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Who gets judged more harshly in society. Men who date much younger women OR women who date much younger men? (Page 2)
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The "problem" is likely your judgmental friends and family - not society.
I've dated younger women, even their mothers and sisters. Not got the sort of hauling over coals you're bleating about.
I don't even need to guess.
When I see 40-50 year old men holding hands with 20-something year old girls, I know what they're both in for. And I don't blame either of them. At some point I might become one of them myself.
“He’s such a pervert oh he’s a creep he’s a weirdo “
“you do you girl wow sexy cougar damn that women is strong and confident”
those are all things I’ve heard other people say
I’ve only ever heard older women who date young men described as sexy cougars, while older men who date young women are regarded as desperate and pathetic.
Women who date younger men. Think about is anyone don't care about grimes and elon musk age difference but people had problem with snapchat ceo wife being older than him even though their age gap is smaller than musk age gap
I literally know this 20 year old guy who was dating 24 year old girl one of his friend literally said that he is beta for dating older girl and should date young girls. She was only 4 year older and way out of his league is look and he was neet and she was med student. Think about it society was judging someone like her for being older.
yeah in my opinion id tell him the same thing. that is beta asf.
@bamesjond0069 20 yr old guys might be struggling with identity and self confidence issues. He still has time to grow up and mature.
@bamesjond0069 how is it beta? Only 4 year and she was way more physically attractive than him everyone used to say it and she was in med school while he was literally neet. Being in med school mean she is smart even her parents were rich. so you are telling me dating a attractive very smart rich girl who is only 4 year older than you is beta?
asker lol you seriously think he was dating down only because she was old. she was literally hot and in med school
asker you are literally dating women 10 or 15 year younger than you still judging a guy dating girl 4 year older than him
"Being in med school mean she is smart even her parents were rich. so you are telling me dating a attractive very smart rich girl who is only 4 year older than you is beta?"
Yes. Beta.
@bamesjond0069 lol how she is way hotter than him. 4 year is nothing my cousin husband is 4 year older than her
@bamesjond0069 literally med school do you know how hard is it to study in one?
Um and? The whole med school thing and the whole situation makes him sound even more beta, not less.
@bamesjond0069 lol why and how I mean who don't want to date med students literally some of my friends from school want to meet my friends because they're in med student
Why would a man want to date a med student? You have no understanding of men. Men who find that desirable are beta men because they are behaving like women.
@bamesjond0069 because med student are very smart and hard working so why not? Intelligent wife =intelligent kids so it is desirable hard working is also desirable trait
Faulty logic. "very smart and hard working" not things most men value much or at all in terms of a serious relationship. "Intelligent wife =intelligent kids" how so? Genetically not really. Intelligence follows a regression to the mean. Basically no matter how smart and dumb the parents are they are always most likely to have average intelligence kids. In terms of simply being able to teach them, is this med student going to home school them? Its unlikely for one to become a medical doctor just to not work and home school their children. So really education comes from who ever is doing the educating.
@bamesjond0069 aren't dumb people boring LOL you can't talk about intellectual topic with her literally most med student I know have parents who were doctor. English is not my first language or I would talked about it more.
@bamesjond0069 also why would you even want to pay for another human being? Don't you want expensive gifts like PSP
@bamesjond0069 and what is beta about dating older women especially only 4 year older? She is her 20s and hot it is not like she in her 40s lmao
"aren't dumb people boring LOL you can't talk about intellectual topic with her" not important for a relationship. I get to have intellectual conversations regarding work things and with my friends. I just want someone to be silly with and laugh a lot. My girlfriend is dumb as a box of rocks but we fucking laugh for hours and hours and she's my best friend.
No i dont want expensive gifts. Plus if i want something ill just buy it myself. Seems easier. Also i pay her to live because in return she keeps the house clean and will give me a bunch of kids and take care of them for me.
I have a hot 18 year old girl friend. Thats a fucking prize. An older girl, even the same age girl is not a prize. Its like dating your mom. Its weird asf.
@bamesjond0069 everyone is not like you some people like talking about their dream etc with their partner so? Anyone mom is not 4 year older than then lmao dating 18 year old is more like dating you daughter literally you are old enough to be her father. I mean I know one 34 year old single mother with a 18 year old daughter
@bamesjond0069 remember men when your kids are dumb and useless and their class mate bullying them because their father is old enough to be their mother father
"some people like talking about their dream etc with their partner" this is part of what im talking about. You aren't very empathetic at all and that was rude and not at all polite. Highly important qualities men do actually care about. Do you honestly think simple people dont have dreams or can't discuss them? *facepalm*
@bamesjond0069 I am very emphatic but I don't need to impress you lol
@bamesjond0069 and I don't care that much about men I don't mind being single
Thats the exact attitude that i seek to avoid in dating. And the kind id expect is common amongst women in medical school and/or just older demographic. My girlfriend needs me and thats great because i need her too! Just not for financial purposes.
@bamesjond0069 lol I am not old
You are literally more than one decade older than me
@bamesjond0069 but literally your girlfriend is young enough to be your daughter. Kinda creepy if you ask me.
@bamesjond0069 your girlfriend don't love you if she was educated like me or had rich parents like me she won't have dated you and you know it do you know what happened after marriage if your girlfriend don't find you attractive? Dead bedroom nagging and cheating on you I am seeing your future don't look very bright but that's on you.
"your girlfriend don't love you if she was educated like me or had rich parents like me she won't have dated you" she probably would have still have. Plenty of educated and well off women have dated me or tried to. I just dont get serious with them.
@bamesjond0069 I mean you seen weird you are dating someone who is young enough to be your daughter.
You can find it weird all you want. Are either of us supposed to give a shit?
@bamesjond0069 I mean you care about him dating a girl only 4 year older than him while what you are doing is so weird.
I dont care. Its just factual that he is a beta.
@bamesjond0069 he is beta to you not to me
Your opinion is irrelevant. So is mine. Beta is a type of man, in general one who would be with an older woman is a big sign he's a beta.
Definetely women. Many male celebrities date younger women and people even praise these fugly old men but women get hate and her partner get also hate and get called stupid for dating older women
Women's brain is developing till in her mid 25s. So it is legal but morally wrong for me to date young people at this age
Look at french president. His wife get so much hate and people make fun of him and people even call his wife a pedo but nobody judge trump for having younger wife
Depends on what you define harshly. I think both get judg e as much quantity wise. But men get judger harsher as in judges as predators.
If the younger man has money, then older women. Otherwise older men.
Honestly, I'd say I mostly find the younger dudes dating older women to be odd. Like I get why you might want to bang an older chick if she's hot, but what younger dude wants to be in a relationship with an older woman?
80% of the time the younger party in the relationship is looking to be taken care of financially. I’m sorry but I can’t be with someone knowing they are only after my money.
I tend to see more men dating younger women. Most people at the very least don’t find it normal. Therefore, I find A to be correct.
Women and rightfully so. They think men should approach them so expect to be judged when you date younger men or date only wealthy guys
Men who date younger women are judged more more harshly.
Prob women , men take heat too. Usually both are wealthy.
How dare you be touching all those young, firm, supple bodies! Haha!
Female pedophiles are not taken seriously.
Sad but true. But that’s slowly changing.
But this whole poll is for explicit LEGAL age gaps. Let’s keep the whole sexual predator debate to a different discussion.
Agreed. And gotcha.
Thanks. But you notice how it’s societal consensus that a age gap is somehow “telling” of a sexual predator or something? Notice how that subject seems to find itself into these debates although I specifically said this was about LEGAL age gaps in the poll description?
You didn’t do anything wrong. But a few other women on here already took a few cheap shots on this.
Accusing someone of being a sexual predator is a very nasty and serious thing (pedophiles are attracted to children who haven’t hit puberty yet... radically different subject). The shit people say out of jealousy/hate has got to stop.
A 65 yr old dating an 18 yr old girl is also LEGAL. But does that mean it is right? I don't think so
A for sure
Yeah but B does at times
@ChrisMaster69 I'm married to a man 16 years younger then me. I'm very confident I get a lot more judgement than if I had been an older man dating a younger woman. I'm not saying older men don't get any judgement for dating younger women. I know there are people who assume he just wants her for sex and she just wants his money. However, I think it's safe to say older women with younger men still get a lot more judgement. What's the male equivalent of the term "cougar"? (answer-there isn't one). When my husband and I were dating we'd get a lot of people warning us we'd never live a normal life if we stayed together. If I had been a man and he a woman I'm confident those comments would not have happened
Probably women cause its less common