking about the same thing.
More MeToo bull crap stats. Women lie about rape in half the cases.
I didn't
Nope
By men? No. By women? Less than I'd like.
So far, no.
No, I haven't