no, it's not. it's a feminazi/sjw bullshit term made up to basically silence the large majority of people. just like this new wave of racism against white poeple that's going on right now.
They are fine until they realize that it hurts their chances of being with women, or results in their only option to be with a woman is through her exploiting him for his resources.
Then again a lot of these red pill dating guys are teaching men to be beta male providers and run beta Male provider "game" by teaching men they have to "be on their purpose" and have money and all this to attract women.
I think most men resent that kind of life and would rather have real and genuine love.
@HiveBee hun. I think you have been online way too much and have no real dating experience with women. Being an alpha certainly attracts more women, but it can't make a woman fall for you. I wouldn't care if my soulmate was a beta or alpha, I only care about what qualifies him to be my soulmate. Beta/alpha is really second priority to personality.
I need a guy who is funny and charismatic. I wouldn't give a shit if he's not as alpha as some other dude. As long as he can make me laugh, i am happy.
I wish I could say you were right. But my view comes from real life women. They taught me more than anything.
That's why guys dont believe what you said. We wish we were valued for being ourselves. But in the real world we see which guys girls go for. And they are the opposite of genuine people expressing their real selves.
The guys who get the girls they want, are weirdos with fake personalities designed to "get girls."
They're stupid, uninteresting, shallow, boring people. But girls swoon over them because they create this bizarre "alpha" personality.
And the rest of us guys see that. And we realize we have to be fake to be attractive to girls. Or so that's what we believe anyways through experience.
I mean I think guys should just be themselves. Learn to be their real selves instead of being fake.
But we look to those men who are successful and learn from them. And so men will not go down the path of genuine self expression, because practically, it doesn't work as well as creating a fake alpha persona.
We see it in real life, and then take to the internet in hopes of understanding why it's like this. I dont think the internet helps. I dont think the dating advice and the red pill and the "alpha Male strategies" is good for anyone.
But then again, it kinda works. Just learn to act alpha and you'll go from a single dateless guy to having lots of dates.
A guy being his genuine self just isn't a good strategy.
I will mansplain it like this, there are two types of people in this world, those that get fucked, and those that do the fucking. It’s not our fault that some people don’t like being fucked.
I think both toxic masculinity and toxic femininity do not exist. Toxic behaviors does, but toxic masculinity and toxic femininity do not exist. Being masculine or feminine, does not make you toxic, but the way you behave does
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https://www.youtube.com/embed/1glqfOqjNmsIt's an invention of the left used to silence men who disagree, or shame men that like traditional masculine things no more no less.
I'm glad those of us with a brain voted the same as me..
no, it's not. it's a feminazi/sjw bullshit term made up to basically silence the large majority of people. just like this new wave of racism against white poeple that's going on right now.
i don't think toxic masculinity exists anymore. Most men are completely fine being beta males. most men in our society are betas.
They are fine until they realize that it hurts their chances of being with women, or results in their only option to be with a woman is through her exploiting him for his resources.
Then again a lot of these red pill dating guys are teaching men to be beta male providers and run beta Male provider "game" by teaching men they have to "be on their purpose" and have money and all this to attract women.
I think most men resent that kind of life and would rather have real and genuine love.
@HiveBee hun. I think you have been online way too much and have no real dating experience with women. Being an alpha certainly attracts more women, but it can't make a woman fall for you. I wouldn't care if my soulmate was a beta or alpha, I only care about what qualifies him to be my soulmate. Beta/alpha is really second priority to personality.
I need a guy who is funny and charismatic. I wouldn't give a shit if he's not as alpha as some other dude. As long as he can make me laugh, i am happy.
I wish I could say you were right. But my view comes from real life women. They taught me more than anything.
That's why guys dont believe what you said. We wish we were valued for being ourselves. But in the real world we see which guys girls go for. And they are the opposite of genuine people expressing their real selves.
The guys who get the girls they want, are weirdos with fake personalities designed to "get girls."
They're stupid, uninteresting, shallow, boring people. But girls swoon over them because they create this bizarre "alpha" personality.
And the rest of us guys see that. And we realize we have to be fake to be attractive to girls. Or so that's what we believe anyways through experience.
I mean I think guys should just be themselves. Learn to be their real selves instead of being fake.
But we look to those men who are successful and learn from them. And so men will not go down the path of genuine self expression, because practically, it doesn't work as well as creating a fake alpha persona.
We see it in real life, and then take to the internet in hopes of understanding why it's like this. I dont think the internet helps. I dont think the dating advice and the red pill and the "alpha Male strategies" is good for anyone.
But then again, it kinda works. Just learn to act alpha and you'll go from a single dateless guy to having lots of dates.
A guy being his genuine self just isn't a good strategy.
There's toxic everything, or rather we can just say there's toxicity. Focusing on masculinity is just ideological manipulation.
I will mansplain it like this, there are two types of people in this world, those that get fucked, and those that do the fucking. It’s not our fault that some people don’t like being fucked.
The only people who say that it exists are unattractive women and girly-men.
I think both toxic masculinity and toxic femininity do not exist. Toxic behaviors does, but toxic masculinity and toxic femininity do not exist. Being masculine or feminine, does not make you toxic, but the way you behave does
While some guys are assholes, some are kinda sweet and nice. Yet they are still a guy.
Yes, it does exist! It puts not only the females under pressure but males also.
LIke most of this socialist stuff, it's just a bs piece of fake "news".
It’s made up bullshit by women who want men to act like women... unless it’s their boyfriend.
It's feminist made up bullshit cuz they hate men. Just be a real man and ignore these idiots.
its a stupid term. we already had the term "immaturity" which covered the same concept without needing to be as divisive
It's just another case of "Hate Speech" coming from the Bitter, Feminist Crowd... be a "Lady" get a "Man"
Of course it exists...
Do you believe masculinity exists? Then so does toxic masculinity...
toxicity exists in humanity. undeniable. men have more opportunity to wield it is all.
Toxic masculinity doesn't exist
It's Twitter wanting to kill all men as per usual
It exists as a excuse for feminazis to hate on men. Its a term defenided by SJWs to attack men who has not done anything wrong.
No it doesn't toxic men does but not toxic masculinity