Do you agree with what he says about men's mental health?

[Chthou95]

https://youtu.be/BjhD-MfVusE

Because i agree with it. Men's mental health is important but you shouldn't let it cripple you to the point where you don't do anything about it. You'll lose out to the guy that's doing something. It's a competitive world

[Datboi65]

Andrew Tate. Don't agree with everything he says, but I respect the guy, and he's 100% right on this one.

[MikeInHawaii]

Amen, brother! Tell it!

[MzAsh]

Basic information on the laws of attraction here. You can have mental health challenges and have a woman who understands and makes way for you, but if it’s gotten to an unhealthy point and you’re constantly a burden on her, like if you’re depressed so you quit your job and force her to pay your rent while you fuck off playing video games all day, you’ll eventually lose out to someone who won’t be such a burden. Yes.
Now, he episodes be wise to stop trying to play therapist and focus his own mental health issues.

[Chthou95]

What he said though is that women will always choose men that don't have mental health problems or get through mental health problems. Women want a winner - Patrice o neal

[MzAsh]

An arguably basic fundamental that goes for everyone.

[Chthou95]

Men won't turn a woman down for having mental health issues. We're not the same

[MzAsh]

You’re right. He’ll take what he can get to get sex then just regret it later when he lets her drive him nuts or ruin his life.

[Chthou95]

If a guy wants to fuck and get a quick nut, he ain't staying around. He'll tell you nice shit just to fuck you. But he won't stick around

[MzAsh]

He’ll stick around if she’s his only option at the time.

[Juxtapose]

Heavens forbid we are realistic and lower our standards if we have to when the dating market is this bad 🤷‍♂️

[Juxtapose]

And fuck me for giving mentally ill women a chance I guess 🤣

[MzAsh]

Hey if you want to knowingly stick your dick crazy then that’s on you. Just don’t act like you’re doing it fit any other reason than you getting off. You’re “giving her a chance.” Don’t come with that bs. And don’t complain when she terrorizes you and takes everything you’ve got.

[Juxtapose]

Has it not occurred to you that I can get off with my hand and I simply want romantic companionship?

If I was that hard up for sex itself I could pay a hooker 50 bucks and bend her over.

[Juxtapose]

I have autism, dyslexia and A. D. D. Do you really think I want to turn down people just because they have problems? Wouldn't that be hypocritical of me when I was born with my own baggage?

[MzAsh]

I’m not talking about you personally. I’m talking the general you. Most men are in fact that hard up for sex. But regardless, everyone should use caution when it comes to mental health.

[Juxtapose]

I think a lot of men are masking their loneliness with a shallow facade of constant horniness.

But otherwise I can't really argue too much, caution should be taken with the mentally ill.

[MzAsh]

Actually, I can’t disagree with your theory there.

[USLegionary]

Absolutely. Like you don't have to be a dick and screw people over but for men whether it be that pretty girl next door type that you know has a hot body having seen her in her bikini that one time or a place in the high school football team or a place at college or a good paying job, a job promotion, fame, glory, money, love you name it every other guy out there is competing with you for what they want out of life and others may try to take what you have be it little or much if they can.

Even make friends and family are competion, and they may help each other if they can but ultimately a man has to work to be the best he can possibly be at the very least for himself and for what he wants or tk just have something worth having.

[RolandCuthbert]

Of course, I disagree with his opinion. I think he has some elements I can agree with. The thing is that of course being a man is competitive. But in order to be competitive, you have to have your head on straight. And if you don't take time to focus on your mental health, then you will lose in the long run.

Of course, you cannot take advice from women. Women don't know what they want in a man. In case anyone needs to see the difference between what a woman claims she wants and what she chooses, just watch FBoy Island.

[Chthou95]

"Women don't know what they want in a man" im shocked this came from you. Sometimes people that dont agree on most things can agree on something

[RolandCuthbert]

Nah, you aren't shocked. You just put folks in boxes. It is the "American" way. We use this strategy to keep from listening to each other. I haven't changed this position in decades.

To All the Men Who Think They Have Been Friendzoned, Passed Over, etc. Here is a Little Advice... ↗

1. If you want to find better luck in love or better luck with meeting women stop listening to women.

Women know just as little about what makes them attracted to a man as men know about what makes them attracted to a woman. They can't help you. They can't guide you. They can only give you the same line about wanting a nice guy, a guy who respects them, etc., etc., while you sit and watch them be attracted to men who are neither nice nor respectful.

[Chthou95]

I really am because you tend to have very different views of what we believe in. We wouldn't be very good friends because our politics also dont aling with eachothers

[Traumasurgeon]

The issue I believe is the lack of responsibility people take for their actions now. People are scared of being responsible they would much rather blame their problems on someone else because its easier. People get Depression and anxiety because theyre not grounded in reality. You get depression because you’re lying to yourself and others about who you are. And you get anxiety because you create problems that don’t actually exist instead of finding solutions to the present problems you have in any given moment. Responsibility fixes both of these things. The less responsibility you take for your life the less control you have over your actions. The problem is you and always has been for pretty much every issue you have. Fix it

[genericname85]

he's a professional fighter. credit where credit is due. that man has developed the character it need to bash someones face in and undboubtfully he's not bad at that.

but in everything else, he's just a dumb fuck about and i don't know why people listen to him. for most people, beating someone else up isn't their entire lifes purpose. he's overly aggressive and primitive with no sophistication or education. granted working out in general makes it more likely that you are healthy mentally and physically. that is not wrong. but working out doesn't fucking fix a clinical depression.

also he clearly believes that whoever talks louder and more aggressive is more right about what they are saying.

[Chthou95]

He's wrong on some things. But in this particular topic, he's right. Women won't choose a man that has mental health problems and isn't trying to fix. They want the man thats doing something about it or overcame mental health problems. They want a winner

[Chthou95]

And there's nothing wrong with that

[genericname85]

Of course women do choose men with mental health issues. There's women who even are with men that beat them up. So yes he is absolutely wrong about that.

[genericname85]

People in general. Women and men of course try to go for the fittest and healthiest partner they can attract. Not every woman can attract a good man.

[genericname85]

And I'm not saying the guy is 100% wrong on everything. But he's like half wrong on most stuff and his attitude is just garbage. He's just a douchebag.

[Chthou95]

Women choose men that didn't have mental health issues before hand. You're not going to be given a chance if you have menral issues before hand. These kind of men get ignored and are invisible. The male world is competitive and the winners are the ones women want

[genericname85]

sure the male world is competetive. and so is the female world. fact is a woman can not attract any man that she wants and she's gonna make some compromises as well. sure she wants the perfect partner. who wouldn't want that. but truth is not everyone can get one and girls will go for a mentally damaged man, if he canprovide in other ways that are important.

I mean Andrew Tate is the walking proof of that. he's mentally ill and (according to him) he pulls chicks like crazy.

[Chthou95]

If she wants a high value man that has options then yes she will have to compete. But women don't have to compete for the majority of men but these men are invisible. Women don't have to compete as hard

[genericname85]

well if you're a man that women don't have to compete for, you probably bring nothing to the table. and like sure. fact is what matters is what you bring to the table overall. some things are positive, some things are negative and then of course every woman has slightly different preferences. so just saying that "one sort of mental health issue will just make you completely invisible to women" is just nonsense.

[Chthou95]

If you're not doing anything about your mental health issue, you're not going to get very far. The man that gets through it and is stable is the winner and that's the one women want. Only after the fact that she choose them will the mental health issues matter due to obligation. But before, best believe the guy is invisible

[genericname85]

well duh. obviously you should work at fixing your issues xD that's a complete no brainer. and women absolutely do go for men that currrently do have mental health issues. as i already said, Tate is living proof.

[genericname85]

obviously you do get better choices if you are in tip top shape mentally but he said you get "no" women which is wrong.

[Chthou95]

And like i said after the fact. Men with mental health issues won't get very few if they're not doing anything and most women will ignore. That part you mentioned about women giving them chances, fine we'll use the exceptions. Are there women out there that will give a guy with a mental health issues a chance, sure. But they're in the minority

[genericname85]

yeah see. but what you just said is already way more differenciated and sensible than the shit this Tate guy blathers.

[NamerOfStars]

Oh, for fuck's sake...

If you really can't accept that men have value as themselves, regardless of what they do or don't accomplish, then you really have no business talking about mental health.

[Chthou95]

Wow congrats you have value and now women will flaunt to you

[bolverk]

I Agree as a man you should not let your mental health cripple you, but at the same time there is virtually no support out there for men we are invisible, they is not the safety net out there for us that there is for women also if you so not have the money to pay for treatment yourself then you are just shit out of luck.

[EllaNella]

isn't he currently under investigation for sex trafficking? doesn't seem like a grest guy to take advice from to me

[Chthou95]

Listen to the message. Women dont want losers. They want a winner. A man with mental health issues not doing anything about it will be ignored by women. But a man that's in shape that's working and working will be the one women choose

[Anonymous]

Just push through it.
A lot of men haven't been through enough. Or had a coach, trainer father to push them when things get tough

If you really having mental issues like that take 2 weeks off fix it and your good.. reevaluate your life and stop feeling sorry for yourself.

A lot dudes are complacent. If your fat go to the gym exercise and stop putting junk Food in your mouth

If your broke work more figure out how you can make more easier. Or go learn something

[MzAsh]

Many mental health issues are there for life you can’t fix because they’re in the makeup of the brain. No therapy or drugs will “fix” it. Many just deal with it. Some are able to manage symptoms, and some stuff. Some have to be housed in an institution.

[TheLittleInnocent]

Lmfao that can apply to anyone. He's saying nothing revolutionary.

[Chthou95]

Men are much forgiving though. Women dont want a loser that mentally ill and can't help himself. They want the winner at the finish line that doesn't have mental health issues. These men are invisible to women

[Chthou95]

And here's the thing you have the right to do that. There's nothing wront with that. Women want winners and that's fine. We live in a competitive worle

[MzAsh]

Men aren’t “forgiving.” They just don’t have the options affordable to be very picky.

[Chthou95]

Men and women are not the same. Men are hardwired different. We're hardwired to fuck anything we can. Women aren't hardwired like that

[TheLittleInnocent]

@Chthou95 And exactly as I have said, that can apply to literally anyone. You've fed into that dumb bullshit that men and women are different. We all have the capacity to act in the same manner. You are not special, you are not different and this is exactly why people like y'all don't get laid. You don't know what women want. Because we are individuals with different wants/needs/likes. Same applies to men.

[Chthou95]

Nope. Sorry that's just politically correct blue pilled thinking. Men and women are not the same. We're different in the way we think and we're different when it comes to the dating market. Men have to create value to be attractive. A man can't just get a woman for existing. We have to work for it. Women don't have to work for it. Women get men just for existing. We're verry different

[Chthou95]

Women dont know what men want. But men have to know what women want to get laid or to be attractive. What women find attractive and what actually turns them on are two separate things

[Juxtapose]

I don't play games, I just tell the woman how I am straight up and if she doesn't like me then oh well 🤷‍♂️

[icetome]

she fucked 50 other men

what the fuck is she talking about high value women hun lol

[Chthou95]

I laughed at that. There's no such thing as a high value woman

[icetome]

yup most women are garbage and few are not

trust me I have done some numbers on it

and its terrible for us guys

the percentage is so bad

[MysteriousDarkness]

@icetome
You say you did numbers on it then show how you came up with those numbers.

[EnglishEuropean]

What he is recommending make a lot of sense... for men who don't have mental health problems.

[Chazmatazz269]

The only way for men to win is to NOT compete.