Trying to place myself into that guy's mind and lack of morals, getting away with stuff so close to being found out, self-serving passion, deal making - a one way street. What would he do is the question, not judging the events that led to this dilemma ...
He would first call you a liar as a cover, then jealous, then whatever it would take to pull the wool over his fiancée/your Boyfriend (call her Deb) eyes. If this works, then he has nothing further to do AND may continue (after a brief calming spell) to f*** you at will, even in the same honeymoon hotel.
If that doesn't work, then he must remove you from his world while he suffers the consequences (including no sex - so grumpy he becomes) and rehabilitation (oooh, now he's really steamed), then comes being disrespected as the turd he is - he's boiling mad now and wanting for blood.
Certainly in the latter case, but applies to both scenarios - you should leave town immediately.
You are not safe. Even if you don't smell fire today, soon you will be ambushed & burned beyond your nightmares. This pattern suggests yet another candidate for prison, one that does not fear it, so often has he avoided being found out.
Leave town!
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If you cared about her that much you wouldn't have never cheated with him. that's really messy on your part and it makes you look bad and like you want to break them up so you can try to be with him. I say leave it alone now..because that was wrong of you to tell on him when you are the one cheating with him...and by the way it takes 2 people to cheat so if you let him then its not only his fault its yours too
If you knew it was wrong and you were really happy for them like you said you wouldn't have let it happen. Its not only his fault its yours too for sleeping with him while knowing he's about to get married, you're clearly not over him. If he threatens you or tries something call the cops!
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how can you tell her he is cheating when your the one he is cheating on her with.you almost set yourself up for this because it seems like you didn't think it through at all,so its definately not all his fault and don't say he made you because that's rape and you would be at the police station filing out a form rather than telling us you messed up,im not taking sides and sorry if that offends you but youve got no one to blame but yourself,if you really think he will do something then get a restraining order but it probably won't get granted on the grounds you want it on.hope everything works out
Either you leave town,
call the police
or admit this was all a good drama/spoof - for like a writing course in college... and more physically! Wait until he gets his hands on you. Even I'm scared now!
He'll get you over there to save him, then change his mind and kill you?
Haven't you packed yet?
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