What was it like being the dumper for the first time?

I'm usually the dumpee but for the first time in my life, I walked away from someone. Even though I know it was the right decision to make, it feels super weird not having them around and I find myself questioning if I could've solved things differently.


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  • It doesn't feel good. But you do feel more in control of the situation, which isn't necessarily satisfying but you can keep yourself from getting AS emotional about it.

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What Guys Said 2

  • Strange. I felt like I made a huge mistake and almost tried to get back with her. Until I heard from a mutual friend that she was planning to break up anyway..

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  • Great. No issues with pretending to like someone anymore. Also she still liked me so we kept up the sexual part of our relationship.

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What Girls Said 2

  • shitty. mostly because i felt bad for him. i had no more romantic feelings for him but he cried.. i felt terrible

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  • I was in a six year relationship three years ago. I was the dumper and I felt like absolute shit for a few months but, I was tired of playing second fiddle and I just wasn't in love with him anymore. Sometimes I still question myself but overall, I have no regrets.

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