It sounds like he is taking you for granted, he's grown too comfertable, he wants to be with you but independent at the same time or he could be losing interest. Hold up. I don't know the details and you could be reading into things, and I could be wrong. So, just relax. If you're out for a while, if you're away from him, does it seem like he misses you? I think maybe you should start withdrawing. Don't try. Don't give. Focus on yourself and other things in your life. Get him to initiate. See what happens. You can tell him how you feel. Don't be too emotional, insecure, or needy. Don't stretch the speech on for too long. If it becomes a serious issue you can't handle, let him know how serious you are and don't appreciate it. You can also try doign somethign new with him, somethign different, that you'd both have fun with. Try something not sexual. A road trip, an outing, etc. If the chemistry is still there that's a good sign. Be natural, be yourself. If you don't like something, make it known, calmly and reasonably. Hope all goes well.
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To me it seems he has someone else for sure without a doubt but he's still with you because he's just use to you.
Either the relationship has run its course and needs to be ended, or your Boyfriend is in a depression and needs to get some help to get out of it. Either way, the two of you need to address the issue and get it out in the open. If he's not willing, you're probably going to have to break it off with him and move out.
If you stay together without addressing the issue, you will both only grow more miserable and resentful of each other, and things can get much worse.
My first thought is he's f***ing another girl. It's time to move out.
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