When you are in perhaps the most masculine, testosterone-filled, and alpha group of men in already a predominantly male environment you get a unique insight into the above topic.
Also, when you have done things that attract primarily men and primarily certain types of men you also get a unique insight into the above topic of “toxic masculinity” that many do not have.
The men that I’ve been around like to:
•compete amongst each other in a variety of ways & become obnoxious about it
•say some rather vulgar and obscene things about women & their experiences with them
•criticize one another for being more feminine
Personally, I think it’s mentally draining and tiring.
Of course there’s good in all of my experiences.
•Perhaps there’s no other group of men in all of the world or history that is more brave, honorable, and tough.
•Lots of injustice, evil, and suffering has been prevented and thwarted by these same men.
This topic can be seen as somewhat of a double-edged sword.