Is he being genuine about how he feels or is it just an excuse to say I’m not interested?

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hkglcy621 · Accepted Answer

given these text;
-how recent was this relationship?
he's assured you that he's not talking to anyone, guys just need time to adjust and if he asks for time and space, give it to him instead of doing to opposite of overbearing him with messages because that route wouldn't end well.. i would personally suggest focusing on yourself and hanging out with your friends for now even though you may constantly think of him but thats normal and let him message or come up to you first,, he'll see how much fun you're having with your friends and would want to be a part of that^^ just my take on it anyways

AwesomeCookie · Accepted Answer

@cherrelle this snip it seems legit that he just wants to slow it down a bit. Maybe he really likes you and it's getting too real too quick. Good for him for regonzing he needs to slow it down. Just play it out to see how far back he pulls. If you're particular about your pick in men, then you should know if he is seeking out others. Most of us know our preference.

Kwixle · Accepted Answer

For now I think it'd be unreasonable to assume he is lying or not saying what he means. He may be just having trouble with other stuff in his life right now and just wanting to take things slow as opposed to making an excuse. I'd say go ahead and trust him and if he steps back even further then maybe talk to him about how he feels about you

PeekABooItsMe · Accepted Answer

I reckon he's being genuine. Give him the benefit of the doubt and give him some time to get himself sorted out.

Kyren · Accepted Answer

I feel that he's honest with his feelings towards you but is having commitment issues since he didn't specify what problems he's having to you. This is a step a lot of men have trouble with, especially if they never been in a relationship before. Since he's still interested in talking to you, he may just want a slower approach to building up this relationship! If he stopped contacting you or sent you messages that made you feel uncomfortable, he would have lost interest in you. Hope this helps! :3

shr12bu · Accepted Answer

It seems like he's trying to be honest with you. Guys get nervous too, and sometimes want to back off a little... Perhaps set a date a week away, and just check in briefly every couple of days.

Harsh_5299 · Answer

Perhaps he was referring "the ups and downs" as something other than the relationship and maybe more about other troubles in his life... men need some alone time to deal with such things, so I'd say not to be worried about his interest in you decreasing

RickRoss04 · Answer

Probably being genuine, most guys retract from everything and shut themselves off.

He's probably done that unintentionally in the past and it ruined what relationship he could have had with that person, so now he's trying to be honest with you and letting you know.

DanniK2000 · Answer

You can't know for sure what's going on in his life, only he knows how he feels about you. It could be either. Give him time and see how things go. Unless he's lied to you before trust him.

LordChaoticX · Answer

He is being genuine. But holy hell this is my worst fear to have my private conversations shared. I know it's normal thing that girls do to show what their boyfriends say. But I like my privacy

Coconut_Man · Answer

He's playing games.  Based off those messages there's nothing major you were forcing onto him. So there's no validea reason for him to take things slower.

Shutupman · Answer

Question, do you guys really send those hearts when you text? I almost threw up. Lol

missaquarian · Answer

I see it as an excuse to back out but he is too nice to be honest to hurt your feelings.

reptocarl · Answer

It means he isn’t interested unless you just want to fuck

Raajk1995 · Answer

Well to be honest he likes you but he is worried of something plus busy also and as he said he will do what he said.

aaaae2e · Answer

Lol well, he does the heart emojis and the x's and didn't ghost you.. so he cares i think

adolescentswede · Answer

Could be either I would assume he is truthful unless he have proven himself a liar previously

Anonymous · Answer

"I aren't speaking to anyone". Beautiful grammar.  He just has a lot of shit piled up, so he needs to concentrate on that shit than pussy at the moment. Or that what it sounds like.

Anonymous · Answer

Jesus christ that conversation is just saturated in heart emojis

jay_21_ · Answer

He's just trying to figure if this is what he really wants

HANAZAWA · Answer

He may be having second thoughts about commitment.

tk42jm · Answer

Doesn't seem like he's lying

jesse1997 · Answer

Think he's telling the truth

Nandor · Answer

Does he have a thick wallet?

Flower-petal · Answer

Just sounds like he's really busy

RumEro · Answer

he is telling the truth just give the him a minute

Mrking · Answer

Guess he is telling truth, Give h him time.

CoffeeWC · Answer

I think he's being genuine.

that_boy_rahul · Answer

Finally, When two mad people met together 🖤

BlueWiZ · Answer

Looks legit to me.

BeJaayorNoWaay · Answer

He seems genuine.

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