Do girls really like romantic guys or do they just say they do.

romantic is really good, but you have to do it properly. like if I was wathicng the sunset together with my boy I would want him to be really cute and lovely and not cheesy. there's a differene. but that would be amazing!
and yes I love romance but I love having fun and mucking around and being cute together aswell. also chilling. you have to balance everything out, but some guys don't even do the romance thing which gets me upset sometimes because I feel that he doesn't like me that much. you need to show it in the right way. even buy me a single flower and tell me how gorgeous I am- that's romantic too

no no no that's is really amazingly cute! Do you know how many guys are out there like you? Like 10 in this entire country! I've always fantasized about having a movie romance, you know where the guys are all romantic and sweet like that and they take the girl of their dreams to the perfect spot on the beach to watch the sunset. But in all truth most of the guys I know think that going to a movie is romantic. I mean don't get me wrong, I like romance and all but just don't be all romantic all the time and make it cheesy. It has to be. portioned and subtle if that makes since because if it's all the time then it gets annoying.

But no worries, I would die to date a guy like you!

depends on the girl, but subtle things are always nice. like picking a girl a bouquet of dandelions while at the park or something is sweet.

most girls will love it. Believe me romance isn't dead and it's a killer tool if you can use it. my ex surprised me with a picnic on our first date - it was really great, lake side, he sneakily figured out my fav. sandwich and had it waiting for me and played me some guitar.

I think your problem is more finding a girl than wooing her because it sounds like you have the romancing down pat. Don't go looking for romantic girls, just go looking for a girl that fits your personality and your romanticism will just be icing on the cake. Also maybe don't mention the penthouse bars or the lake house, makes girls think you're trying to buy them and are not actually interested in them.

good luck - when you find that girlfriend she'll be really lucky to have a caring guy like you.

All girls have a soft spot for romance. Granted, some women may have different views on what exactly "romantic" is, but yes, we love romantic guys.

Most women do, I certainly do and most of my friends love being romanced and wooed.

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idk how old you are
but I think it's so sweet when guys do romantic stuff and are spontaneous.
but make sure you do something fun too, or it might kinda be boring.
unless you're really funny and can make her laugh the whole time.
Real laughing, not just little giggles.

i think romance tied in with other fun stuff is perfect. maybe after a day at the beach catching waves or hanging out, the sunset would be a nice touch or after snowboarding or some fun date, the fire would be nice. those things alone seem cheesy.

First things first. What women think they want and what they respond to often have nothing to do with each other. Whether it be evolutionary psychology, peer pressure, or plain old social programming, more often than not we're talking about separate things. This is why the dependable sensitive friend gets the "lets just be friends" talk, while the woman run off with the "bad boy" and they screw like rabbits.

Now that that's out of the way, being romantic can still work. The key thing to keep in mind is that spontaneity matters. A rose out of the blue, an impromptu trip to the mountains, stuff like that is more in line with what matters. The cliche stuff you see in movies though almost never works.

Some do sure, but most nope. It only works if you know what your doing, and the tricky part is that romantic guys can be see as the typical nice guy, and we all know that road leads to no where. Sitting in front of a fireplace is good you can get close to her but if you don't make move your outta luck, she will report back to her friends with this yeah he's a great guy, but as far as chemistry or connection I just see him as a friend.

Then you wonder why she doesn't call you back and you find out its because she's with some other guy. Another thing about the romantic guys is they can try to hard to impress the girl, and they do every thing they can to make her happy, and they never disagree with her and this also makes her think well he's sweet but not boyfriend material. So then you wonder why she's with some jerk the next week. Here's the secret to that the jerks and the players have a back bone they are not afraid to disagree with her, they will they call her out on all her crap and well they get the girl. If you act like you don't care you will get the girl and whatever you do DONT RUSH THiNGS take it slow you have all the time in the world. Guys tend to rush things, they find a girl they like and bam 24/7 calls, texts and always wanting to hang out, you will cause her to run or worse see you as only a friend.

So lets review, get the girl on your romantic date, kiss the girl at some point and wait if she's really into you, she will be the one who calls you or texts you If you want to be romantic that's fine go for it, but you have to make a move on her, I'm not saying you have to have sex with her but I mean come on dimly lit room, fire in the fire place and you don't kiss her that's your own fault.

They love it as long as they like you and the action doesn't seem is 'contrived.'