How should you ask a VERY indecisive girl if she likes you?

It sounds like she likes you but isn't totally sure if she's ready to actually have a relationship. She's probably just nervous. It sounds like you are dealing with a really complex emotional girl. Trust me, she is just as confused as you are. She can't decide whether to give into her feelings or just wait it out. You are confused because she is confused. If a girl won't give you a straight answer its either because she's holding back or she just doesn't know anymore.

My advice to you is to ask her to see a movie. Just see if she wants to hang out with you. You don't have to make it a date but it might end up turning into one. Don't rush into anything and take it slow. If she likes you and I think she does, at some point she will end up just giving into her feelings.

You could also just be blunt and ask her if she likes you. It might help if you tell her you like her first so she knows there is no risk for rejection. I really think the best way to go though is the 2nd paragraph.

Ask her once and for all how she feels. If she likes you, that doesn't mean you have to jump into a relationship but if she has no interest then quit wasting your time. She may be indecisive but she can at least tell you rather or not she has feelings for you.

Ask her, and you can always give it like a, well since you haven't had a boyfriend before, maybe you can have a go with me, something like that. You should not force the issue if she doesn't want to however because it really is her decision.