Libra Man...What Should I Do? Relationship or Whatever?

[iAmAWESOME18]

I'm a Taurus by the way.

OK so, part of me has severed 8.5/10 strings of my heart from this guy.

He's so...vague and somewhat evasive, it's utterly ANNOYING.

Tonight I asked him how he felt about me (as I do more frequently lately) not because I'm insecure but simply because all I get is "Perfect" -this is not the first I've heard this from a guy- and that's it...No beautiful, sweet, nice, etc. Just perfect (unrealistic to me). So I'm like, I just can't accept that without understanding what that means to you.

He simply says, "Nevermind, I'll never call you perfect again...My mistake."

So I'm like "what is perfect in your eyes because in mine it means having no flaws which I do have."

This Libra signed mother f____er has the nerve to say "I see this heading into an argument so moving on..." It really wasn't until he said that. I'm just trying to understand his feelings for me seeing as he has been very superficial when it comes to me. The majority of our time spent revolves around my sexiness. Rarely is it beautiful, it's sexy. (It being me)

So I'm saying. What the f__k is this? Can somebody explain this fool to me because I'm trying...really I am. I've done so much to avoid fights and to avoid him feeling insulted and it just never seems to work. Oh and on top of that he can be passive aggressive and expect me to be a mind reader.

He's f__king insane please help me to understand.

[Anonymous]

I'm a Libra and male and female libras are one in the same. We don't like arguments or confrontation. We are big flirts. we want everyone to like us and want us even if we don't feel the same way about them. If we are being vague and evasive its either because we don't like you but don't want you to leave, or (in my case) like you but too scared to show it. Yes we can be passive aggressive as hell and get mad when you can't read our minds. We are insane but its a beautiful insanity that one cannot help but be enthralled by :)

With this guy, you need to play it slow and keep your eyes open. I can't even tell if he likes you and I'm a damn libra. What you should do is make him less of a priority and let him sense that you could be moving on to other guys. if he likes you he will step it up because he doesn't want to let a good thing go. if he doesn't, then its because it was too much work for someone he wasn't really that into. We are balancing scales so we believe in mutuality and equality and basically balance. you might be doing the chasing in the beginning but we don't mind pursuing you once we really know you like us. since its pretty obvious that you like him, he should have no problem chasing you. Distance yourself from him slightly for about a week and gauge his reaction. does he come back just for an ego boost or is he genuinely concerned he might lose your company?

[martyfellow]

It sounds like he's toying with you. Is he older, perchance? He's not talking seriously, nor taking you seriously, so there's no reason to ask him about what he says.

He'll just turn it into another joke.

[iAmAWESOME18]

No he's serious it wasn't a joke he just always misconstrues things he's like...a female mostly and he's only older by bout a year and half. He just avoids what SEEMS to be an argument even if it's not. He just avoids conflict to an annoying.

[iAmAWESOME18]

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[martyfellow]

I would call this avoidance of serious discussion 'toying.'

[cheesesteak7]

I'm not familiar with Libras. But I'm slightly familiar with Tauruses. And you sure as heck don't seem like one! =D Grab the situation by the horns (pun intended) and take control!

[Anonymous]

Libras always avoid arguments but are suckers for love.