Why do women who divorce and have kids feel like she can control who her ex dates by denying access to his children?

Anonymous
This is a huge double standard that I hate. My brother went through this until he went to court, explained what happened and the huge gave him full custody as a punitive measure.

The story goes, he was paying 1500 dollars monthly child support, and shared 50/50 custody which should have negated child support, but that's a discussion for a different day. She was dating constantly, parading a new man in front of their children every week. He remained single for over a year. Suddenly he met someone and fell for her. When he wanted to introduce the new lady to his children the mother essentially stopped letting him have his children for parenting time. This started a year long struggle where she simply didn't let him see his children.

He took her to court for violating the custody agreement, she was a raging Karen during court, the judge was not pleased. The judge granted him full custody. She threatened to kill her self if that was enforced. She was placed in custody of a mental hospital.


Why is it acceptable for a woman to date who she wants when she has children, but the moment her ex finds someone she takes the children away? And before some harpy Karens on gag say this isn't a thing. Ladies it happens all the time. If you don't believe it or can't accept reality thats on you.. Hell I've seen women move child molesters into their homes and judges doing nothing about it..
Why do women who divorce and have kids feel like she can control who her ex dates by denying access to his children?
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