I feel like my girlfriend doesn't put me first like how I put her. She says I'm everything but she doesn't make me feel like it. I feel like I deserve better because I'm so good to her, I would die for her. But it feels like she knows I'm there so she doesn't care. She says one thing and does the other. It hurts so bad. Do you think I'm just being silly?
You just need to sit her down and tell her how you feel. Tell her look if you say you want to be with me and you love me then you need to show me that. If not, then you don't feel like we are the perfect match. Remind her that you put her first before everything and she seems like she doesn't want you first in her life.
If she does say you are everything, then that must mean you are. Maybe she is not showing her love to you for a reason. You need to talk to her about it. It's not easy for many girls to show the person they care about the most that they do actually care. I am also like this. For me it's really hard to let out my feelings. I'm sure it's because I wouldn't want to open up to someone I'm not sure that truly loves me. She probably isn't convinced about how you feel. So she is holding back.
If you want her to care for u, then stop caring for her, or at least stop showing that you care for her at times. She'll miss the affection, and start to return the affection in order to get it in return. When she does this, you can then reward her with some of your own. That's how you can make her show how much she cares.
Nope. I feel the same way about this girl I am dating. It seems the only way that she shows any emotion is if I say I am leaving or don't call for a couple of days. I am seriously thinking about getting out of it. I am giving her some time to ponder my ultimatums that I have laid out for her about what I need out of a relationship and must have.
I met this girl on the internet nearly a year, but only started talk a lot for 4-5months(like 4-5hrs a day, everyday), we never met in real life....
View Answers
There is this one girl that I like that I sit next to in a couple classes. She's just an overall nice person and I'm not really sure if she's into me...
View Answers
Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
My ideal first date would be to do something my date and I like. So if my date is into sports, we could go to a basketball or football game and since I'm a movie freak we could go to the movies afterwards and then finish up with dinner. I would wear casual clothes, jeans and a nice t-shirt. The date could end at my doorstep, the next date he might be able to come in.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
Afterwards, my date would know a lot about. They would know about what I like to do for fun, they would know my favorites. I would tell them about my family and my lifestyle. I won't tell everything because there wouldn't anything left to tell on the next date.
(Age:18 to 24)
When: 11 months ago
Site Links
About GirlsAskGuys
GirlsAskGuys Widgets
Help Us Improve!
