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She was interested, but now seems distant?

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mike101 (Age:25 to 29)     When: 9 months ago
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I work with someone that showed interest in me (brushing against me, laughing at my jokes, curling hair with finger etc . ) but now seem real distant .

We only see each other once a week, but she's been away lately and when I see her next time, it will be a month since our last contact . I IMed her on 4 occasions, the first two occasions, she ignored . The 3rd occasion, we talked for about 15 mins and then she had to "go do some work . Later <3" . I waited a week to contact her again (4th occasion) asking her if she's coming in to work tomorrow since she's been away for so long . As I was typing the msg, she put on her away msg "going out" . I sent my msg about 2 mins afterwards and set my away msg on as well .

About an hour later, she replies with just "yup" . (I did not leave yet) . I replied back saying "its about time, haven't seen you in forever" . Then about 2 mins after, she signs off ! Then 2 mins after that, she signs back on .

I didn't msg her again . I'm not sure what's going on anymore . She seemed so interested before, but now it seems like she's not anymore .

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deadwait (Age:25 to 29)      When: 9 months ago
She's not sure what she wants

Chances are you were not the ONLY GUY she was doing this with - she could very well have hooked up with someone else - OR - she heard a nasty rumor about you.

The only way some pathetic guys can compete, is by spreading lies - happens to me all the time.
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Superstrength79 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 9 months ago
I think you missed your window. She was giving you the signals that she was interested, and you didn't take action.

Take it as a lesson learned, or go up and flat out say that you are interested in her without any doubt in your mind.
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Smittymd (Age:25 to 29)      When: 9 months ago
I would take the hints and move on . She is trying to ignore you it seems like to me, so just do yourself a favor and move on . Who really knows what she is thinking least of all probably her . You will most likely be better off without her . Good Luck Buddy
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