Creepy person keeps harassing me?

[Anonymous]

There is this person I'm not even sure if its a man or woman (white), the person is a cleaner very old like in their 60s, I got on the train and they keep staring at me, at my whole body and then I starred back at them to make them know that I see them. The person lift their brows and smile creepily and enjoyed i acknowledged their presence and now im wondering if this a mentally unstable person. They still keep staring at me throughout the whole train ride, I said its an old person so I won't even bother with them, this morning I sat far away from them then when I came off they came off too and walked straight into me and stopped and said something like "how you doing baby" IN PUBLIC!!! their so many people their I just kept walking embarrassed hoping no one saw that, there is some crazy people out here. I feel so uncomfortable, scared and disgusted. As a SA survivor things like this triggers me and makes me wanna scream. I feel so weak and unable to do anything. Now this makes my whole commute stressful 😭😭😭

[Anonymous]

Men staring at women is perfectly acceptable.

[Opinion Owner]

I couldn't care less, i will not be stopping it anytime soon.

[Opinion Owner]

Jeez, why are women today so weak minded and snowflakey

[Asker]

You don't stare at someone for 10 minutes.

[Opinion Owner]

Lol you actually count how long he stares at you.

[Asker]

Thats not normal, you can look at someone for a minute or so but more than that is not okay. I'm pretty sure you would feel uncomfortable if someone stares at you that long like anyone else

[Asker]

I didn't count. Its was how long that train took to reach

[Opinion Owner]

It is ok and there is nothing you can do about it

[Asker]

That's really helpful

[Jazzy54]

Carry pepper spray with you. Stay safe.