Why are feminists no nasty and judgmental about women who make different choices than them?

I have been criticized, shamed, belittled and told I'm worthless and am harming the feminist cause so many times by feminists that I've lost count. Why are they so judgmental and intollerant toward women who choose a different path in life than them? I thought feminism was about women having choices and the freedon to make them. Why do they then try to make women who do exactly that feel worthless? Are we only free to choose the things they think we should choose?

This happened to me again last week so it's kind of raw, so sorry for the drama. I just don't understand these people.

Why are feminists no nasty and judgmental about women who make different choices than them?
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