Why are guys turned off by breast implants?

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It's a well known fact that all guys love breasts. The bigger and firmer the better. Modeling agencies plaster girls with large breasts all over their advertisements and the media portrays large breasted women as sex symbols (though there are a few exceptions, i. e. Kiera Knightly). Guys also have posters with large breasted women on their walls and most video games that have girls in them have large breasts as well. Even out in public guys gawk at the women who have large breasts and hardly ever say anything to the women with smaller breasts. For smaller breasted women, like me, this is very hurtful because it passes the message onto us that we are incapable of being attractive unless we have large breasts. Lots of small chested women want to be considered attractive and seek that out through plastic surgery. Through breast augmentation small chested women are now large chested women in hopes of now being considered attractive but as soon as a guy finds out they are implants he is immediately turned off. Why is that? Guys put girls with implants in a catch 22 because guys are the ones who said that having breasts are better and if you don't have them I won't pay attention to you but if you get larger breasts you're still unattractive because they're implants. Does this also mean that there is no hope for us small chested women because no matter what we do we're still unattractive.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

How many women would be impressed by a short guy who walks around with extension legs and/or platform shoes to appear taller?

Not many I imagine. Not many at all. Girls don't want to find out that a guy is being fake to try to impress them any more than guys want to find that out.

I also think you're wrong for assuming that men are as shallow as the media portrays us. Women are far more obsessed with the size of their breasts than men are.

You are very right that modelling agencies, Hollywood, and even geeky video game designers obsess over women's breast size. But that doesn't mean that they represent what the average man thinks.

Hollywood is largely represented by a certain ethnic group whose women happen to have naturally larger breasts, and thus they've created a somewhat skewed image of beauty that is not exactly representative of the diversity we have in this country. If you look in other countries, there isn't nearly as much emphasis on big boobs being beautiful. Surprise, surprise...Kiera Knightly is not a product of Hollywood...she is a British actress who got imported over here after becoming popular in her own country.

But the good news for all women out there is that intelligent men aren't so easily brainwashed by Hollywood images. It's only the dumb ones that would gawk at a cow just because her breasts are larger. For the rest of us, we look at a woman who is beautiful, and whatever size her breasts are, we know they are perfect on her.

She'd still be pretty even with implants, but it's more than a little disappointing that she thought that all that mattered to us was how big her breasts were, and she could never figure out what actually makes her beautiful.

Basically, your premise is wrong!

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

Guys are turned off by implants because:

- they are fake.

- they FEEL fake.

- they MOVE fake

- they LOOK fake, and in many positions they look nasty and awful.

- they restrict what you can do with them, because there is a plastic bag in there that can be ruptured.

- the surgery can leave nasty scars, and even worse, can leave a woman with no nipple sensation. Permanently "disconnecting" an erogenous zone (and a primary one at that) to increase breast size seems psychotic to me.

- 90+% of the time, they are used to turn really nice small breasts into really ugly big ones.

peace-love-couture · Accepted Answer

Guys prefer natural, but they aren't turned off by breast implants, they just say that because they are accepting of womens natural sizes(small, medium or big)

But I think it's time women with small breasts quit playing the victim. I know plenty of chicks with small breasts who have boyfriends and get hit on and have no problem attracting men. I don't know whether girls on here ask these questions just to hear men put down big breasts or if they truly don't have a clue in the world, but I think y'all should try getting out more and put in effort into attracting men.

I have big breasts and if a guy is only attracted to me because I am a D, then I want nothing to do with him and you sure as hell don't want anything to do with a guy who is really going to turn you down simply because you have small breasts.

ilovemyjose101 · Accepted Answer

Men like all breasts. it doesn't matter how big they are.

There are other things that are more important in a women than

her breasts anyways. A guy shouldn't be turned off with implants

or small boobs. Why does it matter. It's not important at all.

You shouldn't feel hurt just because you see guys looking at

breasts that are bigger than yours. The reason why women

get plastic surgery is because their insecure because of this.

. Personally, I think smaller chested women should be more happy with what they got.

Peggelyn · Accepted Answer

I disagree with the concept that bigger is better in a guys eyes. Most guys don't actually see it this way. The majority prefer natural, because generally it tends to suit your body type better.

Also, as a girl who has rather large breasts (Australian F, American G/DDD cup), I can guarantee you that a lot of guys could care less. It all comes down to how you dress and present yourself. Any girl - regardless of her breast size - who wore revealing tops would gets looks and leers from guys.

mjt11860 · Answer

I have a very beautiful and incredibly hhhhhhot friend in Latvia, who was a cam model. I asked her why she didn't believe she was beautiful, tho she was constantly told she was. She said she didn't like her breasts. It turned out her ex-boyfriend had told her her breasts were too small. I told her she should have dumped him immediately. She has very beautiful small breasts and I told her I would spend a lot of time on them. I don't know where you get the idea that small isn't beautiful. All sizes are equally beautiful and hhhhhhot. It's a matter of preference, and contrary to what you have been made to believe by mainstream media, it appears that most guys actually prefer small, even very small. I know I do. Find a good guy who loves you just the way you are. If he wants you to surgically change something, dump him immediately. He doesn't deserve you. It's unfortunate that women like you believe a vocal minority. Implants ruin the way your breasts look. I've also heard that they don't feel good and you lose any sensitivity you may have. Unless you have some horrible deformity, what you were born with, looks best. I bet you're incredibly hhhhhhot and just don't know it. On a side note, I hated my nose when I was a kid, thinking it was too big. I was made fun of cuz my nostrils flared when I sang in choir. I had never told anyone how I felt about my nose. One day, a friend told me that his sister (who I had a crush on) thought I had a cute nose. This changed everything for me and now I like my nose. Hope this helps

sugarwookie · Answer

I absolutely hate unrealistic depictions of people. Not just the overly photoshopped supermodel (i'm a photographer, you can turn almost any unattractive person hot in about 30 mins.) but just the whole un-naturalness. Not really a boob guy anyway. I actually preffer natural boobs kind of on the smaller side. Biggers def not better for me, implants just look fake.

I think the turn off is more of a phycological one then a physical one. They might look nice but it says "i'm insecure about my body."

johnbits · Answer

Approximately 15 to 20 percent of women who have breast augmentation surgery experience capsular contracture; the figure is slightly higher (over 20 percent) for breast reconstruction patients.

This means the breasts turn hard.

I used to like somewhat larger breasted women, but now I prefer smaller breasted women. But you are right, on average men like larger breasts and don't like implants.

But men like women, who are confident and sexy, so your attitude and personality is more important than your breast size.

Another women had a question and she worried that her breasts are too large, most people worry too much about their own bodies.

I am sure you are a fine lady just the way you are.

taster · Answer

No..I am not into breasts..and, as such, prefer smaller...heh heh...there is no hope for you until you have an attitude change and realize that most guys are content with the breasts that their lovers have...in additon, something like 30 or 40% of males actually prefer SMALLER...but we don't talk about it as much nor get the press that big boob guys get.  oh...and another thing...just because guys gawk at big-t*tted broads doesn't mean that we wish they were our girlfriends or spouses...I took a look at your Profile pic...pretty nice-looking female...keep the tattoos, the piercings &  the cosmetic surgeries to a minimum...and learn to love your body abit more...WE DO!

GoodEnoughThen · Answer

personally I prefer smaller breasts I like all breasts close owner is willing and confident to share them with me. :-) as for ogling, I think it's just the simple fact that larger breasts are just more visible. Smaller breasts are only going to be seen if a woman takes her top off. I think if all women walked around topless let's say at the beach then you would have more men ogling breasts of all sizes. I have to admit I find it kind of odd that I much prefer smaller breasts but I definitely ogle breasts are noticeable, which are typically larger. I most likely would not date someone who had implants for reasons set another stated, it's just not natural. But maybe modern medicine has improved breast augmentation surgery. I don't ogle girls in bikinis who have clearly had breast implants.

actricalian · Answer

If that is a picture of you, then you don't have to worry at all about being unattractive.

I think it is a gross misconception that all (or even most) men are desirous of women with large breasts. Speaking only for myself here, the women who are the most attractive to me are the ones who are well proportioned and know how to dress for their body type. The problem I see with breast implants is that they tend to be had by ectomorphic women, and thus look as though they have been bolted on, instead of arising from the natural flow and contour of that woman's body.

Basically, I think you will get a lot further with your looks if you dress to compliment your body as it is instead of changing your body into a shape and form you think others want it to be.

TurbulentDan12 · Answer

Because breast implants can look unnatural and defeat the purpose of them. There is obviously something about the way breasts naturally look that is attractive and if I can tell they are fake it just looks like something is wrong and it is a turn off. Small chested women are not unattractive and breast implants rarely ever make a girl look better in my opinion.

Slugworth99 · Answer

Most of the time - breast implants are so obvious.  42D's with an 18 inch waist - sorry, there's no way that she is going to be able to say "Yes, they are real" because no guy would believe it.  I have seen some small frame girls who have smallish breasts - and they look hot.  I guess I am just one who has always preferred a woman the way God made her - not the surgeon.

San_Diego_Rick · Answer

I like a nice cute butt a lot more than big breasts, but implants aren't a turnoff either. Anyways breast size doesn't factor in to why I like a woman. Other things are much more important to me. Your fine the way you are, your very pretty : ) and bigger boobs wouldn't change anything.

Thiezz · Answer

> The bigger and firmer the better That simply isn't true. Please stop projecting your insecurities on us.

Anonymous · Answer

I just don't like the idea that a woman feels the need to get fake boobs unless she had breast cancer or something. It's more like a possible indication of a character flaw than a physical turn off.

Maybe I'm weird or something but I've had crushes on/dated women with A cups to C so I'm not sure why you're convinced no guy can like you unless you have large breasts.

Anonymous · Answer

Personally, my preference leans more toward girls who are athletically built with some noticeable muscle definition.  And large breasts just don't look right on that type of build.  Ever seen a girl who had both abs AND big boobs?  It didn't look right, did it?

Anonymous · Answer

Some guys like small chested women, people don't like fake beauty and others are just shallow. Hey think, it could be worse. You could be a guy born with a small penis, your never desired [no girl wants a small one of course], always talked about and stressed as the deciding factor for sex and there is no effective enlargement process. Sounds fun right?

Mesonfielde · Answer

That's because the obsession with large breasts is a lie of cultural origin. I really doubt these "smaller chested women" are neglected because of their breasts.

Anonymous · Answer

I got as far as "the bigger and firmer the better" and stopped reading as even that is wrong. I figure the rest is full of b.s too.

bluehen46 · Answer

I can't say i am turned off unless they are ridiculous. I would date a girl with fake boobs. I will say though i probably would prefer small or medium natural than big fake boobs. I like natural anyway.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

It's just false advertising. If I want to have you as my mate, it's because I find you appealing, both physically and emotionally. If your breasts aren't natural, those physical features aren't going to be passed to my children.

arashmenalagha · Answer

You wrote this question 10 months or so ago but I just wanted to say you wrote it so well that I read everything very carefully. the guys down there have the answers you're looking for.

ilovemyjose101 · Answer

''The bigger and firmer the better''. I don't agree with this statement. lol

Camilus · Answer

I am not turned off by breast implants.  Actually, I don't think I've ever felt surgically augmented breasticles to be honest, but at least the thought of them being fake doesn't turn me off.

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