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i think he's falling "victim" to the societal constructs we have put in place.
i feel like boys like this wrestler are in a tough position and we need to look to parents and society to help change our perspectives.0
I wrestled in high school, it was mixed sex and ice had coaches tell mine that they won't wrestle me. It happens, idc. I was on varsity in my weight class, lost some, won some. Made it to states once, but my opponet what last year's state champ, so yeah lol but it was awesome competing. I would never force someone to do it. Some don't for religious or moral reasons. I can see why some wouldn't Also, I gave 3 guts boners and learned there's a protocol for that situation lol but to knock ones self out, that's a bit excessive21
A bit dumb, will probably damage his career, if the girl didn't want to wrestle the guy I'm sure she would've backed out.22
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Varsity wrestler here girls can easily get away with grabbing the balls because the ref doesn’t enforce the rules as strictly when a girl does something like that. I had a few matches where girls have grabbed me there and squeezed hard and when I grunted and groaned they just squeezed harder. The ref didn’t do anything and my only saving grace from not getting pinned from that was the whistle to end the round. She just got up and walked to the other side of the mat while I sat there for a a minute holding myself o recover. Guys never play dirty like this but most girls do I notice. The other time it happened I was on top of her on my knees and she was on her knees too in like a crawling position like me but her heel connected with my balls and I knew it was on purpose because I felt her tap there a few times to see if she was on target and the exact moment I clinched in a painful hold she swung it up hard forcing me to roll off. Again my only savior was the round ending before she pinned me but I’ve lost a few times that way. I’ve considered wearing compression underneath at least because it’s all so vulnerable when it hangs freely. Did you ever go there on purpose to get an advantage because these girls did it constantly and barely tried to hide it. I just want a clean match against a girl :(0
It really comes down to why he chose not to, one was religious beliefs the other is the idea that men should not be aggressive with women. Both are admirable, he gave up a chance for a state championship over this, it was honorable and ultimately his decision. I think a lot of women don't understand how much pressure guys are put under for not hitting girls... guys, at least most guys simply will not hit a woman doesn't matter what she does (in fact 70% of all one sided domestic abuse is guys being beat by their girlfriends or wives. Guys who don't hit women).
And now some women have issues with a guy who "won't get aggressive with women." His words. Seems very double standard ro me.0
I think its ridiculous. Doesn't matter if it's a Male or a female you're supposed to wrestle, you're in the sport to wrestle so do it. Dont make the girl feel less of a player because you dont want to wrestle a female. Buck up, wrestle the damn girl and possibly lose to her. 🤷♀️🤷♀️0
Sounds like he was the only one that came away negatively affected, so I feel that I can't complain much - I'd hate to be the girl, though.
If I were in her shoes, I'd feel as though I didn't deserve that win, didn't get a chance to prove myself.0
Then why is he a wrestler? It's okay to have morals. But be it male or female, your opponent is your opponent. And you don't turn your back on your opponent.2
He’s a complete fool. Thinks he’s doing something honorable
If this associations allows it then thats what they wanna see
Its an easy win. Silly lol0
It's pretty normal. Normally we do not mix gender when doing a sport so he was probably embarrassed by it / afraid to hurt the girl or refused to do it because of his morals.0
He's absolutely fine. I felt uncomfortable wrestling girls in high school too. I also knew I was going to get hard as fuck during and that would have been embarrassing lol.0
If he doesn't want to that's his prerogative, but like the girl signed up to wrestle boys so I don't see why he wouldn't do it.2
It's a matter of pride. A no win situation
If he wins, he beat a girl. If he loses, he lost to a girl.0
This mixed gender wrestling is shameful Modernist nonsense.1
Sad. Even though he was facing a person who seems to be a qualified opponent.0
It's a lose-lose situation. If he wins - he only beat a girl. If he loses - haha he lost to a girl.0
Because men should not try to take advantag of a girl in sports that is those trannie psychos need to stay out of girl's sports or even better yet stay the F out of the entire US0
He should have done it and utterly reck her to show the huge difference.0
Why is a girl in boys wrestling? They want to take away guy stuff the hell10
He was probably scared of losing to a girl.
I'd wrestle a girl.10
He did the right thing. If she was hot though he should have wrestled her and let her win so he could be put in some sexy positions :).0
He might have refused to wrestle her in the match... but he wouldn't refuse to wrestle her in the night!(Even I wouldn't)0
He was scared of being accused of rape for pinning a girl down with a boner0
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That's his choice, have to respect his choice what he's comfy with. Me, I'd wrestle her and try to beat her fast as long as I didn't think I'd hurt her. If the girl made it through wrestling practice and that far, then show her respect by competing. I wrestled my girlfriend once, I'm not saying how that went, need to know only:) But...
I raced against female athletes when young, twice I recall they beat me. grrr. One beat me by a few ft in 50yd dash and she ended up being an Olympic medalist. The other I only saw once, but she was better than I on a dirt bike on that day. It does not feel good to be beat by gurls! Props to the girls... they broke some frames in my mind those days when all I knew of them was they took hours in the bathroom and and put a lot of sticky spray in their hair.