Am I wrong for not wanting to add my girlfriend on Facebook? (Page 2)
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It's not right.
In all srsns:
Dude you and one other person still use myspace, get rid of that sh*t. And if you have 300 friends why not add your girlfriend.. What is she going to do to make you use it, write 50 messages a day?
If you don't like Facebook (like me) deactivate that sh*t and leave it.
She believes you are trying to hide something her on Facebook. Just add her as a friend, but tell her you don't use it very often. Facebook is a way for many people to pre-stalk their dates or such and get background information of stuff. I totally understand, that many people don't usually check their Facebooks anymore preferring other apps. She just wants to "advertise" your relationship to all of your Facebook friends.
Just add her.. it takes like 2 seconds to do. It shouldn't even be an issue at all unless you're hiding something.
It's not wrong by any means to not want to add her, but it could be viewed as shady. If I knew my guy had one but didn't want to be friends with me, I would assume he had something to hide. If it's really not that big of a deal to you, and she can't seem to let it go, then just get rid of your account.
Just add the poor girl. It's really not that hard. Add her and be done with it.
but then she will bug me to start using it more, she wants me to update it with things about her in it and upload pictures now "or else"
Well then she's just crazy. But I doubt adding her would cause any issues. Besides, you can always delete her.
wow good comment.
Nope. If you want to share your business with her, then do it. What you post on Facebook doesn't define who you are or where your relationship s. FB is overrated. An to be jonest, puttig your relationship business online(assuming she will make it obvious) is bogus. The less people know, the better. :)
Ugh.
It's pathetic people care so much about some stupid website. It's almost like people use Facebook now for socialising instead of actually doing it! Fb has created more problems than benefits!
lol In the stone age the cave men used to draw pictures of their women dragging them by their hair. Remember? Yeah, I would get pissed if my boyfriend did not put me up on Facebook or mypace. or, just don't have an account.
I don't see why you don't just add her, she knows you don't use it much so she can't expect you to go on and chat with her all the time or even see messages right away
If you told her you didn't have one when you did that's a lie and that's wrong but it's not wrong not adding her. However I think you should just add her, it's no big deal
(and the internet is awesome, I don't know how they lived in the stone age!)
Yeah it could be that she feels more like she is being rejected more then anything as you added all these other 300 people, but not her. What a ego crasher.
If you don't care ... why not just add her?
Save the drama.
Dude,just add her. What's so wrong with fb? Are YOU in the stone age? Geeze,even my kids have it,so do I and I add THEM!
why not add her just to "make her happy"?
Besides your lack of use for Facebook...is there another reason you don't want to add her?
She probably thinks you are trying to hide something so just give her your password so she sees your not bidding anything.
I don't care for Facebook either, but the way you're acting about this whole situation with your girlfriend is just immature and childish.
You should just add her, and say "but it doesn't really matter considering I don't ever use it."
You're not wrong for not wanting to add her.. but if you don't care about it or use it, what's the big deal? Just add her, but don't interact with her on it. Just keep using it the way you are
OMG! This is "Facebook" we're talking here. Do you understand? You just can't have a normal functioning RL if you are not serious about Facebook. Say bye-bye to your girlfriend.
No. Er, she's telling you what to do after dating a year?
So... she's pissed at you? YOU friended her...lol...
yeah, like she is going mental now! I don't know what to do! :(
Sure you do: one unfriend her. 2 get a new girlfriend because if you "look down the road" of this relationship, this is going to seem like a honeymoon compared to how jealous & possessive she'll be. Cut your loses & book.
Facebook is the most useless peiece of sh*t,and people who judge a person on the basis of their Facebook is the another peice if sh*t
Facebook should be caled fakebook for having fake friends on it