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I have been hanging out with this guy for a few weeks. The weird thing is I feel so comfortable around him. I feel like I can tell him anything without all the reservations. He told me that he feels comfortable around me too and can talk to me. I'm used to getting all nervous and "butterflies" around someone I like. There are a few times where I might get the "butterfly" feeling but not a whole lot. Is this a bad thing?
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That's not at all a bad thing. I started a friendship with a guy a few years ago where I was completely comfortable with him. As it turned out, I kinda sorta fell in love with him...(And I'm talking earth shattering realization of loving him, kind of love.) Now I linger somewhere between friends and something more at the moment. (All he has to do is ask me a certain question.) Being comfortable around him from the beginning was a great thing. It helped me to get to know the real him and it allowed me to let him get to know the real me.
I hope this helps...and I wish you the best of luck, whatever you may feel.
Thanks so much! You are right about getting to know the real him. Usually I hold things back from a guy because I'm not comfortable with him but I feel like I can tell this guy anything.
No, it's not bad.
In fact, it might be good to start a relationship on a different note. That butterflies/infatuated feeling often goes away, leaving people disappointed. So building a more gradual kind of connection can be a great way to begin.
I never thought of it like that. Excellent answer. Thanks! :-)
Not at all, most people would very much desire to meet someone they seemingly click so well with in the early going. It sounds like things are off to a good start, see how things go from here. Good luck!
Thanks so much! :-)