Ok, I was dating this guy for a couple of months, went out had a great time great chemistry blah blah blah, then we both I think got scared or thought the other was playing games so we kinda both backed off each other, him more then me, anyways, its been like 2 mos since we've gone out, we have talked, but have not seen each other, so long story short, the other day we had plans to get together it didn't end up happening, so I told him the day after the broken plans that he won and the game was over and he was a good player and I gave him kudos for playing me so well, I told him game well played and good luck in the future and I was done, perfect I thought for him, I gave him an easy out basically, right? I mean I felt I did him a favor, I mean obviously, he didn't like me or he would have made time to see me (he owns his own company and is real busy) he told me that he should be getting a lot of free time coming up in the next few months, well I'm not gonna wait around and honestly I think he's just playing games, keeping me on a string, so anyways I told him he won (in a text) and game over, then he calls me after this, WHY? Anyways all he said when he called was if you want to talk to me you can call, I said nothing, he said nothing long pauses, then I said well ok bye and he said bye, why the call? What was he trying to say? Its seems like every time I try to pull away from this guy or tell him I'm done, he comes right back, he'll call me and try to smooth things over, why? And believe me he's no nice guy either, so that can't be it. Is it he is interested but right now really does not have the time? But we can all make time if we wanted to so, it just doesn't make sense, HELP any thoughts on this would be great.
There are a couple of reasons , for this, I'm sure you heard of the saying,"Don't know what you got till its gone". Or maybe you sending him that message wasn't part of his game plan, and it threw him off, the difference between rock and gold, is a piece of rock you can get anywhere and anytime so you don't value it, Gold on the other hand is harder to get hold off,and therefore its more valued. You need to become gold in his eyes,and watch him come running. Hope that helps (:
(Age:30 to 35)
When: 7 months ago
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