Concepts evolve over time. Traditional concepts written by men.. conveniently have “strength” as a male trait. Passivity as female. Lack of aggression dies not regal passivity. That outlook is very damaging. It leads to war.
Aggression is one quality. There are many kinds of force and being powerful does not mean one must be brash.
And, you pointed out, we are all a mix. It does not serve any purpose to acknowledge we are a mix , then insist on branding people.
There are many non aggressive behaviors that are valued and powerful. Confidence can be quiet dignity.
Independence can involve strength of character not being easily mislead
Strength can come in the form of unwavering conviction
I don’t think women and men face different traits. We may manifest same traits in different ways
Confidence strength humility nurturing wisdom fairness reason compassion toleration ambition patience empathy honesty discernment faith steadiness flexibility
These are all important and needed different it at different times, and they can be expressed in very different ways
Traditionally -understood -to -be -feminine traits -are valued every bit as much now, as in the past, by the right people.. they are just acknowledged openly as not belonging to any specific gender
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- Self interest
- Abundance mentality
- Strict sexual and relationship strategy
- High standards
- Solid boundaries
- You are the prize
The classic traits are still valuable as always, by men who do. Women can be strong and sure they can accomplish the same goals as men do, but do they really need to, if they have a strong man behind them? I think it is better to leave the bread winning and leading to men and creating the spirit of a real home to women. Both are very important and true gentlemen don't just look down at women but they respect for keeping the family together as it is and that is the key to have everyone their genuine role. Just ask yourself, would you rather choose a good cooker and someone who's good at housekeeping, or rather a leader who ensures financial background and respects your values too?
I think it's pretty obvious that things like "self interest" and "you are the prize" are NOT feminine traits that are valued, not now and not ever.
Society today seems to value masculine traits in women more than it does in men, which is crazy. Women who understand and embrace their true femininity are the most valuable women of all.
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The feminine traits that are valued today are the very same ones that were valued decades ago. They are just as beautiful, valuable and powerful today as they ever were, and that will never change. Women who harness their femininity have enormous power in this world.
In my opinion, women who try to be powerful using masculine traits lose that feminine power, and also lose their value to, and their power over men.
The female user here who gave you a list of very unfeminine traits does not understand femininity and has no feminine power or beauty. She may believe she does, but I have no doubt that the people around her would all disagree.There same feminine traits that are good in men are good in anyone. Compassion, tenderness, nurturing, beauty, etc. There are positive and negative masculine traits and positive and negative feminine traits, and I think that's the case no matter which gender displays them. A well rounded person has a good mix of the positive masculine and positive feminine.
Being traditionally feminine (classy dresses instead of hoodies, elegance instead of carelessness, heels/flats instead of sneakers) rather than a slave to the modern feminazi agenda (shaved heads, tattoos, masculine clothes, needless aggression towards moral people, etc) 💁🏼♀️👗👠👒💃🏻
Cooking and cleaning and taking care of the kids guys don't give a flying fuck about how many degrees a woman has or if she inspires to be a CEO of corporate America. Women have a few simple jobs 1. Cooking 2. Cleaning 3. Raising kids 4. Giving sex to her husband. But "women" today still manage to fuck up the easiest of tasks. They can't cook they don't know how to clean or maintain a home without whining and bitching and complaining about it they can't even raise kids properly without yelling and screaming and swearing at them and beating them nearly to death or the polar opposite they have this "I don't give a shit what my kid does let him go on a rampage" attitude and they can't even stay faithful to their man without "branch swinging" jumping from one guys dick to another and popping 3 to 4 babies out with 3 to 4 different fathers (look at the whores on teen mom 2)
I find that in today's society, women take whats special about femininity for granted, and instead aim for masculine traits instead. Its incredibly sad that many fail to realize just crucial a good home is and maintaining that is a wonderful and respectful thing.
That's one of the many paradoxes of the leftards theories of reality. Keep looking, they all eventually circle right around and crawl up their own asses in the end. They're just hoping you're stupid enough not to notice.
Well how about
dignity? I don't have to show my body to earn attention?
What about chastity? I won't use my body unless im with my husband?
What about integrity? Honesty on all you do word though and deed?
What about femininity?
What about respectability over degeneracy?
Nothing about boob size or ass size, nothing about how you should give it up. Charecter is worth a thousand words and a picture can rarely capture it."In society today" bloody hell.
"with feminism and all, it seems like only traditionally masculine traits are being valued" yayyy even dumber. Can you out-dumb in further commentary these first two statements? They're *pretty* dumb but I have faith in you.All of them for the most part.
Masculine traits got us to where we are from nomadic scavengers and cave people until the suicidal species we are now, but feminine traits will be the ones critical for our survival going forward.Being empathetic, nurturing, building people up instead of tearing them down, loving, helpful, kind, compassionate, you know, all the shit the modern women isn’t
I would say they are all still valued quite highly amongst men... can you tell me what you think is no longer valued?
What makes you think strength, independence, or confidence are purely masculine traits? Defining your own femininity is YOUR choice, not to be defined by anyone else. So be whomever you are or think you should be.
Feminine traits were feminine in the 4th century, they were feminine before that and are feminine now. Facts don't change.
Your view that strength and confidence is masculine is the problem. Start seeing it as just people and not male/female.
The same that is has always been including flirting, a look, a smile, and a sexy walk.
Feminine traits are desired by masculine men. Don't listen to dumb bitches and cuck betas.
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Except that traits like manliness and strength are not valued anymore and considered toxic. Femininity is still valued but not by feminism
Why is being strong, independent, and confident considered "masculine"?
Feminism destroied everything women chased
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