- I found an earring in his room (not mine). his reply was that it could have been a previous ex's or a fling from way back when he was single. he said he was rummaging through his top draw of bedside table and it might have fallen out. he then tried to comfort me, and started asking me to go through his stuff and check. I said I didn't want too. he then said look there's a note here from when I lived with my ex interstate from 3 years ago. (he really does hoard a lot of random crap). when I asked y he still had that he said, she cheated on him he put all his furniture and crap in his car and drove back home to his own state. and he said he hasn't cleaned out the cabinet since. I believed him. but we had broken up a week before and we were kind of on a break for a week and I had worried he went off then. he said no y would I bring home a girl I live with my parents they would no we were fighting".
to be fair I have often recently become very jealous and insecure that he might be cheating on me. he has a lot of female friends and most of them he has slept with in the past. he says he doesn't want to be rude and not say hi if we bump into them in public but he doesn't want me going. who was that I bet you slept with her too. but I don't always do that, its when the girl looks at me she gives me these dagger looks and I ask him and he will then say yeah I did in the past.
its uncomfortable because before I was with him I was a virgin so I guess I don't get it.
I'm just curious why he always gets so defensive when I ask him about it, since he was cheated on a couple of times in both his last 2 relationships I would have thought he didn't want me feeling anxious that he might.
every time I start feeling more comfortable and trusting another thing like the earring incident will pop up again.
i think I don't trust him atm becuase we broke up recently have been fighting heaps and a couple of months before he broke up with me he said he didn't love me. and since being back together he said he doesn't want a full on serious relationship right now, but I am his girlfriend and we are exclusive.
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to be fair I have often recently become very jealous and insecure that he might be cheating on me. he has a lot of female friends and most of them he has slept with in the past. he says he doesn't want to be rude and not say hi if we bump into them in public but he doesn't want me going. who was that I bet you slept with her too. but I don't always do that, its when the girl looks at me she gives me these dagger looks and I ask him and he will then say yeah I did in the past.
its uncomfortable because before I was with him I was a virgin so I guess I don't get it.
I'm just curious why he always gets so defensive when I ask him about it, since he was cheated on a couple of times in both his last 2 relationships I would have thought he didn't want me feeling anxious that he might.
every time I start feeling more comfortable and trusting another thing like the earring incident will pop up again.
i think I don't trust him atm becuase we broke up recently have been fighting heaps and a couple of months before he broke up with me he said he didn't love me. and since being back together he said he doesn't want a full on serious relationship right now, but I am his girlfriend and we are exclusive.
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