Usually they just want to use them for sex because most high school girls are naive and they'll truly believe that age doesn't matter.
Age difference is irrelevant past the age of 18, in my opinion. I know for me, I'm 19 and I could never date a guy in high school. I view high school boys as just kids who still have a lot of learning and growing to do. It's hard for you to see it because you are still in high school and you will probably want to believe that age doesn't matter because you're interested in this guy.
Take it from someone who dated a 22 year old when she was 15, age does matter. Back then I didn't want to accept that and I like to believe age was nothing but a number. But growing up and looking back on it, that guy was fckn weird. I was very mature for my age, but I was still 15 and did not have the life experience and knowledge to meet the needs of a 22 year old man. I'm pretty sure he just wanted to get in my pants. He manipulatied my guillibilty, but lucky for me, I'm a very smart girl and I never let him get in my pants. Now that I'm older, I see that people under the age of 18 often can't provide a certain level of satisfaction for college kids. Yeah, there may be some chemistry and what not. Yet he's began his adult life and you haven't even finished your childhood so it makes a huge difference. Not to negate from the fact that it's possible for there to be chemistry between any two people who are attracted together, but that doesn't mean they have what it takes to build a certain type of relationship. You probably just don't have the life experience to reach a certain level of intimacy with someone who's been around longer.
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It is true that he could possibly like you, but you still need to be careful. He might think you are naive and easy because of your young age. He's an adult, and you are still a teen (no offense). There might be somethings that he wants, that you might not be ready for. Just be careful.
it's possible my boyfriend just graduated college a year ago when I was going into my junior year of high school we aren't together anymore but it was a good relationship for a while we just had different interests. If he is just be careful.
While there is a multitude of reasons not to date a high school girl when you are in college, one is like a big bright stop sign. Not many adult males are fond of being slapped with statutory rape.
Older guys typically like younger girls, regardless of age. Just be careful, he may be expecting more things sexually than you're ready for if you get involved with him.
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my father was seventeen years old when my mom was born. college:high school age difference is nothing.
i kind of feel like a lot of high school girls are kids.
it can be true,but yes many collage guys like high school girls
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