Is he being genuine about how he feels or is it just an excuse to say I’m not interested?
given these text;
-how recent was this relationship?
he's assured you that he's not talking to anyone, guys just need time to adjust and if he asks for time and space, give it to him instead of doing to opposite of overbearing him with messages because that route wouldn't end well.. i would personally suggest focusing on yourself and hanging out with your friends for now even though you may constantly think of him but thats normal and let him message or come up to you first,, he'll see how much fun you're having with your friends and would want to be a part of that^^ just my take on it anyways
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@cherrelle this snip it seems legit that he just wants to slow it down a bit. Maybe he really likes you and it's getting too real too quick. Good for him for regonzing he needs to slow it down. Just play it out to see how far back he pulls. If you're particular about your pick in men, then you should know if he is seeking out others. Most of us know our preference.
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For now I think it'd be unreasonable to assume he is lying or not saying what he means. He may be just having trouble with other stuff in his life right now and just wanting to take things slow as opposed to making an excuse. I'd say go ahead and trust him and if he steps back even further then maybe talk to him about how he feels about you
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I reckon he's being genuine. Give him the benefit of the doubt and give him some time to get himself sorted out.
I feel that he's honest with his feelings towards you but is having commitment issues since he didn't specify what problems he's having to you. This is a step a lot of men have trouble with, especially if they never been in a relationship before. Since he's still interested in talking to you, he may just want a slower approach to building up this relationship! If he stopped contacting you or sent you messages that made you feel uncomfortable, he would have lost interest in you. Hope this helps! :3
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It seems like he's trying to be honest with you. Guys get nervous too, and sometimes want to back off a little... Perhaps set a date a week away, and just check in briefly every couple of days.
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Perhaps he was referring "the ups and downs" as something other than the relationship and maybe more about other troubles in his life... men need some alone time to deal with such things, so I'd say not to be worried about his interest in you decreasing
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Probably being genuine, most guys retract from everything and shut themselves off.
He's probably done that unintentionally in the past and it ruined what relationship he could have had with that person, so now he's trying to be honest with you and letting you know. -
You can't know for sure what's going on in his life, only he knows how he feels about you. It could be either. Give him time and see how things go. Unless he's lied to you before trust him.
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He is being genuine.
But holy hell this is my worst fear to have my private conversations shared. I know it's normal thing that girls do to show what their boyfriends say. But I like my privacy -
He's playing games.
Based off those messages there's nothing major you were forcing onto him. So there's no validea reason for him to take things slower. -
Question, do you guys really send those hearts when you text? I almost threw up. Lol
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I see it as an excuse to back out but he is too nice to be honest to hurt your feelings.
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It means he isn’t interested unless you just want to fuck
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Well to be honest he likes you but he is worried of something plus busy also and as he said he will do what he said.
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Lol well, he does the heart emojis and the x's and didn't ghost you.. so he cares i think
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Could be either I would assume he is truthful unless he have proven himself a liar previously
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"I aren't speaking to anyone". Beautiful grammar.
He just has a lot of shit piled up, so he needs to concentrate on that shit than pussy at the moment. Or that what it sounds like. -
Jesus christ that conversation is just saturated in heart emojis
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He's just trying to figure if this is what he really wants
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He may be having second thoughts about commitment.
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Doesn't seem like he's lying
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Think he's telling the truth
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Does he have a thick wallet?
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Just sounds like he's really busy
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he is telling the truth just give the him a minute
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