I'm about 179cm...
So short is to me when she is 20-25cm shorter than me, and that's real short. (cute and petite)
As with everything I cannot expect something of the appearence from the girl I am 'possibly' falling in love with, and I prefer not to do so. Eventhough its really tempting sometimes to picturing my "dream girlfriend". Even if I try to, there are so many pictuers appearing in my mind, that I cannot really sum exactly how my "dream" girlfriend would look like.
But sure I do have a "kinda" ideal height for a girl, she should be a bit shorter than me, whether its 1.5cm or 15cm I concider it as a "ideal" height. Or maybe at the same height, it doesn't matter. But it'll be harder to fit into my pre-visually ideal if she is taller/much taller than me, cause usually tall girls isn't my thing. But maybe someday I'll change my mind(?) who knows =)00 Reply
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+1 yI remember reading how the general psychological choice (now this is just general, not always) is that males find a mate who is around 0.7 of their height to be most attractive. It's a ratio (1-0.7) so any height can do. Also there are many couples who DON'T satisfy this ratio, it's just a subtle trend thing.
As for actual heights, I think (I Think) somewhere around 5'6" - 5'9" is average and any shorter or taller is, well, shorter or taller.
But it's also personal; If a guy's short (say, 5'7") he's not just looking around for a girl who's shorter and satisfies the ratio, he's also looking at girls that are as tall as, or taller than him. For me, being 6'2", I like shorter girls, but if I met a tall girl (my height or even taller) I wouldn't be adverse to dating her.44 Reply- +1 y
That means if you are 6 feet tall your ideal mate is 4 foot 2. 72 inches : 50 inches. That's not right at all haha
i'd say 1-.9 , 6 foot guy with 5 foot 6 girl. - +1 y
Hmmm, guess the ratio wasn't 1 - 0.7..... yeah, you're probably right. There was an actual ratio, I just couldn't remember what it was.
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The .7-1.7 ratio you're referring to is the number of std deviations below the mean height of women that's considered most appealing. In general, I've heard that people are most attracted to individuals within 10% of their height. Ex. I'm 5'6" (66 in.) so 10% of my height would be 6.6". Based on this formula, my "ideal" guy would be (66"+6.6"=72.6"=) 6'0.5"
For a 6' (72 in.) tall guy, 10% of his height would be 7.2" so his "ideal" height in a partner would be around 5'5". - +1 y
Thank you,
+1 yJust be happy and confident with your height. Don't hate on small women and call them chowawas like the other poster - don't hate on tall women and call them amazons either.
5'4 is actually the average height for a woman.
I am only 5'1, and it has been hard but I've learnt to embrace my size and just laugh it off if people make fun of me. Confidence is sexy no matter what height.41 Reply- +1 y
ya I am so confused about my height cause there are people like you which by the way (I wish I was your height or a little taller) but I am 5'5 and some guys call me tall and others call me short so what ever I am confused lol
+1 ylol I'm 6ft my boyfriend is like 6'3 it is rough finding tall guys but mostly they don't care usually they're like I looove long sexy legs and when your short its cute and adorable so you can't really go wrong either tall and sexy or short and cute :) plus lucky you can wear any heels and fit into kids sizes lol
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yIm a 16 year old girl and im 5'8 and 113 pounds and I think most men like 5'8 and lower but it dosent matter about what your height or weight is love is love it comes in all shapes and sizes!!! ( and if your a tall girl like 5'8 or taller and someone says your to tall say "well your to short" ) !!! :)
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5’6-5’9 is the Goldilocks zone!
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I would prefer to date girls who were chest height, so do the math. I'm 6'0 you're 5'4, so you would be around a guy that size shoulder height. It depends on the guy because some guys are 5'4 so a girls your size would be too tall. 5'4 for a guy my size is perfect anything under 5 feet may be a problem. So average sized guy likes girls between 5'0 and 5'7. Short- under 5 feet average or preferable between 5'0- 5'7. acceptable 5'8-5'10 too tall 5'11 and up. It would be different for a guy lets say shaqs size. But for the average guy this is best, so you are just fine the way you are. Guys don't like girls as tall or nearly as tall as them.
10 Reply5'3 and below is short (girls that height are my kryptonite I love them)
5'4- 5'8 is average usuly the ones who look good in everything
5'9-6'0 is tall always the ones the other 2 groups envy for their height
6'1 + is Amazon woman and kinda scares me..
i love almost all heights of women and have happily dated women of all size shape and personality. but I have to say that fun sized is the best to me so all the girls under 5'0 and over 18.. call me...lol jk60 Reply
+1 yI've noticed if you don't make a big deal about height girls won't either.. If you are not confident then you tend to always choose smaller girls.. I personally don't find short girls attractive. Sorry. I'm 5'7 successful guy with some resources. So, I date girls that are at least my height or taller. I like tall gorgeous women by my side. They look amazing in anything from cocktail dress to workout gear. Last weekend I met a 6 foot blonde and brunette both with beauty queen like proportions one was a model. Both stunningly beautiful. Things are going good with one of them so we shall see.
If you have the opportunity and the balls, date a tall beautiful woman like 5"11 or so. It feels like you stepped out of a Lamborghini. ;-)11 Reply- +1 y
see i am so confused because i know girls like 5'2 and i know girl taller then 5'10 and i am 5'5 and guy will call me tall then another guy will call me short so i dont know if i am tall or short lol
male 5'9"
female 5'4"
I consider those averages ideal.Two or three inches shorter or taller may be considered short or tall, depending on build and general appearance (some can tend to look more or less than actual). Generally I would consider two inches difference to still be average (perhaps 25-75 percentile or half of everyone is two inches more or less than average).10 Reply
+1 yI'd say short is below five four, medium is below five eight, but above the short range, and tall is anything else. As far as the ideal height... I really don't know. I've dated women that were five eleven and 4 eleven, both of which were very attractive young women... I think normally I'm attracted to girls around 5 foot sixish. In the end personality trumps all height discrepancies.
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I'm 5;6 and I always found myself too tall for a girl
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@Cloud_9Gurl I am 5ft6, and i have the impression that i am toot tall, and i can't even were 2inch heels without feeling too tall :D
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If anything, 5’6 is just shy of ideal. 5’7-5’9 is ideal!
i don't know I kinda got a thing for really short girls. that said I have also been out with really tall girls that were also beautiful. Don't really matter. I am a short guy and that doesn't make me any less of a man, though some women would never go out with me because of that. because of that I don't think I could discriminate women as either too tall or too short
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+1 yas long as you're not short enough to technically be considered a dwarf or midget or so tall that I'm looking at your belly button, it's fine with me. I don't have an ideal height and I don't see why people obsess over it.
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+1 yI love being short! I'm 5'0 and I love it, people always tell me it's cute and it just generally makes me feel cute, especially when I'm in sweatpants. Not to mention I can always wear whatever heels I want and not be taller than most guys
10 Replyi am 4' 10.2" and my guy is 5'10" and I love it, I feel safe and protected with him, I like to walk on the curb while he walks just off the curb, makes us closer height wise lol!
everyone mocks my height though :(10 Reply
+1 yUm i guess 5'0 is good? or below that i guess is short :/ but a girl thats is 5'2 or 5'3 is very cute i like short girls cuz my gf when ever she wants to kiss me she jumps on me and i hold her by the hips and we kiss and i think thats really cute. I mean EVERY tall boy needs a short girl ;)
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yMost men in the world are in height range 175-185 and women 160-170 so yeah thats it but end of the day height hardly equals love or lust at 5'10" i love looking at girs close to my heigbt and even shorter. Also in men, some great looking heartthrobs have been 5'7"-
00 Reply5' 4" is a nice height. A little on the short side, but there's nothing wrong with that.
I've dated girls as short as 4' 10" and as tall as 6' 1".
I'm most naturally attracted to girls on the shorter end of the spectrum.11 Reply- +1 y
Same i like short girls because they are cute and when u want to kiss them you have to pick her up and place her in a "position" to kiss her. i find that really cute and How they struggle everyday because they are short is like so cute and Tall girls well i kinda like them but if they are too tall then nah im good :/
Anonymous(36-45)+1 yI am 6ft tall 200 pounds and I love short girl, around 5ft is the best! When I see a short girl its a HUGE turn on, I just want to grabe her over my shoulder with one arms and bring her home! you can grabe her easily, this is just... wow! yea!
Short girl have also nice curves over her bodie, that hot.20 Reply
+1 yit actually depends on how the tall the guy is and what the guy likes for himself
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yit depends on the guy like if he's 6'5 he will want a shorter girl and if like the girl is 5 feet she will want a taller guy
usually if the guy is taller and the girl is shorter it works out for both
like 5'4 and under would be short to me and 5'4 to 5'11 would be average and 6 and over would be tall to me because I'm 6ft10 ReplyBetween 5' and 5'6" would be ideal for me. I can deal with 6' but much taller then that and I got to stand on my toes to kiss her.
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I like girls to be the same height as me give or take a couple inches, and I love it when they wear heels!
+1 yim 6 ft 1
Ideal for a girl would be around 5ft 8.
Basically, slightly taller and fit but curvy.20 Reply
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+1 yUmm, basically not like insanely short (like 5'2" and under) or crazy tall (5'11" and up) is fine. lol
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5'11 isn't crazy tall. LOL. Have you never seen a woman over 6 foot?
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hahaha I guess I'm insanely short jeez
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I'm 5'6... I guess I'm ok then
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5’6 is just shy of ideal! 5’7-5’9 is ideal!
+1 yI'm just 5ft. I'm short and stumpy and I really don't like it. But a lot of guys like small girls (height wise) my BFF is 6ft and her fiance is 6.3ft. he loves it because he doesn't have to bend down to kiss her.
00 ReplyI'd prefer a half to a full head shorter than me personally. 5' 0" to 5' 6" for me personally.
10 ReplyI prefer 4'8-5'0 but I don't get turned off by height until 5'11-6'0, since I am only 5'8
10 ReplyI'm 5'9'' and I personally prefer anything under that, but below 5'4'' would make some things hard
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+1 yAnything goes, as long as the girl is adult.
5'4" is OK (my wife is 5ft.)30 Reply
+1 yI’m 5’2 what category do I fall into I’m usually into taller guys too
00 Replyi dont like "cute" heights basically.
cuteness in girls isn;t my thing00 Reply
+1 yShe has to be taller then 5 foot and she can't be much taller then me.
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+1 yi wish I would be the cute height! where you can nestle in a short guys arms. 5'9" is not "cute"
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5"9' might not be "cute" but it's probably sexy? Haha I'm sure most guys like a woman once in awhile. Not a chowawa Girlfriend :P haha....Besides Us tall woman should feel sturdy considering most men can't pick us up and crush us like a paper cup, or punt us like footballs. LOL.
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5'9" is good. Embrace your height. I'm crushing on a gal that's about that height from what I can guess. Mm... legs
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ya I am 5'5 so I am not super short but my frame is so small it is awfull I only weight 105 pounds and guy legit just pick me up like I am a fairy or somthing like the other day a guy just picked me up ad passed me to my other guy friend and then he set me down like wtf what
+1 yPersonally I like taller girls, around 5'9 and up ( I'm 5'2)
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+1 yI'm 6'7" so I have a hard time dating a girl under 5'8". The taller the better, I say. ;)
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+1 yl am a midget and l am sick and tired been slaped on the head by girls and guys all my other parts are fine and in working order l am male 4 foot 1 inch
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+1 yshort is just 3 inches or so lower than ur guy.
if you are a really short girl then guys that are short will really like you bcz most other girls overlook them because of their height, and they feel comfortable with u00 Replywell it depends on how tall the guy is I'm 5"8 so any thing under that is cool with me ;)
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What if she was 5’8-5’9? Is that a deal breaker for you?
um... under 5'4" or someone that when they stand next to me, their head is below my neck
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+1 yShort is below 5’4. Average is 5’4-5’5. Above average is 5’6-5’7. Tall is 5’8-5’9. Very tall is 5’10+
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Ideal would be 5’5-5’9!
+1 yI'm 5'6 so I'm not sure if I'm tall or short or average
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+1 yShort (to me) is 5'2" and below. Tall (to me is 5'7") and above.
I'm 5'4"00 Reply short is under 5'1 ... 5'4 is an ok height... my ideal since I am tall..is 5'8
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+1 yShort is under 5’4. Average is 5’4 to 5’6. 5’7 and up is tall. I prefer girls 5’6-5’9. I’m 5’8
00 ReplyI am 5'5 and i still think I'm tall, do you think it's a psychology thing?
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If anything you’re not tall enough. 5’6-5’9 is the perfect height for girls!
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I am 5'5 and lots of people will call me tall but there are girls that are like 5'10 around then they call me short and there are like 5'2 girls around and it is like wtf what am I and people always say oh I am calling you tall because your still growing but I awhile back i broke my wrist and the doctor said my growth plate had closed so I am not growing anymore lol but whatever lol
height isn't really a big deal to me. as long as she's not taller then me, I'm fine.
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yWell since i΄m 5΄3 i admire girls that are taller like 5΄7 or 5΄9 any taller in my opinion is too much...
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I am also 5.3 and in our country its considered an average height. But I think its short :(
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Yes 5’6-5’9 is the Goldilocks zone for girls!
+1 y5'4 is a perfect height, the smaller the better.
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Ewwww. That's creepy. Sorry.
Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yWhat defines a cute girl and a pretty girl to guys?
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+1 yI'm 6'2"
Girls between 5'10" and 5'4" are aces.11 Reply
+1 ypost pics and i'll eval u.
00 ReplyIm 5'5, 17 years old and I feel short.
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5’5 is the upper end of average, you’re fine
+1 y5'4 to 5'6
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 y5'2". 100 lbs is nice
@ 5'4' 110 lbs00 Reply
Anonymous(30-35)+1 y@allthinit123 how tall are you
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yAnything under 5"8 is considered short I'm 5"2
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