My boyfriend saw me peeing!!

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Okay so me and my boyfriend have been dating for a little over a year and we love each other and yes have sex lol.  Okay so he sleeps at me house every night I don't work and I was on my way home from driving around having a smoke with my friend and talking and I had to pee SO bad! Me and my boyfriend were texting and he said he'd be at my house around 11 well he is always late so as I ran in my house I looked at the time it was 1106 I ran to the bathroom and having to pee so bad I didn't shut the door next thing I know I look over and my boyfriend was standing in front of the door we both looked at each other in shock...yes he has heard me pee but never watched it ha ha we didn't say anything about it when I came out of the bathroom and still haven't.  Does he think different of me? Was he disgusted? I'm mortified! We both are very private when it comes to those things.

ryanontario · Accepted Answer

honestly I don't think it matters , like I was at a party the other day and when waiting in line to use the washroom heard this girl from work pee , now it all didn't bother me or did I really care at the time anyways . it all wasn't really that important I though at the time or change how I view her

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I used to be extremely shy about peeing with other people around.  I just couldn't do it!  But my girlfriend wasn't shy so I eventually got over it.  Now we don't even close the door and will walk in and/or talk to each other when 'using the bathroom'. It is kind of liberating!

sassy88 · Accepted Answer

im sorry when I read this I died laughing..girl chill everyone pee's if you can have sex with him and see him naked and him see you naked..its okay to pee in front of him,if he thought it was gross or wack he wouldn't of stood there

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Whats the problem your just peeing I've peed in fount of guys before that I hardly know its not something to be embarrassed about when you gotta go you gotta go.

HopeIessRomantik · Accepted Answer

Well, if you guys have sex with each other, how bad could peeing be? There are those guys that have those fantasies with golden showers ;) hahaha jks

Snorkledorf · Answer

I'll take a wild guess and venture that he'd already figured out that you have a urinary system. Chances are that he has one too, though you'd have to verify that for yourself...

Don't worry about it. The shock of being seen is way bigger than the shock of seeing so I'm sure he's fine about it. If you've been dating for a while he's got lots of more intimate images of you than that too, so you don't have to worry about blown first impressions either.

BrettH · Answer

lol really its not that big of a deal my girlfriend is the type that won't even text if she's in the bathroom I saw her pee and she's seen me pee.. its nothing really big we all have to do it.. yea its noth something you always wanna see but it really shouldent be that big of  adeal. you will have to deal with a lot worse if you two are together when ur old together... I mean who else is gonna change ur diaper when ur in you 80's hehe

pwl0lwp · Answer

if he stayed there watching maybe he was fascinated or even  a little turned on ;) i wouldn't stress it: it's a demonstration of intimacy; compared to what's involved in sex it's pretty mundane

cjwright79 · Answer

Just... break up with him if this is such a big deal. Or, you could grow a spine and understand that everybody pees.

bob4allyourneeds · Answer

all men are turned on watching a girl pee. I can tell you that he was very turned on seeing you pee. I bet if you think back that the sex that night was very hot.  If you really want to turn him on, sometime when you are out in the middle of nowhere tell him you have to pee and let him watch you peeing outdoors. I promise the sex that night will be so amazing.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes. He's been your boyfriend for a year, but since he saw you pee it's all over. Great job. Chill girl. Its not a big deal, would you break up with him if you saw him pee?

WeaponZero · Answer

He probably doesn't care one bit one way or the other.  You're overreacting.

lv4lv · Answer

So you pee'd. He saw you. You've had sex... I don't see the problem here... Anyone wanna fill me in? >.<

larry69 · Answer

I think you are fine..I have seen other things and none of it bothers me these are natural functions

jackflynn7 · Answer

It should mean nothing.  Common in marriage.

Bad-girl · Answer

get over it its not a big deal

Telemusik · Answer

Maybe he liked it ?

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