Am I leading her on?

[daddy]

I have been just hooking up with a girl for almost a year now. I won't ever want more than that from her but I know she is in love with me. Am I leading her on?

[UltraDramatic]

If she knows beyond any doubt that you don't want to get into a relationship with her beyond the occasional hookup (and by "beyond a doubt", I mean you've told her point blank so that there's no possibility of confusion), then no, you're not leading her on. If you haven't said anything, then you need to before it's too late.

Also, if you feel that she will end up hurt if you don't change the parameters of your relationship, you need to end things with her right now. If left alone, things can only get worse.

[KerrieRuss]

Yes you are, and it is the men like you that make good women scared of relationships and have low selfesteem because they start to feel like they are worth no more then a booty call. You should be assamed of your self. What if it were your sister or your neice that some guy was doing that to? How would you feel? Just be honest with her and tell her that you don't have the same feelings as she does and you feel it would be best if you both moved on.

[Anonymous]

you're a jerk.

you know you are leading her on you just don't care. I hate guys like you. how did she just magically fall in love with you? obviously you are doing something to lead her to believe there is something more. I hope a girl uses you for material gain so you know how it feels. if she is just a booty call then you should make that clear and obvious not play her

[ladyredbone]

YES.. If you are still talking to her and you KNOW that she has feelings for you in her head, since you keep takin her back, she is thinking that you really care about her. So really that's dumb on your part

[MsVirginChica]

Yes you shouldnt stay with her if all you want and it isn't going anywhere because of you. She'll want out eventually if you keep it up and chances are you WILL want her back

[nicole]

Yes. If you are with her, she thinks there is a chance you will always be with her. Even if you tell her otherwise, a piece of her will believe you are meant to be together forever.

[420Honey]

You know what kerrie is so right. Like I just can't believe how niave you act about it. Did you hit your head hard enough to not use common sense.

[420Honey]

Did you tell her that? If you didnt, then of course you're leading her on.

[Anonymous]

I think you answered your own question. You need to tell her how it is before you do serious damage to her you idiot!

[crazngirl]

Yes, because you two are (were) together for a year

[Anonymous]

Not only are you leading her on you are using her for sex. Most likely if you told her she would never be any thing more to you than a booty call , she would dump your dumb ass.

[lonelygirl]

As long as you're clear with her that you will never want to be more than "friends with benefits", then it's not necessarily leading her on. Just make SURE she knows that you are just in it for the sex, so she doesn't set herself up for a heartbreak.

[innocentkiss]

Omg. Yes you are. That's mean and it will hurt. You gotta let her go.

[ajayhemant]

How do you know that she is not doing the same to you!

[Anonymous]

Yes, you are.