I see a lot of posts from these "anonymous" women/girls who complain about being assaulted but then blatantly post pictures of themselves wearing disgustingly revealing outfits. I feel like they are really taking the p*ss. Instead of actually raising awareness of this problem in our society, it is instead promoting this behaviour as they are clearly fishing for compliments, why? I suffer from severe anxiety and so I find it difficult to even leave the house sometimes. But when I do, I make sure to dress covered up because I know about the f*cked up world we live in. I never feel safe. Yet, it happened again, and it will keep happening! I don't know how to even stop it, it has really messed with me mentally and I don't know what to do anymore. I'm having a full on breakdown. I want to protect my baby when she comes into this world but I know that I won't be able to do that. I fucking hate my life
Hi, I'm coming up to 5 months in my pregnancy, and for the first time in around 2 years I was sexually assaulted. I have some questions?
I'm sorry for that, I hope you know there is professional help for you to get, as well as support from friends and family. My further suggestions would be to avoid certain places and if you are going out at night to clubs, bars, raves, and other similar venues to bring a group with you. Also, the obvious like avoiding accepting drinks from people you don't know well, not going anywhere private with someone you don't know well, etc. I'm not sure if you're up to it, but learning how to defend yourself via martial arts and firearms training can give you increased peace of mind, facilitate an active lifestyle, and much more. I suggest continuing to dress how you like and whatever makes you comfortable, but avoiding certain places, avoiding going out alone at night, and exercising more awareness over your environment.
This is a good and informative list of what pits women at risk of being raped. Avoiding everything on the list and carrying gun will help. Stay away from all of the types of places where rapey sort of men like to hang out, and if your whole town is just shitty and unsafe then I would strongly recommend moving. Be extremely careful who you trust and who you allow to have excess to your kid when it is born. Don't date anyone with a bad history, and don't be bringing boyfriends into your house around your kid.
Continue to dress as covered up as you can. Wear guys clothes and wear hats or hoods and a face mask any time you have to walk alone at night so that guys will think you are a guy and at the very most will just mug you.
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